Feng Shui attracting love. How to use Feng Shui to attract love and marriage. Red Chinese lanterns in Feng Shui will help bring back lost feelings

  • It's all about the bed
  • Fuss around the bed
  • Where are we going to make the bedroom?
  • Activate the Peach Blossom
  • Flying, green, romantic... Who is this?

Feng Shui, as you know, is an eastern art (or science, in China such things were not particularly distinguished), which promotes the harmonization of man and the surrounding space. And in a harmonious environment, relationships will be harmonious, including, of course, family relationships.

Of course, it’s impossible to take and rebuild your whole life “according to Feng Shui,” but if you’ve already decided, start with what’s really important to you, for example, love!

It's all about the bed

Love between a man and a woman is, whatever one may say, an intimate relationship. And it represents their marital bed, that is, the bed. If you are used to relaxing on a spartan single bed or, even worse, on a sofa, then by doing this you seem to be sending a signal: “There is no room for another person next to me, I’m fine alone!”

Buying a spacious double bed will put you in the right mood - you will involuntarily begin to take a closer look at the men around you, and it will give an unambiguous signal to the universe - such luxury is being used half-heartedly! Disorder!

Fuss around the bed

First, position the bed so that it is easily accessible from both sides.

Secondly, hang a picture opposite the bed (no, not the TV!) with something pleasant and reminiscent of love.

In China, paintings with peonies are often used, but this is not necessary - it can be any flowers, a pleasant landscape. Masters of the modern school fully admit that this could be an image of a couple in love, the main thing is that it is not a realistic portrait. A silhouette image or a landscape with a walking couple will do.

Thirdly, decorate the bedroom with paired items.

Again, Chinese classics are figurines of mandarin ducks, but you can replace them with swans that are closer to our culture, or even a couple of candles, paintings, prints... In a word, it’s a matter of taste, the main thing is pairing.

Finally, don't overload the room with feminine energy!

If your bedroom can easily claim the title of boudoir, it is overflowing with perfumes, jewelry, lace lingerie - what is a man to do there? Give the room a little calm by adding those accessories that have a distinctly “masculine” character.

Where are we going to make the bedroom?

An important question: in which room should the bed be installed?

Ideally, the southwest room in the house should become the “love zone”. It is best if it is simple (square or rectangular) in shape, there will be no ceiling beams on the ceiling and no overhanging structures at all.

What to do if you have a kitchen or even a toilet in the southwest? It must be said that flowing water (constantly present in the kitchen and bathroom) seems to “wash away” all the good things that should come into your life. So always keep the door to these rooms closed and repair the taps in a timely manner so that there is no dripping or leaking!

In modern schools, they sometimes propose to neutralize the influence of harmful objects in the love zone by “excluding” these rooms from the living space, for example, by hanging a mirror on the door. But we note that this method is complex and unsafe. It is better to activate your peach blossom (the flower of romance).

Activate the Peach Blossom

Depending on which symbolic animal ruled the day you were born, you have your own "peach blossom". The peach blossom is a combination, again, of a symbolic animal and the cardinal direction ( don't ask why, it's necessary!) If you don’t know which animal your birthday was dedicated to, a year will do, although the result will be weaker. So:

This activation method is contraindicated for married women, unless, of course, they also want to acquire a lover. But we warn you: a love triangle is an unfavorable feng shui; in Chinese philosophy, love, marriage, family are inseparable concepts.

If you are single and decide to activate your peach blossom, you will need a figurine of the corresponding animal. Always keep it with you as a talisman, take it out often, touch it, look at it.

Try to decorate the corresponding area of ​​the apartment, unless there is a toilet or storage room there, with fresh flowers. Try to keep them always looking fresh and attractive, and as soon as you meet your love, move the vase or pot to another place in the apartment.

Flying, green, romantic... Who is this?

The correct answer is star. “Flying stars” in the teachings of Feng Shui designate the energies that appear in each room in a given month. Energies can be both favorable and unfavorable, they remain for a month and a year... In a word, a whole science, but...

You just need to carefully monitor the monthly feng shui forecasts and note the location of the “Green Four”, which gives the room the energy of romance.

For the whole of 2018, she settled in the southern part of the house, where, however, her wooden essence was weakened by the fiery energy of the sector. So the year does not foretell special romantic outbursts, but women from 15 to 30 years old, as well as daughters, but not the eldest or youngest in the family, are most susceptible to them.

However, there is also a monthly flying green four! It was located in September 2018 precisely in the southwest, in the love sector. This seemingly pleasant coincidence is spoiled by the star “six white”: the combination of stars is more likely to lead to frivolous adultery than to searching for a potential groom. These stars have a particularly strong influence on women over 45 years of age. In a word, as they write in statuses on social networks, #everything is complicated.

Are you interested in monthly forecasts of the location of the “Flying Stars”, which will help you live in harmony with the world around you? If yes, write in the comments, we will try to implement it!

Prepared by Alena Novikova

Love... What could be more beautiful in the life of every person? Mutual strong feelings are a dream. For some, this fairy tale has turned into reality, but there are people who cannot find their personal happiness and know what true love is. All attempts to get acquainted and meet your soulmate are in vain, the dream remains just a dream. It's sad, but nothing is impossible. Today I would like to tell you the secrets of Feng Shui, how you can attract love into your life through changes in your apartment, what the love zone is and how to activate it. It’s not that difficult to implement all these tips, and the results will be amazing.


Preparing the apartment

Before we talk about how to attract love into your life according to Feng Shui, you need to clean and declutter your home. This may seem strange to you, but it is very important for good Feng Shui in the apartment. To get the expected result, you need to activate positive energy - this is necessary according to the “safety precautions” of Feng Shui. This stage should under no circumstances be neglected. So, the first thing you should do is throw away old things that you no longer need, sort out the cabinets, and wipe the dust. After all, all the old and unnecessary things in your home are negative energy and over time it gains greater strength.

Now that you've cleaned out the house, let's talk about the clutter. It can be varied. For example, if you throw your clothes on the floor when you go to bed, then you do not allow the Chi energy to move freely around the room while you are sleeping. And if you want to attract love into your life and find a life partner, then you must train yourself to put everything in its place and not make a mess.

And one more piece of advice – when cleaning the house, arrive in a good mood. When you clean, imagine that you are cleaning not only the house, but also your life. By throwing away trash, you clear space for new and joyful changes.

Now that you have cleared everything away and thrown it away, it’s time to begin the actual purpose for which all this was started, to attract love into your life.

Where is the love sector according to Feng Shui?

According to Feng Shui, the love zone is located in the Southwestern sector of the house. Therefore, let's make this sector a real island of love and romance that will attract love into your life.

Do not forget that the energy of love is very strong and alive. You must always remember this, then your love zone will help you realize your dreams of love and turn them into reality.

But first I would recommend that you decide for yourself one question: do you really need this? After all, the southwestern part of your apartment is not only a love zone, but also a marriage zone. For the Chinese, love, family and marriage are inseparable. Therefore, if you begin to promote the activation of this zone, you should be ready for marriage. One more thing. If you want to use Feng Shui to make a person who doesn’t love you fall in love with you, then you shouldn’t do it. Feng Shui is not magic or a love potion; its rituals cannot help you with this. Feng Shui can only help you complete a stage in your life and open up new bright prospects for you.


I hope you understand everything for yourself and are ready to get married soon. If this is so, then we will talk step by step how to attract love into your life and preserve feelings.

If the love zone is in the kitchen or bathroom

Each apartment has its own location, and the South-Eastern sector can fall on any room in the house. So, if your love zone falls on the bath or toilet, then with the help of Feng Shui we will remove the obstacles that prevent you from finding love. If the love zone is damaged by the toilet or bathtub, then your happiness in love will be washed away every day. The same effect will happen if your southwestern sector is in the kitchen. The kitchen will suppress your love. And if there is a pantry in this zone, then your marriage will slowly fade away.


To improve this situation, keep the doors of the toilet, bathroom and kitchen always closed. It is also recommended to paint the door red or you can hang a large mirror on the door. In this way, we will symbolically hide the room, and thereby all negative energy will be neutralized. But if you don’t want to paint the door or hang a mirror on it, then wind chimes will come to your aid. The tubes can be made of wood, but it is desirable that the talisman itself be large.

Well, if you're lucky and your love zone is in the bedroom or living room, then it's time to get down to business.

How to activate the love zone

In order to accurately attract love into your life, before I tell you about stimulating and activating the love zone, I would like to give one little piece of advice: do everything with pleasure and faith in what you do today will definitely give the desired result. This is the key to success.

So, how to activate the love zone in an apartment? First, make sure that there are no destructive elements of wood and water in this sector, since the love zone is a fire element, and water, as you know, extinguishes fire. But there shouldn’t be too much metal. Keep it in moderation. But an ordinary stone found on the street can become an excellent element for activating the Feng Shui love zone. Just make sure that the stone does not have a threatening shape. Make a composition of stones and gems and place it in the love sector. Just don't overdo it, or the love zone may feel heavy. And for greater effect, the composition or the stone itself can be tied with a red ribbon.

To activate the Feng Shui love zone and attract love into your life, hang paired hearts of red or pink flowers in your corner - hearts are the strongest of other love talismans. Hearts can be made of any material, but if they are made of rose quartz, it will be wonderful. You can put your photo in a heart-shaped frame and hang it in your corner. In a word, make sure that your photo is surrounded by hearts and believe me, the Universe will not miss such a signal coming from you. You can put chocolates or chocolates in the love sector. They imply romance and love relationships.



But in general, only paired items are appropriate for the love zone. And it doesn’t matter what kind of things they are, but it’s best if they are mandarin ducks. In the love sector, two red candles are still needed. They need to be lit once a week and always on the new moon. Look at the candle lights and imagine your future lover, and it doesn’t matter whether it’s a real person or a figment of your imagination. Next to the image of your lover, imagine your happy image.

Crystals are also the best way to activate your Feng Shui love zone. Crystals can have any shape, but round crystals are best. Clean them in salted water and place them in the love zone. A red lamp will also help you attract love into your life and bring you closer to your cherished goal. Place it in the love sector and light it every evening for three hours for forty-nine days and be sure that your wish will be fulfilled.

Images of lovers are no less effective than paired items. To attract love into your life, hang a photo of you and the man you dream about on the wall in your corner. If there is no such photograph, then cut out the man you like from a magazine and make a collage of his and your photograph. As soon as a real man appears in your life, replace the photo.

Just repeat once again, do not hang up the photo that shows you and your ex-partner.

A wind chime talisman hung above or near your photo will have a positive effect. To do this, purchase a “wind chime” talisman with hanging hearts, and the tubes should be metallic pink. This talisman is a good activator of Qi energy. And as soon as you hang it in the love zone, you can be sure that the love energy has begun to become powerfully activated.


In fact, there are a great many talismans of love, as well as techniques for attracting love. In Feng Shui, you are allowed to use them all for greater effect or choose the ones that you like best. This is everyone’s business and according to Feng Shui there are no restrictions.

So, we continue the conversation about attracting love with the help of Feng Shui, namely about talismans that will help activate the love sector and attract love into your life.

Symbols of good luck can also be a good Feng Shui activator for the love zone. For example, an amulet of double luck. This amulet can be hung in the love zone itself or placed under the bed. The double luck talisman is very effective for activating good luck in love. It will help make your life together calm. He is also able to help a couple who cannot have children.

Another very good love talisman to attract love into your life is a figurine of the fairy moon. The Chinese consider the Moon Fairy to be the goddess of love and happiness. They believe that she blesses the entire house.


Vases made from various materials are especially popular in fesh shui. They are believed to protect the good fortune of all family members. They also bring peace and happiness to the home. To activate the love zone according to Feng Shui, any vases are suitable, but just make sure that they are either yellow or red, unless the vases are crystal. It is also very important to consider the shape of the vases. It is better if you buy a vase with a wide base and a narrow neck. In this case, they will better do their “job” of capturing the positive energy that saturates your island of love.


As I said, every vase is good, but to attract love into your life, if you have the opportunity, buy Chinese vases with dragon and phoenix together. It is the pair of dragon and phoenix that symbolizes the best harmony in marriage. But if you haven’t found a vase with such an image, then you can buy a vase with an image of two birds.

But you can’t put flowers in such vases. After all, as you know, it is not recommended to keep water in the bedroom. Experts recommend filling the vase with coins or natural stones; this all symbolizes well-being.

Newlyweds or young couples are recommended to place a painting depicting peonies in the love sector. This is a very auspicious amulet of love, it symbolizes ardent passion, love and bliss. In China, peonies are considered the “King of Flowers” ​​and are also considered to be the true embodiment of Yang energy. But be careful with these flowers. The image of these flowers should be hung only in the first year of marriage. And when a child is born in a family, it is better to remove peonies from the bedroom, because... they will mean treason. Now hang roses or asters in place of the peonies. These flowers are a symbol of love, romance and tenderness.


Well, if you lack love, then the best way to attract it is roses. These charming flowers placed in the southwest sector will quickly attract love to you. These can be either fresh flowers or pictures of roses.

And in general, flowers in the love zone are very appropriate. You can decorate this sector with flowers of lilac, carnation, iris, lily, orchid. And, having studied the language of flowers, you will be able to create “talking” bouquets. They will be wonderful talismans and allies for you in realizing your dreams.

But still, don’t keep fresh flowers in the bedroom; use their image instead. In a bedroom where one woman lives, flowers scare away love luck. And in the marital bedroom, flowers will lead to various quarrels and mistrust of the partner.

Balancing Yin and Yang

Feng Shui masters say that in order to attract love into your life, you need to balance the feminine and masculine energy in your home. Very often in the apartment of single women there are posters and paintings of women hanging on the walls. It’s not surprising, but for some reason women very often decorate their interiors with images of women. These images contain exclusively Yin energy, and that is why the woman remains alone for a long time.

If you decide to attract love into your life with the help of Feng Shui, then let's not neglect centuries-old wisdom. And this wisdom says that everything on earth must have a pair. So, hang pictures of a man and a woman together on the walls of your home. And remember, in an apartment a woman who wants to meet her love must have a balance of feminine and masculine energy.

If you only have women hanging on your walls, and the interior is made in flowery colors, then you have very little chance of finding a permanent life partner. Bring a little masculine into the interior of your apartment. Choose interior colors and hang posters that a man would like more. In short, create balance.

How to attract love

If all of the above doesn’t help, and you still haven’t met the man of your dreams, it’s time to take drastic measures to attract love into your life. The first thing you should do is buy red lingerie and put it in your love zone. Paint one wall in your love zone red or put up red wallpaper. With all this you explode the energy of love.


If you do not live alone in an apartment, and your relatives are against such an “explosion,” do not argue with them, but paint something in your area with red paint so that it is not noticeable. With all these actions, you are not just asking the Universe to send you a partner, you are demanding it, and believe me, the Universe will not ignore this demand.

How to keep love and passion alive

Finding a life partner does not mean that your relationship will forever remain the same as it was when you first met. Everything flows, everything changes, and your relationship may also change not for the better. Very often, a couple who have lived together for more than one year realizes that their relationship has cooled, that the spouse has become less likely to perform marital duties, and that there are no common interests. And in this situation, Feng Shui will come to our aid.

If your husband has lost interest in you, place a red cloth under the mattress, on the side where your husband sleeps. And the results will not take long to arrive. Or you can wallpaper your bedroom in red, pink or peach.


But there are situations when the opposite is true. You feel very good in bed, but there is no spiritual intimacy. In this case, according to Feng Shui, yellow color is recommended in your bedroom or in the marriage area.

But you must clearly understand that although Feng Shui can do a lot, it is still not omnipotent. And if you have problems in your relationship, don’t be silent, don’t harbor resentment, but sit down and calmly talk about everything, and Feng Shui will help maintain harmony in your relationship.

Previously, in China it was not considered a problem when a man had many mistresses; on the contrary, having mistresses increased his status in society. But since our women are not satisfied with this, then with the help of Feng Shui we can avoid betrayal or, if this has already happened, return our beloved husband to the family.


If marital fidelity has already been violated, then you should not despair and panic. Better go, take a walk and while walking, find the stone that you like best. The stone can be anything, big or small - it doesn't really matter. Tie the pebble with a red ribbon and attach it to the right leg of the bed. When the job is done, persuade your husband to sleep on the right side of the bed. And lastly, when attaching the stone to the stem, watch your mood and thoughts. You should not have bad thoughts and you should arrive in a relaxed state. Now you can be sure that your husband will stay with you.

Chinese traditions consider human feelings to be the most important area of ​​life, which helps to achieve complete harmony and happiness.

That is why feng shui for attracting love is a real science, including certain behavioral tactics and specific talismans.

It is worth noting that love, according to Feng Shui, is associated both with the search for a soul mate and with the establishment of already existing relationships.

Feng Shui for love in the apartment

First of all, experts from ancient teachings recommend optimizing the space around you to increase love energy. The right environment in your home will not only help you attract love into your life. Feng Shui of an apartment also allows you to harmonize the relationship between the sexes.

Apartment design

If you are looking for a partner or future spouse, even if you are looking for a close friend, try to follow these rules.

  • Keep pictures and photos of attractive people of the opposite sex indoors. They will help attract a soul mate. Decorate the eastern part of the workplace with red objects: vases, talismans, paintings.
  • According to Feng Shui, love requires a lot of luck, so hang it in the living room, be it peacocks or phoenixes. Avoid images of lonely people in the house. Such portraits only attract negative energy.
  • Promptly get rid of old things that remind you of your previous relationship. Past gifts, photographs, as well as romantic correspondence from the past - all this should not be in the house.
  • Get rid of the abundance of feminine energy in the house. Your partner may be put off in advance by the presence of cosmetics, jewelry and lace in every room. If you need to attract a specific man, decorate the interior taking into account his interests.

How to decorate your bedroom according to Feng Shui to attract love

When you are puzzled by the question of how to find love according to Feng Shui, pay attention to the design of your bedroom, especially if it has an advantageous placement in the love and marriage sector or in the family area.

  • Hang pictures with lunar paths near your bed, as well as images of this Earth satellite. According to Feng Shui, the energy of the Moon significantly increases the chances of attracting a partner. Paintings with beautiful landscapes and floral motifs are also allowed.
  • Do not install mirrors in the sleeping room, especially on the wall opposite the bed. These items very quickly take away love luck from a person’s life. It is not advisable to keep potted flowers and images of autumn scenes and sunsets in the bedroom.
  • According to Feng Shui, love never comes to the home of single people. Therefore, the bed should be a double bed, with free access to both sides. The bed should consist of 2 pillows. The space above the bed itself should not be covered with shelves or decorative elements, because Qi energy should circulate freely in the room.
  • Don't place your bed so that your head is near the window and your feet are near the door. Please also note that the bed should have a clear view of everyone entering or leaving the room. There shouldn't be many corners in the bedroom. In addition, this room cannot be a walk-through room.
  • The southwest part of the sleeping room is an ideal place to store a seashell that will help improve relationships. At the same time, children's toys should not be stored in the bedroom.

Regardless of the location of the bedroom, it is important to know where the love corner is according to Feng Shui. This is the far right area in each apartment. This is where candles, incense and aphrodisiacs would be appropriate. Work documents, TV and computer gadgets are not desirable in this sector.

The love corner should always be clean and well lit.

Feng Shui to attract love and marriage: basic actions

The correct search for a future partner is an important aspect of attracting love success. According to Chinese teaching, one should take an active position and independently draw up a specific scenario for the development of events.

  • Make a list with the merits of your future chosen one. In addition to all the qualities you need, work on the list of your partner’s disadvantages. Please note that both lists must be varied. How to attract love according to Feng Shui in this way? Just send this information to your loving spirits. To do this, copy the data onto red or pink paper, roll it into a tube and tie it with a scarlet ribbon. Keep this scroll in the far right corner of the door.
  • At midnight, in the southwest of the bedroom, light several red candles, maybe even scented ones. Place them in a wide vessel with water: let them float freely and create a romantic atmosphere in the house. It is advisable that the container with water should be a crystal or glass vase, with stones and a precious ring on its bottom. It is also worth putting a few rose or peony petals on the water.
  • On first dates, try not to forget about the need for red shades in clothes and accessories. This will increase positive energy.

Flower of Romance

Few fans of Chinese traditions know that Feng Shui for love and marriage is also a thorough study of a person’s destiny based on Bazi astrology. Getting to know the 4 Pillars of Destiny allows you to discover and activate the so-called Flower of Romance or Peach Flower. He, in turn, is one of the main creatures of the Chinese horoscope: Horse, Rat, Rooster or Rabbit.

First, find out what animal you were born on. This is determined by the exact time, day, month and year of birth. Remember the following ratio:

  • For Monkeys, Rats and Dragons, the Rooster is the flower.
  • Pigs, Rabbits, Goats should focus on the Rat.
  • Horses, Dogs or Tigers consider the Rabbit as the Peach Blossom.
  • Bulls, Roosters and Snakes have the Flower in the form of the Horse.

Feng Shui to attract love and marriage involves the use of Flowers of Romance in the form of corresponding animal figures. You should always keep such a figurine with you. Also keep in mind that each creature is assigned its own cardinal direction, so everyone has individual romantic sectors in their house.

  • The horse occupies the center of the southern part of the apartment.
  • The rat belongs to the middle of the northern zone.
  • The rooster is identified with the center of the western sector.
  • The rabbit is assigned the middle of the eastern area of ​​the house.

A beautiful vase with fresh flowers and clean water should be placed in the right place. True, if the romantic sector is in the bathroom, it is better not to engage in activation, but to subtract the Peach Blossom not by the day, but by the year of birth.

Please note that the Flower of Romance only applies to new connections and acquaintances. It will not help improve contact with your old partner or spouse. On the contrary, this symbol is capable of developing infidelity and conflict in a couple. Therefore, the vase of flowers is removed immediately after finding love.

How to find love using feng shui using flying stars

In this case, we are talking about how to attract love according to Feng Shui using special types of energy. These streams are presented in the form of flying stars moving around the apartment.

For romance, it is best to keep an eye on the Green Four and Purple Nine Stars. These elements, when handled correctly, bring true love into life.

To know where the Flying Star is located in a given year or month, you should use a special map. Then the favorable energy must be activated. This is done simply: the room in which the Star is currently located should become the most visited in the house or even a place to sleep.

Please note that according to Feng Shui, love, family and romance are attracted by the Stars only if there are no negative objects around the apartment: dying trees, power lines, garbage dumps.

Feng Shui signs of love

It is difficult to imagine Chinese practices without numerous symbols of love and family well-being. Some of the talismans will help single people meet their soulmate, while others will ensure stability and peace in an existing marriage.

  • Mandarin ducks are a feng shui sign of love, as well as a symbol of tenderness and strong family ties. A pair of these birds expresses a happy cancer, but they also promise good luck in relationships for single people. The talisman is used to activate the love sector in the southwest, as well as to improve the atmosphere in the bedroom.
  • Crystals are earth elements that are very active in the southwest sector of the bedroom. Illuminating the crystal will ensure that your partner’s passionate feelings are revealed.
  • A pair of swallows in China is the personification of home comfort and cleanliness, large offspring and prosperity. Such birds would be appropriate in any sector of the apartment.
  • A Feng Shui photo to attract love should contain images of peonies. It is these flowers that are perceived as the strongest talismans. Therefore, such a picture or photograph would be appropriate at the entrance to a bachelor’s bedroom. Married partners should place images of peonies in the living room.
  • Butterflies are an expression of joy and fulfilled desires. A couple of such creatures or a whole flock must definitely decorate the walls of the bedroom so that the sexual relations of the partners do not fade.
  • For those who thirst for spiritual unity in marriage, figurines of geese are suitable. The paired image of these birds is especially appropriate in the southwest. In addition, a guarantee of marital fidelity is provided in the same sector by two kissing doves.
  • Feng Shui hieroglyphs are also very important for attracting love. The stability of relationships is ensured by the “double luck” symbol, which will also help you find a new partner. Activation of romantic luck is possible by placing this sign, drawn on red paper with gold, in the southwestern part of the house. It is also allowed to put the symbol under the bed, hide it in your purse and decorate bed linen with it.
  • Classic Chinese lanterns in red shades are also very useful in the love sector. If you hang such talismans in a couple, they will return the lost sensual fervor to the relationship. A great place for lanterns is near your front door as they will be able to attract positive energy.
  • The dragon-snail is a mythical symbol of harmony in the relationship of lovers. Such a talisman is necessary to reduce the number of conflicts and find the right way out of quarrels. The creature should be placed in the east of the apartment or in the living room.
  • Among the guardians of the hearth, Feng Shui for love and marriage advises placing a Zaoshen figurine at home. This talisman helps get rid of problems in the family, brings overall happiness and even improves well-being. As a rule, the figurine is found in the netsuke style, so it should be placed on the eastern side of the house.

Marriage relationships according to Feng Shui

According to Feng Shui, the love of a husband and wife is a special matter that requires reverent attitude and attention. The organization of space here plays no less a role than in a bachelor’s house.

  • Choose dates for dates, wedding registrations and weddings carefully. The energy matrix also implies that each person has several days when meeting the opposite sex is dangerous and pointless. Ideally, building relationships is difficult to imagine without analyzing the Bazi map and the Tong Shu calendar. On some days, it is also dangerous to rearrange the furniture in the bedroom, especially the bed.
  • Try to activate the sectors in the southwest and northwest. These zones are identified with the place of the mother-housewife and the male patriarch, respectively. Please note that these areas suffer greatly when toilets, kitchens, and storage rooms are placed there. The same negative effect will be provided by disorder, an abundance of trash and the presence of things with Sha energy.
  • A Feng Shui family bedroom is ideal for attracting the love of your husband. In the southwest of the room there should be a massive object from the element of Earth, but only if the marriage relationship is not too conservative. Shades of orange will help refresh your senses. Sofas and photographs of children are not allowed in the bedroom. The bed itself should be with the head of the bed facing the wall, and old things should not be stored under it.
  • Pay attention to the overall layout of the house. If there are partitions and walls in the center of the room, this is not a very good sign. It’s even worse when the center of the house is littered with cabinets, surrounded by solid doors, or dedicated to a bathroom.
  • Regularly carry out energetic cleansing of the entire house so that stagnation of Qi or Sha is not possible. Use aroma lamps, candles, incense and even charged water for this. Don't forget about the importance of regular wet cleaning and changing bed linen.

Feng Shui for attracting love is equally important for both single and married people. Organizing a harmonious space that attracts good luck and happiness in your personal life is not a one-time process. That is why it is worth changing the layout and furniture in your apartment gradually. Also, never forget about your own positive attitude.

Content:

What else does every woman on this big planet dream of, if not love? Unfortunately, it happens that this high feeling, for some reason unknown to us, is delayed, turns out to be non-reciprocal or too timid, or perhaps we ourselves prevent the energy of love from breaking into our lives and remaining in it forever.

According to the teachings of Feng Shui, first of all, it is our thoughts, faith and our actions that can attract love, and some symbols and attributes of Feng Shui will only enhance the magic of attracting Qi energy - the energy of love.

Preparatory stage

So, what, according to Feng Shui, needs to be done to let love into your home and keep it there for a long time? Everything new and good begins with getting rid of old unnecessary things, especially those reminiscent of “former” ones, especially unpaired ones and especially broken, split and spoiled. Look around your home, look in the closet, open the mezzanines - how many things have accumulated that you don’t need, but it’s a pity to throw them away! Give it to your friends, give it to the poor, just throw it away - you will never even remember them again! Throw away the slippers, shirt and other things that remind you of unrequited love that were forgotten by your “ex” immediately if you want to attract new love to yourself.

Review the interior “things”: paintings, figurines, photographs - you should not have images of unpaired characters. If this is a picture, then let, for example, a man be next to a woman. If it is a figurine, for example, of an elephant, buy a second one and so on. Especially mercilessly get rid of dried flowers and climbing fresh flowers. Feng Shui interprets dried flowers as a symbol of dead energy, and climbing plants mainly carry passive yin energy.

Activation of the love and marriage sector

The next step towards the intended goal will be the design of the love sector for its successful activation. According to the “compass school”, the feng shui zone of love and marriage is located in the southwest of the apartment, and the “form school” devotes love and marriage to the far right corner of the room. Remove items related to water from this place: vases, an aquarium, a picture of water, a humidifier, etc. The energy of fiery love can be easily extinguished with water. But when decorating the marriage sector, use red elements. Hang a picture with fire elements or stick appropriate wallpaper, lay a red napkin on the table, and so on.

Feng Shui considers it obligatory to hang Chinese lanterns or place two red candles in your secret corner, which must be lit on every new moon. It would be great to hang two paired hearts and put two figures of ducks, swans, and doves. You can also put a photo with your lover or just any photo of a man from a magazine. All attributes should symbolize the unity of a man and a woman and evoke positive thoughts and emotions in you.

In the bedroom, it is advisable to hang a reproduction depicting the month and the lunar path: according to Feng Shui, the energy of the moon helps attract a partner. And mirrors in the bedroom should not reflect your bed; your luck and love go through them.

Feng Shui love symbols

Symbols of love are of great importance and must be placed in the appropriate zone:

  • Peonies

These beautiful flowers are a very powerful talisman of love. According to Feng Shui, single girls are recommended to hang a picture with peonies depicted on it in front of the entrance to the bedroom, but married women after forty years should be more careful when choosing a place for the picture. Activation of the energy of love in a man can push him to go “to the side.” Therefore, it is best not to hang a picture, but to constantly buy live peonies throughout the season and place them in the living room.

  • crystal crystals

Crystal or glass crystals carry the energy of Mother Earth, placing them in the southwest love sector will enhance the attraction of stability, warmth and romance into your relationships. Feng Shui recommends having several crystals in different parts of the room; they can be round, pyramid-shaped, or tree-shaped with crystal leaves. Keep your crystals clean by placing them in a saline solution every month. Do you want your chosen one to talk about feelings as often as possible? Then illuminate the crystals. Be sure to purchase stones from your horoscope for your home - this will further activate the energy of Mother Earth.

  • Paired items

Paired symbols represent the masculine and feminine principles. If you want to achieve harmony in your relationship, never bring single items into the house. Have you been given a cat figurine? Tomorrow buy a second figurine, preferably a cat, and place it next to it. Cooing doves, paired figurines of a man and a woman, hearts, two trees, two stars - everything should represent love and a couple. According to Feng Shui, Yin and Yang form a single whole and cannot exist without each other, like black without white.

  • "The music of wind"

Feng Shui talisman - “wind music”. It is best to purchase a talisman in pink and red shades with heart pendants; the tubes should be metal and also covered with pink or red paint. By hanging such a talisman next to your photo, you can be sure of the powerful activation of Qi energy. However, couples who have harmony in their relationships should refrain from such “bells”.

The fan is a very powerful and effective Feng Shui talisman that instantly activates the flow of positive energy, suppressing negativity and stagnation in relationships. The larger the fan, the more effective its energy.

It should be noted that there are quite a lot of talismans and symbols of love, so you can stop at one thing or use several items at once. But don’t set up something like a Chinese Feng Shui shop in your apartment, don’t overload the “altar” of love with objects. All talismans must be in harmony with each other and in no case discord.

Materialization of desires

This stage is not just a formality, but an obligatory necessity, if, of course, you really want to attract love into your home forever. But first, you must consider some facts.

Firstly, the ancient teachings of Feng Shui do not separate love and marriage and place them at the forefront of all other concepts. Think again if you are ready for the fact that love and marriage are not such an easy matter. This is daily work to build harmonious and lasting relationships. Somewhere you will have to give in, somewhere you will have to agree, and sometimes there will be times when you will need to be firm. Having fallen in love with a man for his merits, do not forget that he, like any other person, will also have shortcomings. And if you cannot love him “with all his guts,” very soon your relationship will fail. Do you need it? Be honest with yourself.

Secondly, Feng Shui is not magic, and this teaching will not help you attract a partner who does not love you at all. And winning a guy away from a rival is also not a feng shui task. You can bring the first man you come across to the house just to have him there. But to achieve true harmony, tender and mutual feelings, to attract love in its highest sense into your home - the wise teaching of Feng Shui will help you in this.

What do we do next? The most defining stage begins - voicing your desires with the help of affirmations and, no matter how trivial it may sound, “wording the order.” To do this, you need to write positive thoughts and statements on the topic of love and marriage on red paper. For example, “I give and receive love easily and joyfully” or “I attract deep relationships into my life” and the like. Fold the paper and place the note behind your photo or the photo of your loved one.

Next is another sensitive point: you must compile and describe all the positive qualities that you would like to see in your future chosen one. Take your time, this may take more than one day. Something, after thinking about it, may not seem so significant, and you cross out this item, adding something else: attentiveness, scrupulousness, generosity or something else.

Having finally decided on all the points, we proceed to the next step. Just as carefully and carefully, make a list of the shortcomings of your future chosen one that scare you the least. What qualities are you willing to put up with for the sake of a long married life: sloppiness, stinginess, forgetfulness? Take this list even more seriously and avoid making mistakes that you might regret later. Feng Shui does not analyze your preferences, but only promotes the materialization of desires.

Having both lists in hand, write down all the qualities in two columns on a pink or red piece of paper, roll it into a tube, tie it with a pink ribbon and place it in your Feng Shui love sector.

Equipping the bedroom

Feng Shui pays special attention to the bedroom and where your bed is located and how it is equipped. According to the teachings of Feng Shui, there should be a lot of light in the room; it is preferable to stick wallpaper in pink or peach tones, or even with red elements. Do not place dried flowers in the bedroom, try to avoid placing climbing plants near your bed. Use bed linen in pastel shades, but, on the contrary, choose accessories in bright rich tones. The most important feng shui instruction is that there should always be two pillows and one blanket on the bed.

Using all the listed instructions from the teachings of Feng Shui, be sure that love will come to your home too! Perhaps not too quickly, not tomorrow or the day after tomorrow... Be sure to wait and be open to love, but do not look for those characteristics that you “ordered” in everyone you meet. Don't get hung up on marriage, enjoy life, and the Universe will not leave you unattended!

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According to Eastern philosophy, everything has a pair - this is the general harmony. Loneliness is unnatural. A lonely person is a violation of harmony, so the Universe helps everyone in finding their soul mate.

Before using Feng Shui techniques to attract love, listen to yourself and make sure that you are looking for a permanent partner, and not one-time sexual adventures. Feng Shui helps those who are committed to serious relationships and marriage.

Tidy up your bedroom

A single bed conveys to the Universe that you are focused on loneliness: replace it with a double bed.

Look what the bed looks like. She must have an attractive and seductive appearance. An unsightly, sloppily made bed with ugly bed linen are signs of a lack of personal life.

There should be nothing in the room that reminds you of loneliness. Furniture and accessories - armchairs, ottomans, floor lamps, sconces - must be paired.

There should be no thorny plants or objects with sharp corners in the bedroom - these are sources of negative energy. Fill the room with round objects. Do not keep dry or artificial flowers in the bedroom - they symbolize ashes and interfere with the emergence of relationships.

Prepare a place for your future partner. Clear out a few shelves in your wardrobe. If you sleep on half of an unassembled sofa, unfold it at night.

Buy items that symbolize eroticism: silk bed linen, a beautiful peignoir, candles with the scent of chocolate, roses, myrrh.

Accessories will attract the energy of love and help hold it.

Rearrange the furniture

There is a saying in China: rearrange 28 objects in your house and your life will change. Bulky objects, such as furniture, affect the flow of energy in the house. Furniture must be positioned correctly. Before you move, clean out your home.

In Feng Shui, liberation from the old is important. Old things carry negative energy and memories - they have no place in the house. Take your time and get your apartment in order. Throw away junk you don't need. Clear out the cabinets and dust them.

The house transmits information to the Universe. New energy means new acquaintances. Do not block the energy path with old unnecessary objects that form rubble.

When cleaning your home, don't overdo it. Leave everything that makes you happy and once brought you happiness, even if it’s old items. For example, children's albums with drawings. Exceptions are things left over from old relationships. Hide or throw away photographs, letters and mementos you shared together. They block the path of new love.

Get rid of accessories, paintings, photographs and posters with images of lonely people or animals, as they carry the energy of loneliness. Replace posters of posing but lonely movie stars with pictures of men and women hugging, forming happy couples.

The apartment is hung with posters of kittens and lonely beauties, the interior is decorated in pink tones and bottles are placed - a clear overabundance of feminine energy. Dilute it with a masculine look and bring into the interior items that a man would like.

The room should not be filled with children's toys. In an interior where everything reminds you of childhood, mature relationships will not arise.

So, if you want to find a permanent partner who would like to share a home with you, add items to the interior that he might like.

Arrange the talismans of love

Some people believe that according to Feng Shui, the love zone is in the bedroom. Such people find the southwestern part of the bedroom and try to activate it.

This opinion is wrong. Love is not just sex. In Feng Shui, love is associated with marriage and family life, so you need to take a broader approach to solving the problem of loneliness.

The zone of love and marriage according to Feng Shui is the southwestern part of the house or apartment. Here is the energy responsible for the personal life of the people living in the house.

Using a compass, find the southwestern part of the apartment and put it in perfect order. Keep it clean and well lit. Remove things with sharp corners - they scare off potential partners. Make the southwestern sector of the apartment an island of love and romance, and in return it will attract love.