The better you treat a person. Why is this happening, the better you treat and respect a person, the more you get the opposite. Why the more you do good, the worse they treat you

If at your core you are a good-natured and philanthropic person, you must be familiar with the rule: "Do not do good - you will not get evil." Why is it hard to deny this fact? If you were also tormented by this question, why is this happening, I advise you to read this article, in it you will find answers to these questions.

One day, a young stranger knocked on the door of the old sage, who, bursting into tears, told the old man her story.

I don’t know how I can continue to live ... - she said with trepidation in her voice. - All my life I have treated people the way I would like them to treat me, I was sincere with them and opened my soul to them ... If possible, I tried to do good to everyone, not expecting anything in return, I helped as much as I could. I really did all this for free, but in return I received evil and ridicule. I am hurt to the point of pain and I am simply tired ... I beg you, tell me, what should I do?

The wise man listened patiently and then gave the girl advice:

Strip naked and walk completely naked through the streets of the city,” the old man said calmly.

I'm sorry, but I haven't gotten to that point yet... You must be crazy or kidding! If I do this, I don’t know what to expect from passers-by ... You look, someone else will dishonor or abuse me ...

The sage suddenly got up, opened the door and placed a mirror on the table.

You are ashamed to go out into the street naked, but for some reason you are not at all ashamed to walk through the world with a naked soul, open like this door, wide open. You let everyone there who is not lazy. Your soul is a mirror, which is why we all see ourselves reflected in other people. Their soul is full of evil and vices - they see just such an ugly picture when they look into your pure soul. They lack the strength and courage to admit that you are better than them and change. Unfortunately, this is only for the truly brave...

What should I do? How can I change this situation if, in fact, nothing depends on me? - asked the beauty.

Come on, come with me, I'll show you something... Look, this is my garden. For many years now I have been watering these flowers of unprecedented beauty and taking care of them. To be honest, I have never seen the buds of these flowers bloom. All that I had to contemplate are beautiful blooming flowers that beckon with their beauty and fragrant aroma.

Child, learn from nature. Look at these wonderful flowers and do as they do - open your heart to people carefully so that no one even notices. Open your heart to good people. Get away from those who cut off your petals, throw them under your feet and trample on them. These weeds haven't grown up to you yet, so you can't help them. In you, they will only see an ugly reflection of themselves.

It happens to almost everyone when you are to a person with an open heart, and he turns his back in response. People do not want to see our good deeds, and if you want to sincerely help someone, he will also spit in your soul. At such moments, we ask ourselves the question: “What am I guilty of? What did I do wrong?" Why is this happening? You will find the answer in this instructive parable.

One day, a young stranger knocked on the door of the old sage, who, bursting into tears, told the old man her story.

I don’t know how I can continue to live ... - she said with trepidation in her voice. - All my life I have treated people the way I would like them to treat me, I was sincere with them and opened my soul to them ... If possible, I tried to do good to everyone, not expecting anything in return, I helped as much as I could. I really did all this for free, but in return I received evil and ridicule. I am hurt to the point of pain and I am simply tired ... I beg you, tell me, what should I do?

The wise man listened patiently and then gave the girl advice:

Strip naked and walk completely naked through the streets of the city,” the old man said calmly.

I'm sorry, but I haven't gotten to that point yet... You must be crazy or kidding! If I do this, I don’t know what to expect from passers-by ... You look, someone else will dishonor or abuse me ...

The sage suddenly got up, opened the door and placed a mirror on the table.

You are ashamed to go out into the street naked, but for some reason you are not at all ashamed to walk through the world with a naked soul, open like this door, wide open. You let everyone there who is not lazy. Your soul is a mirror, which is why we all see ourselves reflected in other people. Their soul is full of evil and vices - they see just such an ugly picture when they look into your pure soul. They lack the strength and courage to admit that you are better than them and change. Unfortunately, this is only for the truly brave...

What should I do? How can I change this situation if, in fact, nothing depends on me? - asked the beauty.

Come on, come with me, I'll show you something... Look, this is my garden. For many years now I have been watering these flowers of unprecedented beauty and taking care of them. To be honest, I have never seen the buds of these flowers bloom. All that I had to contemplate are beautiful blooming flowers that beckon with their beauty and fragrant aroma.

Child, learn from nature. Look at these wonderful flowers and do as they do - open your heart to people carefully so that no one even notices. Open your heart to good people. Get away from those who cut off your petals, throw them under your feet and trample on them. These weeds haven't grown up to you yet, so you can't help them. In you, they will only see an ugly reflection of themselves.

If you are a kind person by nature, then you probably know the Golden Rule: "Do not do good - you will not get evil." Unfortunately, it works almost always, but why does it happen? If this question at least once appeared in your head, then I strongly advise you to read this parable, in it you will find the answer, and most importantly, you will understand how to live with the injustice of the world.

One day, a young stranger knocked on the door of the old sage, who, bursting into tears, told the old man her story.

I don’t know how I can continue to live ... - she said with trepidation in her voice. - All my life I have treated people the way I would like them to treat me, I was sincere with them and opened my soul to them ... If possible, I tried to do good to everyone, not expecting anything in return, I helped as much as I could. I really did all this for free, but in return I received evil and ridicule. I am hurt to the point of pain and I am simply tired ... I beg you, tell me, what should I do?

The wise man listened patiently and then gave the girl advice:

Strip naked and walk completely naked through the streets of the city,” the old man said calmly.

I'm sorry, but I haven't gotten to that point yet... You must be crazy or kidding! If I do this, I don’t know what to expect from passers-by ... You look, someone else will dishonor or abuse me ...

The sage suddenly got up, opened the door and placed a mirror on the table.

You are ashamed to go out into the street naked, but for some reason you are not at all ashamed to walk through the world with a naked soul, open like this door, wide open. You let everyone there who is not lazy. Your soul is a mirror, which is why we all see ourselves reflected in other people. Their soul is full of evil and vices - they see just such an ugly picture when they look into your pure soul. They lack the strength and courage to admit that you are better than them and change. Unfortunately, this is only for the truly brave...

What should I do? How can I change this situation if, in fact, nothing depends on me? - asked the beauty.

Come on, come with me, I'll show you something... Look, this is my garden. For many years now I have been watering these flowers of unprecedented beauty and taking care of them. To be honest, I have never seen the buds of these flowers bloom. All that I had to contemplate are beautiful blooming flowers that beckon with their beauty and fragrant aroma.

Child, learn from nature. Look at these wonderful flowers and do as they do - open your heart to people carefully so that no one even notices. Open your heart to good people. Get away from those who cut off your petals, throw them under your feet and trample on them. These weeds haven't grown up to you yet, so you can't help them. In you, they will only see an ugly reflection of themselves.