Trials and troubles in your life. Why are they given ... why do they occur ...? If God wants good things for good people, then why does He give them trials, making them suffer

"I'm 25. Remembering my whole life, starting from a young age, I realize that this entire period of time was filled with grief and sadness for me. I can't even remember if there were happy days in my life. It seems to be, no ... So, I think, why did the Lord allow all these misfortunes for me? - these are the lines of their letter from our reader, and there are quite a few such letters.

Disappointment, sadness, pain and loneliness - each of us sooner or later experiences all this. “How could God allow this tragedy? For what?" many people ask. Most of us understand that no events in our lives happen by chance, and God is not just an indifferent witness to human destiny.

The Bible has this promise: “Those who love God…everything works together for good” (Romans 8:28). All? Even suffering and sorrow? This is hard to believe if we do not understand the true purpose of the trials we meet.

First, trials test our character. Weaknesses hidden in the depths of our souls may never be revealed unless we are tested. Scientists have designed special devices that can measure the strength of different materials. Some are tested in tension, others in compression, and others are tested by repeated twisting. It is only after such careful testing that they are recommended for mass production. The Lord is looking for characters that endure all trials. Pressure, tension, any other test helps us to define who we really are. And in all our experiences, let us remember that Christ understands our sufferings, since He Himself went through many trials. “As a father has mercy on his sons, so the Lord has mercy on those who fear Him. For He knows our constitution, He remembers that we are dust” (Psalm 103:13, 14).

By God's design, difficulties contribute to the formation of our character. Our wayward and unyielding life is only beaten to ennoble it, just as a fiery furnace purifies valuable ore. The inevitability of the experiences and trials that we have to endure shows that the Lord Jesus sees something precious in us that He wants to develop. Otherwise, why waste time on our purification?

Probably, each of us had to meet people who, under normal circumstances, seem weak and incapable of great deeds, but in difficult conditions they suddenly reveal a strong character. The Lord would like to see that trials do not break us, but strengthen us.

A butterfly in a cocoon is helpless and weak, but, trying to break out of the cocoon, it gradually gains strength, and each of its new jerks multiplies this strength. Try to help the butterfly out of its bonds, and it will die. A butterfly can exist and develop only by testing its strength. If in the days of severe adversity we will hope in God with all our heart, then the most mournful moments for us can turn out to be moments of the highest spiritual take-off.

There is a famous saying: "There are no atheists in misfortune." It is noted that during the war or at any other troubled time, church attendance rises sharply: in their weakness, people turn to the Lord to strengthen them. Adversity often awakens a need for God in a person, so it is not surprising that He allows our adversity. A person who believes only in the power of money may not recognize God and lose salvation if his riches do not come to an end. The worker may not understand that his well-being depends on the blessing of God, unless he suddenly finds himself in danger of unemployment. God does not send misfortunes to us - these are the machinations of Satan, but the Lord allows problems to come into our lives so that we turn to Him - a loving Heavenly Father.

Because we can't see our problems the way God sees them, and we can't understand them the way He sees them, we sometimes doubt God's love. But when we look at our trials from God's point of view, then we perceive them as Divine instruments, through which He prepares us with love and care for eternity. When the temptation seems unbearable, you need to remember that God gives a test to everyone according to their strength and “When tempted, he will also give relief, so that you can endure” (1 Corinthians 10:13).

Let's thank God for the hardships that help us grow into more like Him. How, for example, we look at sorrow, which makes us compassionate; pain, which adds to our patience; a problem that makes us think; criticism that makes us test ourselves? All these and thousands of other questions bring us more benefit than many easy victories that do not give any spiritual growth.

All trials are given to us not for evil, but for good, only it’s impossible to understand right away, and the person says, God doesn’t love me, why did he allow this to happen to me. he says how good it happened to me, and thanks to this I got such an excellent result.

Sometimes the Higher powers, in the person of God, substitute a kind of tripod for a person so that he stumbles and looks around, because sometimes he does not see the obvious thing that needs to be noticed, and through pain, that is, trials, a person is led to a better one. And in fact In fact, God only gives us life, and we ourselves execute or pardon ourselves, building our own ...

Vyacheslav Linev Guru (4073) 7 years ago I came to the conclusion that there are no punishments and God does not give more tests than a person can withstand.

One by one the father of the test
Appoints for my upbringing.
And by old standards, this is just a loss.
By the standards of the past - only debts.

And, tearing off everything superfluous, opening up,
I will clean myself thoroughly.
And I will open in myself the gift of foresight,
And the Father will allow you to heal.

From the raised bar - a chill in the chest.
And I should take this height,
So that on that long journey,
Raise the bar more than once.

Entering the yet untested
As if in a void
I feel in myself for the past
Blame before the Father.
* * * * * * *
Again muzzle on the asphalt with love
You will drag me, Father.
On my head with delight and pain
Feel your crown.
* * * * * * *
Disrupt. Again there is study.
Laziness whispers that everything is in vain,
Laziness persuades that I ...

About trials in our life

“In order to go to Sweet Paradise, you need to taste a lot of bitter things in this life and get your hands on a passport for passed tests”

Test crosses

- Geronda, I constantly wear the cross with which you blessed me. This cross helps me in difficulties.

– You know, the crosses of each of us are the same crosses. They are like small crosses that we wear around our necks and that protect us in our lives. What do you think, are we carrying some great crosses? Only the Cross of Christ was very heavy, because Christ, out of love for us - people - did not want to use His divine power for Himself. And after the Crucifixion, He took, takes and will take on Himself the weight of the crosses of each person and with His divine help and His sweet consolation relieves us from the pain of trials.

The good God gives everyone a cross according to his strength. God gives a man a cross not so that he suffers, but for ...

Ruslan wrote (a): With intense prayers, everything was resolved. Dad returned, they reconciled. Thanks to everyone who replied to this thread!

As for illnesses… perhaps some help me stay on the path of faith.

Here is my answer regarding whether God punishes with diseases, and I believe that this is true, if you want to say this: THIS IS THE TRUTH!!!
Jesus said: (Luke 19:26)
-I tell you that to everyone who has it will be given, but from the one who does not have, even what he has will be taken away.
The person got rid of diseases, wow, that's cool and cool, he is now healthy. But time passes, and then, no matter how you undertake, the diseases made themselves felt through symptoms and feelings. And in such a situation, a person says, perhaps I am not completely healed or did not have healing, this is bad.
Where is Satan hitting? That's right, in the realm of feelings! And where does Jesus lead, I also wonder such a stupid question, of course, Jesus wants us to believe!!! And if a person is led by the realm of feelings, he thus allows Satan to steal his healing. And when a person says things like that...

"What does it mean to a man that You visit him every morning and test him every moment?" (Job 1:17,18)

What does it mean that God visits us every morning and tests us in every moment of our lives? Why is He doing this? What is His purpose? And are we ready to be tested every minute? Do we wake up with a sense of anticipation of trials? And what does the test of God mean anyway? God tests us not because He is angry with us or wants to punish us. On the contrary, trials are a sign of God's favor. He tests us because he wants to establish our value. The jeweler puts the gold or silver to certain tests. He does this because these metals have a value and a special purpose. He doesn't care about testing iron or aluminum.

In the era of the patriarchs, there lived one man who had extraordinary righteousness. His name was Job. God highly valued Job. He described him as the most righteous man of his time:…

Finding God Through Suffering

The Lord always blesses us and our loved ones. We should be grateful to Him for this. When grief befalls us, He always measures its size with our spiritual safety margin. Consider the promise of the Lord:

“Moreover, we know that to those who love God, who are acknowledged according to His purpose, everything works together for good” (Rom. 8:28).

Heavenly Father allows trials on our life path. This does not in the least contradict His tender love for us.

For one Christian, a time of severe trials has come. So great were his sorrows that he was seized by the temptation to turn with a complaint to the Lord. When everything was over, he was able to comprehend the plan of God and said: "I was foolish, not understanding the messages of the Lord."

1. Why does God allow trials?

First, trials test our character. That is why the Lord allows Satan to tempt and test us. The Bible clearly tells us that in its...

WHY MAN SUFFERS

Call on Me in the day of your sorrow, and I will crush you ... (Ps. 49, 15)

Through many tribulations we must enter the Kingdom of God. (Acts 14:22)

There are many reasons why sorrows and illnesses are sent to us. At the same time, one should never think that the sufferings, misfortunes and misfortunes that are sent can come from people: all of them are allowed to us by the Lord God, both infinitely merciful and infinitely wise. Suffering can be seen as a spiritual cure for sinful harm. Suffering (for example, in the form of illness) often suspends the action of sin: “he who suffers in the flesh ceases to sin,” writes St. Peter (1 Peter 4:1). Suffering for sin is the voice of God, admonition to a sinning person: it is a blow to the hand that creates lawlessness. At the same time, suffering mitigates the guilt of sin - it balances to some extent the guilt according to the law of retribution and justice (the law of karma). "There is no sorrow, no and ...

What suffering people are experiencing! How many problems they have! Some people come here to tell me about their pain in two minutes on the go and get some comfort. One exhausted mother told me: “Geronda, there are moments when I have no strength left to endure. Then I ask: "My Christ, take a short break, and then let the torment come again." How people need prayer! But, in addition, every test is also a gift from God. This is another additional "point" in order to enter another life. This hope of retribution in the future life gives me joy, consolation and strength, and I can endure the pain of those sorrows that torment many and many.

Our God is not Baal, but a God of love. He is the Father who sees the suffering of His children from various temptations and trials that torment them. And He will give us recompense, if only we endure this small martyrdom of the trial that has come to us, or, rather, the blessing that has come to us.

Geronda, some ask: ...

Oh grace. part 3

GRACE AND THE LAW

“If by grace, then not by works; otherwise grace would no longer be grace. And if by deeds, then this is no longer grace; otherwise the work is no longer work” (Rom. 11:5-6).

a person who believes, a child of God, must live by the grace and only the grace of God. Nothing else should affect him and his way of life in such a way as to distract him from the realization of the need for God. Nevertheless, in the life of the church, such a phenomenon is often observed when the concept of grace is etched out of the consciousness of believers by the efforts of “over-vigilant” pastors who see nothing in grace but permissiveness. Scripture makes a clear distinction between grace and law, but does not speak of grace as lawlessness. A life by grace is a life for God with a feeling of complete dependence on Him, and the human heart itself craves this dependence, consciously rejecting everything that the world could offer in return for the grace of God.

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3. Miracle of Grace

“But the law came after, and thus the crime multiplied. And when sin abounded, grace abounded more than ever, so that just as sin reigned unto death, so grace might reign through righteousness unto eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.”

The question of God's grace can only be studied by the comparative method. The horrendous corruption of mankind must be compared with the abundant grace of God bestowed upon us through Jesus Christ. This contradiction is beautifully expressed in the words of an old church hymn:

“We are guilty, evil, powerless.

The immaculate Lamb is He.

Redemption! Yes,…

God's love will finally prevail

1. Fall of Lucifer

2. Creation

3. Consequences of the uprising

4. Temptation and the Fall

5. Plan of salvation

6. The sacrifice of Cain and Abel

7. Seth and Enoch

9. Tower of Babel

10. Abraham and the Promised Seed

11. Marriage of Isaac

12. Jacob and Esau

13. Jacob and the Angel

14. Children of Israel

15. The manifestation of God's power

16. Israel's exit from Egyptian slavery

17. Travel of Israel

18. Law of God

19. Sanctuary

20. Scouts and their report

21. Sin of Moses

22. Death of Moses

23. Israel enters the promised land

24. The Ark of God and the Progress of Israel

25. First Coming of Jesus Christ

26. Ministry of Christ

27. How Christ Was Betrayed

28. Judgment of Christ

29. Crucifixion of Christ

No. 20. Punishment from our Father

Spiritual-creative stone No. 20

Titus 2:11-14: “For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation to all men, teaching us that, rejecting ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live chastely, righteously, and godly in this present age, looking forward to the blessed hope and the manifestation of the glory of the great God and Savior. our Jesus Christ, who gave himself for us to deliver us from all iniquity and to purify for himself a special people, zealous for good deeds.”

Hear what the prophet of God had to say about this:

Now, sometimes... I agree that our Heavenly Father sometimes punishes us with sickness, allowing Satan to do it (James 1:13-15) to sometimes test us, bring us back. If we go astray, then our Heavenly Father may allow something to happen to us to bring us back. But it will only be for good (Rom. 8:28-29). Do you understand? Punishment from our Father is unpleasant for a while, but in the end...

“Behold, I melted you, but not like silver; tried you in the furnace of affliction” (Isaiah 48:10).

The furnace burns not to destroy, but to purify, ennoble, sanctify. Were it not for trials, we would not feel so clearly our need for God and His help; we would be proud and full of self-satisfaction. In the trials that come upon us, we must see evidence that the Lord is constantly watching over us and wants to draw us to Himself. Not healthy, but the sick needs a doctor; in the same way, those who find themselves under the almost unbearable yoke of difficult circumstances turn to God for help.

The fact that trials fall to our lot shows that the Lord sees something very valuable in us and wants these qualities to be developed. If He did not see anything in us that could serve to the glory of His name, He would not waste time cleaning us from unnecessary impurities. He wouldn't go out of his way to purge us of unnecessary shoots. Christ does not send waste rock into the furnace. He tests only valuable ore.

The blacksmith puts iron and steel into the furnace to find out what kind of metal he is dealing with. The Lord allows His chosen ones to be in the furnace of suffering, wanting to see what their temperament is and whether they can be molded and prepared for His service.

It may take a lot of effort to form your character, so that you turn from a rough stone into a cut, polished emerald worthy of taking your place in God's temple. You should not be surprised if God begins to cut the sharp corners of your character with a chisel and hammer until He will fit you into the place that He has prepared for you.

No man is capable of doing this work. It is only possible for God. And rest assured, He will not deal one extra blow. Yes, and every blow He inflicts with love, for the sake of your own eternal happiness. He knows all your weaknesses and shortcomings, and He works for creation, and not for destruction.

When seemingly inexplicable trials fall upon us, we should never lose our composure. Whatever injustice may be done to us, we must not give vent to passions. By indulging the thirst for revenge, we harm ourselves. We undermine our own faith in God and grieve the Holy Spirit. Next to us stands a witness, a heavenly messenger who raises a banner for us against the enemy. He will protect us from evil with the bright rays of the Sun of righteousness. Satan cannot penetrate through this fence. He cannot penetrate this shield of holy light (The Signs of the Times, August 18, 1909).

Trials and hardships have both purpose and reward. Whoever endures them will receive the crown of life promised by God. Published on imbf.org web portal

One of the hardest parts of the Christian life is the fact that as followers of Christ, we are not immune from trials and tribulations. Why does a kind and loving Lord allow us to go through trials such as the death of a child, sickness or injury to ourselves or our loved ones, financial hardship, worry, and fear? After all, if He loves us, then He must protect us from all this. After all, doesn't love mean for Him to make our lives as easy and comfortable as possible? Actually, no. The Bible clearly teaches that God loves those who are His children and He “turns everything for good” for them ( Romans 8:28; hereinafter - a modern translation of the Russian Bible Society). So it must mean that the trials and tribulations He allows in our lives are part of that promise—that everything will be turned to good. Thus, the believer must see a divine purpose in all trials and tribulations.

As with everything else, God's ultimate goal for us is that we become more and more like His Son ( Romans 8:29). This is the goal of every Christian, and everything in life, including trials and tribulations, is designed to help us achieve this goal. This is part of the process of sanctification, separation for God's purposes, and preparation for a life in His glory. How trials help in this is explained in 1 Peter 1:6-7: “So rejoice in this, even if now you have to, for a very short time, grieve from various trials. For even gold is tried by fire, though fire may destroy it, and your faith is more precious than gold, and its truth must be tested and proven in order to receive praise, glory, and honor on the Day when Jesus Christ will reveal himself.” The faith of the true believer will be confirmed by tests to be sure that it is real.

Trials develop godly character, and this allows us to say with Paul: “We are also proud of suffering, because we know that from suffering comes endurance, from endurance comes firmness, from firmness comes hope. And hope will not fail, because God pours out His love into our hearts - through the Holy Spirit given to us" ( Romans 5:3-5). Jesus Christ gave us a wonderful example. “But God showed us all the power of His love for us, because even when we were sinners, Christ died for us!” (Romans 5:8). These verses reveal aspects of His higher purpose regarding the trials and tribulations of both Jesus Christ and ourselves. Fortitude strengthens our faith. “I can do everything thanks to the One who gives me strength” ( Philippians 4:13).

At the same time, we should not look for excuses for the difficulties we experience as a result of our mistakes. “If one of you suffers, let it not be because he is a murderer, or a thief, or a criminal, or an informer” ( 1 Peter 4:15). God will forgive our sins because the eternal penalty for them was paid by the sacrifice of Christ on the cross. However, we still have to suffer the natural consequences of our sins and bad choices in this life.

How to carry the cross of loneliness?

But God uses even this suffering to prepare us for His purposes and our good.

Trials and hardships have both purpose and reward. “My brothers, when various trials fall to your lot, consider it a great joy. For you know that the trials that your faith is subjected to make you resilient. And steadfastness should lead to the achievement of the goal, to the fact that you become mature and perfect and that you do not have any shortcomings ... Happy is the person who steadfastly endures trials, because, having endured them, he will receive the crown of life promised by God to those who loves him" ( James 1:2-4, 12).

Through all the trials of life, we are approaching victory. "But thanks be to God, He has given us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ" ( 1 Corinthians 15:57). Although we are in spiritual warfare, Satan has no power over the believer in Christ. God has given us His Word to guide us, His Holy Spirit to give us strength and the privilege of turning to Him anywhere, anytime, and praying for anything that worries us. He also guaranteed us that “He will not allow trials that would be beyond your strength, and besides, in every trial He will give both a way out of it and the strength to overcome it” ( 1 Corinthians 10:13).

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Whom God loves..

“Whom God loves, he sends a test, and whom he wants to teach a lesson, he slips a freebie.”

“Your meek Savior smells of apple and honey in the churches.”

My good friend Sergei, a singer and toastmaster, I was brought together by a passion for the garden, once told me about his village grandmother, who raised him. He grew up without a father and mother, in the Spartan rural setting of the Ivanovo hinterland. They lived in an old log cabin.

Grandmother was devout in the best possible way. She found spiritual support in faith. Faith helped her endure the hardships that life sent in abundance. There was almost no furniture in the house, there were exactly as many dishes as they needed for two. The clothes are all worn and darned. But there were books, there was an antediluvian but serviceable radio, there was a large mirror. And a small iconostasis, with blackened icons and a lamp. Grandma was hardworking, patient, and wise. She taught him, it seems, the simplest things: weed the garden, pick mushrooms, feed chickens, teach lessons.

— My childhood was difficult. Sergei said. There was no man in the family who could be relied upon and who could teach what only a man can teach. Everyone had fathers, but I didn't. All the kids rode bikes, but I didn't. When the village children went to the river on bicycles, I ran after them on foot.

Cried in the evening

“Grandma, why don’t I have a bike!?” Everyone has it, but I don't! But why!!

- Seryozha! Nothing, nothing. Don't envy them! You be patient! It's not your fault you don't have a bike. But don't be offended by the guys. Ask them and they'll give you a ride! Just ask nicely, kindly. The time will come and you will have everything you want. You just study well and work conscientiously - you will have everything!

“Whoever he idolizes, he sends a test to him.”

Isn't it true that in this simple thought there is great wisdom and an abyss of meanings?

How did this simple village woman know this maxim worthy of the wisest philosophers. From what such depths did she get this gentle worldly wisdom:

- "Whoever he idolizes-he sends a test." And how many tests fell on her herself in order to come to this greatest of wisdom!

There in the Ivanovo forests lies the center of Russia. Our primordial Russianness lives here and now. In these simple peasant women, in their flattering speech, in their patience, their absence of envy. It is no coincidence that there was no fratricidal strife of civil war, terror, robberies and pogroms here. There was no Walking Field, no Makhno, no carts, no dashing cavalry attacks.

The places there are incredibly beautiful. But they always lived there not richly, although in different ways. On the other hand, there was never a famine - the forest saved with mushrooms and berries, fish from the river. And the villagers had neither envy nor hatred towards each other. They loved their forests, and their skinny non-chernozem land, from which, no matter how hard you try, you can’t get more than 10 centners of rye per hectare.

Recently, after a long break, Sergei visited his homeland. The village has changed little. Its main decoration is the same temple, which even during the years of persecution, the villagers did not allow to be demolished. The nature there is still very beautiful, and people still live in poverty.

- “Whom he loves,” he sends a test to him.

Life is your test.

"- Do you know how to distinguish a fool from a smart one!?

- How??

- No way! A fool can look even smarter!

“But how then to understand where who is!?”

“But only on business, brother!” Only on business!

From the thoughts of A. Saryev.

We are not the first on earth - this is understandable. But not the last ones either. So we need to think about what will be left after us. And the greatest legacy that we can leave is not riches, but moral purity, contained in the rules by which we live. Including this simple wisdom, which gives strength when they are no longer there at all - "Whoever he loves - he sends a test to him."

Our life itself is an ordeal. Every day, every hour, every minute tests us for humanity. Every morning sends a test. And to whom life is easy, he dies first - from fat.

Life is hard, but you can overcome everything with such a simple truth on the banner:

- "Whoever he idolizes-he sends a test."

When I wake up in the morning and I am completely shackled by lack of will, this thought lifts me up and makes me change the course of my thoughts. It especially warms me that this innermost thought was communicated to me not by the cunning Nietzsche, not by Tolstoy and not by Dostoevsky, but by a simple Russian village woman, taught by suffering, from which she derived consolation for herself:

Whom he adores, he sends a test.

And then in the course of work, when I come across a difficulty, I constantly return to it.

Or here's another case.

All summer I live outside the city, only occasionally - about once a week, driving home. Bicycle vehicle. And so I work somehow, work, and already in the morning I think to myself - in the evening I will rush home. It's time, I'm bored!

The case moves towards evening. The conventional hour is approaching, I look at the sky - everything is fine, the sky is without a cloud, only in the east, where I need it - a little dark. But you never know, not a rain all day - it cannot be that everything went according to the law of meanness. I pack the vehicle, lock the house and the gate. I jump on my steed and pedal eastward. The whole sky is blue, but where I'm going, some kind of incomprehensible haze looms.

I don't have time to drive off half a kilometer, as the wind picks up. He is getting stronger and stronger. And I have to go more than eight kilometers. The first drops of rain fall on your face. Here are those times! After all, my journey is just the beginning! Why not turn back, because the whole east is already covered in solid blackness, and it seems that I am going towards a downpour. - God! Understand what to do! I stop on the side of the road and think: the rain is intensifying, and I am not soaked only thanks to the trees, under the crowns of which I have been riding until now. But soon the forest will end, and what then! In addition, ahead is not a simple rain, but a thunderstorm! And this is also a lightning that can hit me! Lord, what should I do!

But I really want to go home! I want to see my wife, whom I have not seen for a week, to ask how our affairs are going. I can't turn back! Maybe I'll skip, I decide, and lean on the pedals with all my strength.

And almost immediately I enter a strip of such a downpour, for which the most suitable characteristic is “it pours like a bucket”. In such a downpour, even motorists prefer to stop on the side of the road and wait. But they are under the roof, it is warm and dry there, there is music. And I have the opposite, and instead of music, thunder and lightning. Thank God the lightning is still striking a little to the side. But the road has already turned into a continuous stream of water. Occasionally you have to drive into such puddles that the sneakers are completely in the water.

BUT! Let it be! I decide. "I'm already soaked to the skin!" I won't get wetter, only dirtier! But there's a bath waiting for me at home. Forward! God! I only trust in you! Strengthen your spirit! Let me overcome this challenge! And I stop whining and lean on the pedals.

So I'm on the highway. Driving on asphalt is much easier, but other dangers await me here. Although I am driving along the side of the road, they may not notice me in such a downpour and knock me down like a stray dog. In addition to fear for my life, the cars rushing nearby now and then douse me with mud.

I pedal stubbornly, and I note with satisfaction that I have already passed about halfway. The panic inside me subsided and I am completely absorbed in the work. The storm does not stop, so I can see and go to the end, - I think. And then, after another thunderclap, a saving thought flashed through my mind:

“But this is a test sent down by God. He is testing me! So he loves me! And what kind of test is this, a trifle and nothing more! Not an execution, not an execution, not a serious illness! He only reminds you once again so that you do not forget:

Whom God loves, he sends a trial.

I press the pedals even harder, and I notice that the downpour has begun to weaken. Since I am riding into the wind, the changes are happening rapidly. The downpour ends as if on cue, and after some three hundred meters after that I drive into a strip of dry asphalt. The sun is shining again in the sky. Although it is not high in the evening, it becomes much warmer, I am back in summer! The soul rejoices, less than a third of the way to the house remains, and this is no longer heavy torment, but a pleasant walk!

When I enter the sunlit city, I notice that passers-by see me off with surprised looks, they say: - Where did he manage to get so wet when there was not a cloud in the sky!? But I do not notice anything, because an inaudible dialogue continues inside me:

Whom God loves, he sends a trial.

“And who did he send the test to!?”

So who does God love?

- He loves you!

Prayer before starting hard work.

God!

Archpriest Alexy Uminsky: “For what is loneliness sent”?

Inspire! Oh my God! Bless me, weak in mind and frail in body, difficult to accomplish!

Let my strength be insignificant, but by Your name they will multiply! My spirit will rise, my will will be strengthened by Faith, my strength will increase tenfold. For I will know - behind my back You, O Lord! Your encouraging gaze, the word of Your blessing!

Loneliness: Curse or Blessing?

About loneliness

A friend suffers from loneliness. I pray for her that the Lord send her a married marriage. Is there a special prayer rule for this?

Here it is necessary to have a personal prayer. If there is any specific need, it is impossible to “get rid of” only by morning and evening prayers. In addition to the daily rule, one must be able to talk with God. Suppose a friend came to you; if you trust her and she is close to you, you will tell all the problems. Even share your secrets: about illnesses, about work, and about relatives. The Lord should be closest to us. The Lord is constantly waiting for our appeal to Him, ready to come to the rescue and heal our spiritual illnesses. With Him, we must share our sorrows, tell about our needs, sorrows, worries, before we do with a friend. We must accustom ourselves to constantly turn to Him, to speak with Him. You can even talk with your neighbor, and with your consciousness stand before God, listening to what He will send us through our neighbor.

Holy people do not say much to God. They are so able to live, to stand before God in such a way that this replaces many tearful, kneeling prayers of others.

The points. Why are people punished by loneliness?

They stand before Him with a pure heart, listening to what He sends them, and humbly accepting everything. For this humility, the Lord cares and protects them, as the true Heavenly Father, grants them grace. They stand before Him in grace and feel completely safe from adversity. This state is the wordless prayer of holy people. It is given for the purity of the heart given to God. Remember: "Child, give Me your heart." These people were so submissive to God that they completely forgot themselves.

We all need to learn to pray with words and thoughts, with all our souls. Because the heart is the throne from which the soul must offer its prayers to God.

When we pray, the soul sends its petitions to the Lord, and the Lord gives an answer. The soul, tuned in to such a conversation, feels the answer. She definitely feels that the Lord has heard and taken her worries upon Himself. We must end our prayers like this: "... Lord, not like me, but like You, Thy will be done," completely committing our petition to His will. He knows better than we do whether what we ask will be useful for the work of our salvation.

For example, they found a husband. Let him be Orthodox, but in spirit he may not be suitable. Torment, sins will begin. And if you turn to God, the Lord will send someone who will become a real companion both in this life and in the other world.

The Apostle Paul says: "It is good for a man to remain so (alone). However, even if you marry, you will not sin. But such will have sorrows according to the flesh; but I pity you" (1 Cor. 7:26-28).

What is the meaning of the life of a single woman? How to treat loneliness - as a punishment, destiny, or test?

Now it has become fashionable for single women to "have" children. The purpose of a single woman's life is not to have children without a husband. If it so happened that she is alone, then this time should be used for repentance, for salvation. Let him live a pure, pious life, do good deeds, be merciful, help his neighbors, and pray. After all, praying is also work, and a great work. And she will be the bride of Christ, pleasing to God.

Disappointment, sadness, pain and loneliness - each of us sooner or later experiences all this. “Why did such a terrible grief happen to me?” many ask. "How could a loving God allow this tragedy?" "Maybe He died?" "Why is He called kind, merciful and long-suffering, if every day people suffer unspeakable suffering?" Such questions are asked by everyone - both those who hate God and Christians who are confused and confused by disappointments. When trouble comes, it is natural for a person to ask questions, doubt and blame someone else for it.

However, God never promised us a carefree existence. He knows that temporary suffering in this life is necessary to prepare us for the life to come. Scripture says: " Whom the Lord loves, he punishes "(2 Tim. 3:12; Heb. 12:6).

We don't have to look far to see non-Christians fail and suffer. Many of these sorrows are the result of their own sins. We cannot escape the operation of the law of cause and effect. Some calamities are the result of ignorance and human corruption. Due to the fact that someone threw an unextinguished cigarette in the wrong place, devastating fires and explosions destroy land holdings and all life on them. When such disasters occur, many believe that this is the will of God. Some people even believe that calamities are always a punishment sent by God.

However, Christ once refuted the theory of "punishment from God" when He and His disciples met a man blind from birth. The disciples asked Jesus: Who sinned, he or his parents that he was born blind?" Jesus answered, "Neither he nor his parents sinned. ".

On another occasion, after Pilate destroyed a group of Galileans during their worship of God, Christ asked: " Do you think that these Galileans were more sinful than all the Galileans, that they suffered so? No, I tell you; but unless you repent, you will all likewise perish. Or do you think that those eighteen people on whom the tower of Siloam fell and killed them were more guilty than all those who lived in Jerusalem? No, I tell you; but if you do not repent, you will all perish in the same way "(Luke 13:2-5).

In addition to disasters resulting from human error, natural disasters also cause suffering and death. "He (Satan) is already busy with this work. Accidents, disasters on water and on land, terrible devastating fires, hurricanes, terrible storms, earthquakes - his evil will is visible in everything. He gathers his harvest, famine and disasters follow It infects the air with deadly fumes, and thousands of people die from epidemics."

1. Everything will become clear

Although we cannot understand the causes of all tragedies and disappointments, we are nevertheless given the following promise: "Everything that perplexes us about the providence of God will become clear to us in the world to come."

For many years I have kept this quote in my Bible: "He leads them in the way they would choose, if they could see from the beginning where the way leads, and know the magnificent purpose they are called to fulfill."

When sorrow, pain, problems, criticism, disappointment and other difficulties fall upon us, we want to exclaim: "Father, truly this evil cannot serve me for good!" And then the answer comes to us: "My child, all this is for your good. Believe Me, I only allow that which will enrich your life or make you a blessing to others. I love you incomparably more than you think. Everything that worries you But I am preparing you to dwell with Me forever. Do not doubt or question my intentions. Trust Me completely, and everything will work out for your good."

"Behold, says God, Yar has melted you, but not like silver; tested you in the furnace of suffering "(Isaiah 48:10). "The most brilliant crowns of those worn in heaven have been refined, melted down, polished and glorified in the furnace of trials," wrote Edwin Hubbell Chapin. God is developing in us the same strength that He has metal after tempering Let our prayer sound like this: "Cleanse me, test me, Lord; but don't throw me away like unusable iron is thrown into scrap metal."

2. Everything works together for good

Rome. 8:28 there is a promise that goes like this: " Those who love God... everything works together for good ". And yet it is difficult to believe. He whose faith is based on this text is in fellowship with God. While " those who love God... everything works together for good ", not necessarily all of this is good in itself. Both good and evil work for the good of those who love God.

If in Rome. 8:28 it was said that something works for good "or:" much works for good, "then it would not be difficult to believe in it. All problems are created by a short word" all". Due to the fact that we are very inclined to doubt, it is very difficult for us to take God at his word. But anyway, the fact remains: God promises that if we love Him and let Him guide us, then everything - good or bad - will be used in our Christian experience like stones laid to cross a fast river: "All our sufferings and sorrows, all our temptations and trials, sorrow and bitterness, persecution and deprivation - in a word, everything contributes to our good."

3.Temptations

“The inevitability of the experiences and trials that we have to endure shows that the Lord Jesus sees something precious in us that He wants to develop. If He did not see anything in us by which He could glorify His name, He would not waste time to purify us. He does not throw into His fiery furnace stones of no value. He purifies only valuable ore. The blacksmith puts iron and steel into the fire to know the quality of the metal. The Lord allows His chosen ones to be in the fiery hell of adversity in order to reveal them disposition and find out if they are fit for His work."

Temptations and trials are a daily occurrence in our lives. Satan constantly leads us to stop loving and trusting God. Although the evil one tempts everyone, he directs special efforts on those who have decided to become like Christ.

The Apostle Peter warns all Christians: Be sober, stay awake, because your devil's adversary walks like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour. "(1 Pet. 5:8).

The lion is a good example of the work of the devil. He creeps silently and imperceptibly, and if we do not stand guard, we will not be able to resist his attack.

Temptations should lead us in prayer to the Lord. Each time we fail, we become weaker, but each victory over temptation strengthens character. When temptation seems to overwhelm us, remember the promise found in 1 Cor. 10:13:" No other temptation has come upon you than that of man; and God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted beyond your strength, but when tempted will give you relief, so that you can endure ".

The message of God is, "I will not let temptation outweigh your ability to resist." Our Creator knows how much temptation we can endure. A crucible can be a sign that God has confidence in us. Before Satan stripped Job of all his possessions, children, and wealth, God knew his "limitation." He knew that Job would remain faithful. In the same way, God knows the limits of our powers, and He will not allow Satan to tempt us beyond this limit.

God sends each person exactly as many trials as he can endure, and no more. Our Savior assures us that He will provide an opportunity to overcome any temptation. At the same time, He will not necessarily deliver us from it, but will give us the strength to overcome. No matter how we are, no matter how great the temptation, Christ is always with us, and He assures us: " I will strengthen you and help you ..." (Isaiah 41:10).

"If we dare to enter Satan's territory, we have no assurance that we are protected from his power. As far as possible, we must close every way through which the tempter can find access to us" 8. Don't go where temptation can overtake you. Don't be discouraged when temptation comes, but be sure that by God's grace you will overcome. In the event of any temptation, God prepares a way to get rid of it.

The Lord never tempts us to sin. " God is not tempted by evil and Himself does not tempt anyone" (Ex. 1:13). The only guarantee against falling into temptation is Christ living in the heart. He will never leave the person He died for. " Stay in constant connection with the living Christ, and He will hold your hand tightly and never leave you.". And remember: “The name of the Lord is a strong tower; the righteous flee into it, and the » (Prov. 18:10). From evil, God extracts good and uses temptation to bring us to Himself. These experiences purify and discipline us. They arouse in us an aversion to evil and a desire for good. The Lord allows temptation because He loves us.

4. The wise and comprehensive plan of God

God would like to make us rich, famous, prosperous, fulfill every desire of our hearts, but He chooses not to. Our nature is too weak to endure absolute well-being. When everything is going smoothly, we tend to become proud and feel independent, thereby ceasing to feel any need for God. Therefore, one by one, He removes all the barriers that separate us from Him. These barriers can sometimes be health, strength, wealth, fame, or even someone we love, to whom we are most attached. It is hard to be broken and depressed, but He allows it because He loves us and wants to save us.” " For whom the Lord loves, he chastens; but he beats every son whom he receives. If you suffer punishment, then God deals with you as with sons. For is there any son whom the father would not punish ? "(Heb. 12:6, 7).

Nobody likes difficulty. When making any plans, we do not foresee possible problems and do not take them into account. When they arise, they become an unpleasant surprise for us. We respond to them in a variety of ways, with self-pity, depression, bitterness. However, God wants us to treat them differently. " But now, Lord, You are our Father; we are the clay, and You are our Shaper, and we are all the work of Your hand "(Is. 64:8). The Lord is our Educator, our Potter; we are the clay; the potter's wheel represents heavenly grace and the successive experiences of our life.

5. Sky Potter

According to the design of the heavenly Potter, both the forces of this world and the influence from above contribute to the formation of our character. Frequent blows to the wet clay vessel are necessary to remove cracks, indicating that the material has not yet acquired the proper flexibility.

That is why the great Potter who created us often puts us under blows and pressure. We force Him to do so by stubbornly resisting His mercy and rebelling against the problems of life. The Lord does not change our form in order to completely reject us. If, after repeated action, the previously resisting soul yields to Him, He will make of it a useful vessel. No soul can be beyond the reach of His transforming touch. "And the vessel which the potter was making of clay fell apart in his hand; and he again made of it another vessel, such as the potter took it into his head to make "(Jer. 18:4).

No, our heavenly Potter does not test us to make us unfit; but, like clay, He is continually shaping us. "He kneads it and works on it. He breaks the lumps apart and kneads them; putting them together... He leaves it to lie for a while... When it becomes completely pliable, He continues the work, making a vessel out of it. He shapes it and places it on a circle, where he finishes it and polishes it. He dries the vessel in the sun and fires it in a kiln. Only then is the vessel fit for consumption." He puts blows on our wayward and unyielding life only to ennoble it. He destroys it only to make something more beautiful out of it. He breaks it just to make it whole. He hurts her only to give her eternal healing.

After the potter has given the vessel the desired shape, he fires it in a kiln, and the heat transforms the soft clay into a strong and beautiful vessel. He carefully ensures that the vessels do not touch each other during firing. After all, if one of them bursts during firing, the other will burst. In God's great plan for our lives, we must stand apart from one another in the crucible of adversity. And yet we are not alone. Christ is with us. God allows us to be tested and refined so that individual character can develop in each of us. He wants each of us to win the victory himself, so that we may be among those who " come from great tribulation; they washed their clothes and made their clothes white in the blood of the Lamb" (Rev. 7:14).

6. The process of formation is not enjoyed - it is tolerated

The Lord does not expect us to enjoy the process of formation, but He wants us to endure it with patience. When the apostle Paul in 2 Cor. 7:4 wrote: "I ... overflow with joy, with all our sorrow ", he did not mean by this that he received pleasure from being stoned, or from the fact that those whom he loved turned against him. But the apostle rejoiced because these experiences brought him closer to God. They changed his character in a way that nothing else could change it. The psalmist David said, " It is good for me that I suffered in order to learn Your statutes "(Ps. 119:71). "If we are engaged to heaven, how can we, like a company of mourners, walk along the road to the Father's house, groaning and expressing discontent? Christians who constantly express discontent and, apparently, consider the uplifted and the joyful state of the spirit of sin, do not possess true religion. He does not abide in Christ who finds gloomy pleasure in all the melancholy and melancholy that is in this world, who prefers to look at fallen dead leaves instead of picking beautiful living flowers; he does not abide in the Lord who does not see the beauty in the majestic mountain peaks, in the valleys covered with a living green carpet, who closes his senses to a joyful voice that speaks to them through nature, a voice melodious and harmonious for those who hear it.

Suppose we reverse this order... Suppose you try to account for all your blessings. You thought so little about them, and you had so many of them, that when failures and misfortunes come, you are deeply saddened and think that God is unjust. You don't even remember that for all God's blessings you gave Him so little gratitude and appreciation. You didn't deserve them; but, because day after day, year after year, they flowed like a river to you, you looked at them as something in its own right to take all the advantages without giving anything in return. God has more blessings than a hair on our head, more than sand on the seashore. Meditate on His love and care for us, and let it fill you with a love that trials and tribulations cannot drown out.

If only we could see all the dangers from which holy angels shield us every day, then, instead of complaining about trials and failures, we would constantly talk about God's mercy. "It is natural for us to be grateful for God's many blessings, such like health, family, and prosperity. But do we thank the Lord for the experiences? Do we thank Him for the hardships that make our character stronger? As, for example, we look at:

a) sorrow, which makes us compassionate;

b) pain, which adds to our patience in our lives;

c) a problem that makes us think;

d) criticism that forces us to check ourselves;

e) discouragement, which helps us to remain meek.

f) Difficulties that make us feel dependent on God?

All these and thousands of other questions bring us more benefit than many easy victories that do not give any spiritual growth.

7. God's Chosen Remedy

Let's thank God for the hardships that help us grow into more like Him. "The trials of life are Divine instruments by which He cleanses our character of imperfections and roughness. Hewing, sculpting, grinding and polishing are painful ... But thus worked, the stones become Fit to take their appointed place in the heavenly temple." “One day, a man who was in a state of deep depression due to a misfortune that happened to him, walked in the evening in the garden and looked at a pomegranate tree, in which almost all the branches were cut ... “Sir,” said the gardener, “this tree has grown so much that did not bear any fruit, but had only leaves. I was forced to cut it; and after that it began to bear fruit."

Our sorrows do not come by themselves. In every experience, God has a purpose that will serve us well. Every blow that destroys an idol, a blow that weakens our earthly attachments and brings us closer to God, is a blessing. For some time after such a "pruning" we may experience pain, but then " bear the peaceful fruit of righteousness ". We should gratefully accept everything that enlivens our consciousness, elevates our thoughts and ennobles life. Barren branches are cut and thrown into the fire. Let us be grateful that, despite the painful "pruning", we keep in touch with the living Vine; for if we suffer with Christ, we shall also reign with him. It is those difficulties which most severely test our faith, and which make it seem to us that God has forgotten us, that bring us closest to him. Then we we can lay all our burdens at the feet of Christ and find the peace that He gives in return... God loves and cares for the weakest of His creations, and there is nothing more capable of grieving Him than our doubting His love for us. let's cultivate that living faith that will destroy all doubts in the hours of darkness and trials!" Christ will never leave the soul for which He died. She may leave Him and become a prisoner of temptations; but Christ will never turn away from him for whom he has paid a ransom with his life. If our spiritual eyes were open, we would be able to see those who are so burdened with grief that they may perish from their own despair and disappointment. We would see angels rushing to the aid of these souls, standing, as it were, on the edge of the abyss. Having pushed aside many evil angels, heavenly servants help these unfortunate people to regain ground under their feet. The battles taking place between two invisible armies are as real as the battles taking place between the armies of this world, and eternal destinies depend on the outcome of the spiritual struggle.

To us, as to Peter, the words are addressed: " Satan asked to sow you like wheat; but I prayed for you that your faith would not fail"Thank God we are not left alone." “For those who seek to follow the will of God, the time of deepest turmoil will be the time when divine help is closest to them. Looking back at the darkest periods of their lives, they will remember them with the greatest gratitude. "The Lord knows how to deliver the godly "(2 Pet. 2:9). He will bring them out of all temptations, out of all trials, and they will be enriched with experience, and their faith will become even stronger"

8. Not left alone

We have been promised: Will you cross the waters, I'm with you - or cross the rivers, they won't drown you "(Isaiah 43:2). Jesus assures us: " Behold, I am with you all the days to the end of the age "(Matt. 28:20). Can we desire more? "In all our trials, we have an unfailing Helper. He does not leave us alone to fight temptations and fight evil, for we would eventually be crushed by hardships and sorrows. Although now He is hidden from the eyes of mortals, but faith will help to hear His voice saying: " Don't be afraid, I'm with you". "And alive; and was dead and her, alive forever and ever "(Rev. 1:18). I have endured your sorrows, experienced all your struggles, met your temptations. I see your tears, I also wept. I know sorrows that are so deep that they cannot be entrusted to any person. Do not think that you are alone and forsaken, although your pain does not touch any heart on earth, yet you look to Me and live. "Mountains will move, and hills will be shaken; but My mercy will not depart from you, and the covenant of My peace will not be shaken, says the Lord who has mercy on you." (Isaiah 54:10)."

9. The plan pays off

Disappointments and difficulties develop patience in us. And patience is one of the first fruits of grace. " Here is the patience of the saints ", - said John the Theologian. Only people who make it possible" patience to perform your perfect action "in your life, will become" perfect and complete, without needing anything ". These are the ones who will live forever where nothing will annoy or disturb. When the little trials of life make us irritable, we should ask God for forgiveness. Due to the fact that we cannot see our problems the way they God sees, and we cannot understand them as He understands, we misinterpret His attitude towards us. Because our understanding of the Lord is limited, we often doubt His love. light for yourself. To us, with our nature, these paths seem gloomy and bleak. But the ways of God are the ways of mercy, and at the end of them is salvation. ".

How good it would be if we remembered that every dark storm has a heavenly side illuminated by God's light and glory. Our vision of human suffering is very limited. We interpret problems and disappointments negatively, often fearing that they will destroy us. We forget that the Lord allows them for our growth. We need to use the heavenly ointment to help us see God's plan clearly. Only then will we notice love in all life experiences. When we look at our trials from God's point of view, then we perceive them as divine instruments through which He prepares us for eternal life.

10 .Tests as part of education

"Trials and obstacles are God's chosen methods of education and the conditions of success He offers. They are designed to purify the children of God from attachment to vanity, material goods." Christ Himself studied in this school of suffering in order to personally experience what a person experiences. " Although He is a Son, yet through suffering he learned obedience. "(Heb. 5:8). How much more do we ordinary people need to learn the lessons that our Heavenly Father wants to teach us. Even if we do not understand all the reasons, we know that God wants each of our experiences has contributed to the development of the character of Jesus Christ in us. How should we deal with difficulties and disappointments? Of course, we should not become angry and irritated. to find the sympathy you desire, the more disappointments and trials will befall you.” In every experience that God allows for us, there is His plan, testifying to His wisdom and love for us.

"And he will sit down to refine and purify silver, and purify the sons of Levi and refine them like gold and like silver, so that they can offer sacrifices to the Lord in righteousness. (Mal. 3:3). One woman, seeking to understand the true meaning of this statement, turned to a silversmith with a request to tell about the process of refining silver. The master colorfully described everything to her. "But," the woman asked, "are you watching what happens during this work?" “Oh, yes,” answered the silversmith, “I must sit and carefully look into the forge, for if the time required for purification exceeds the allowable time by even a few minutes, the silver, alas, will be spoiled. When I see my my own reflection, I know that the cleansing process is over.” In subjecting us to cleansing, Christ does not drag it out a moment longer than is necessary. He allows fire to purify, ennoble and sanctify, but not to destroy us. He wants to see in us the reflection of His image.

“God, in His great love, seeks to develop the gifts of His Spirit in us. He allows us to encounter obstacles, endure persecution and difficulties, but not so that they serve us as a curse, but, on the contrary, as a blessing.”

11. Nothing happens "just like that"

If we are Christians, then nothing happens to us "just like that." Disappointments, lost hopes, shattered plans—everything we come into contact with in our lives prepares us for eternity. God allows every experience, wanting to bring us closer to Himself. His ways are inscrutable, but He never errs. He is full of wisdom and love. Let's obey His will. There are some things that we may not know about until we experience them and look back.

By leading us away from danger, God can touch our most intimate interests. Sometimes He deprives us of the most valuable thing, that which for us is the greatest treasure. Someone we love might get sick; someone's death will make us feel helpless. But when faced with death, we can appreciate the realities of life more deeply.

Our troubles do not please God, but suffering is necessary to teach us obedience. One writer said: Sometimes God washes the eyes of His children with tears so that they can read His Commandments correctly.". No matter how severe the trials that have fallen to our lot, Christ never changes His attitude towards us, remaining always kind and loving." For only I know what intentions I have for you, says the Lord, intentions for good and not for evil. (Jer. 29:11). Any trials that He allows are for our good. A heavy blow, in one minute turning all earthly joys into nothing, can turn our gaze to heaven.

When disaster strikes, it is useless to ask "why?". Questions and doubts only exacerbate the situation. It is much wiser to accept the fact and focus all your efforts on solving the problem. Although it is not always possible to see the results of any trial, one should not lose confidence in God.

Sometimes God allows us to suffer a strong, painful blow. It can even be the collapse of the most secret plans or hopes. Whatever the disappointment, our lives are in the hands of God. God has His own plan for each of us, and every blow He allows has a purpose. God " not according to the desire of his heart he punishes and grieves the sons of men (Lamentations Jer. 3:33) He allows trials in the lives of His children because He loves them.

12. No place for despair

Understanding all this leaves no room for despair. All people should live with the assurance that God has His own plans for each one of them, and that whatever happens has a purpose. Such confidence makes life happy! "They will look with gratitude at the most difficult part of their journey" - what a wonderful promise!

Satan invents temptations to hurt us, but God turns them into good and uses them for His glory. Every experience we have, whatever it may be, carries within it God's plan. "Whatever fears and worries meet you, leave everything to the Lord. Your spirit will be strengthened and become more enduring. You will see how you can get out of difficulties and gain confidence in the future. The weaker and helpless you are, the stronger you will become in Him, the harder your burdens, the more blessed is your rest when your burdens are transferred to Him who is ready to bear them.

Circumstances can separate us from friends for a long time; the raging waters of the endless sea can separate us from our loved ones. But neither circumstances nor distances will ever separate us from the Savior. Wherever we are, He is there to support, preserve, encourage, and comfort. Great is the love of a mother for her child, but infinitely greater is the love of Christ for His redeemed ones. It is our good to rest in His love and say, "I trust Him, for He gave His life for me. Human love is often changeable, but the love of Christ is unchanging. When we cry out for help, turning to Him, He stretches out His hand to us , to save". GeraldNash

I asked God for strength so that I could achieve the goal:

I became weak that I might learn to obey with meekness.

I asked for health to do great things:

I became weak to do better things.

I asked for wealth to be happy:

I became poor in order to be wise. I asked for power

to achieve human glory:

I became weak to feel the need of God.

I asked for everything to enjoy life:

I got a life to enjoy everything.

I didn't get what I asked for

But got everything I hoped to get

without even knowing it.

My unspoken prayers were answered.

Among all people, I have received the richest blessings.