How to be interesting for a guy. How to be interesting to your man always

Each of us has our own idea and definition of the concept of "interesting person" or "interesting person". They differ in some ways, but to a greater extent, these concepts are similar for different people.

An interesting person is a person who knows how to keep up a conversation (no matter what topic), someone who is pleasant to listen to, optimistic, cheerful, charismatic, self-confident who has a sense of humor ... Such people are respected, they are drawn to them, and everyone wants to have such a person as a friend.

Do you want to become an interesting person? Do you want to be noticed and listened to your opinion? Do you feel that others are starting to get bored in your company? So, it's time to work on yourself a little.

Constantly discover and learn something new

Becoming an interesting person is not at all difficult, but only on the condition that you begin to be keenly interested in something. Boring people are not interested in anything, they do not care what is happening in the world and around them. More often change the scenery, explore new places and gain new experiences, travel, expand your horizons, get acquainted with new trends, ideas and opinions, study them, enrich your intellect.

If you want to become an interesting person, you should definitely discover your own hobbies and identify an interest in anything. And it does not matter at all what exactly will become your hobby: drawing, cross-stitching, growing tomatoes or collecting coins.

A person who is passionate about anything is almost always an interesting person. Such people give themselves entirely to their favorite pastime, which often develops from an ordinary hobby into the business of a lifetime. They live in harmony with themselves and have recognition and respect in society, regardless of what they realize themselves in: in science or sports, politics or art, pedagogy or entrepreneurship.

In the process of taking up a new hobby, you should not get hung up on it alone - gradually expand the scope of interests. It’s great if you have studied the subject from all sides, you know it inside and out, but the probability to interest a person and become an interesting conversationalist for him will be more in the case when the area of your knowledge is not limited to one thing.

Share your knowledge

It is one thing to learn a lot of new things for yourself, to enrich your knowledge and broaden your horizons. Another thing through which the path to becoming an interesting personality lies is communication with people.

Once the great English writer George Bernard Shaw said: If I have an apple and you have an apple, and if we exchange them, then both I and you will have one apple left. And if I have an idea and you have an idea and we exchange them, then each of us will have two ideas". This is the meaning of communication! Acquiring spiritual, personal and mental benefits through communication, we become internally richer.

All of us are characterized by an irresistible desire for new knowledge. Therefore, the opportunity to obtain useful information always arouses interest, and the ability of a person to present this information in an entertaining and competent way, demonstrating good communication skills, doubly fuels interest in him. Learning how to express your thoughts beautifully and shares knowledge, you will provide yourself with a large audience of listeners who listen to your every word with an open mouth and certainly consider you an interesting person to communicate with.

Try to see the best in yourself

Many often consider themselves an ordinary boring person and do not believe in their own abilities. And such words as - "In each person the whole Universe is hidden" and "All people are unique" are ignored or they think that they are applicable to anyone, but not to them.

Remember - there is no more dangerous enemy than self-destruction. Look at yourself, emphasize the strengths of your character and focus on the best sides of your nature. Fight weak will and weaknesses, do not hide your talents and abilities, but on the contrary, demonstrate them.

Ask yourself why do your friends hang out with you? Obviously because of your inherent virtues, because of your views on life, hobbies and interests. It turns out that you are already an interesting person for someone!

After you have found positive qualities in yourself (it cannot be that you do not have them), try to multiply them. Some disadvantages can be turned into advantages by making them part of the image and your corporate identity. People with funny habits and principles can also be interesting.

Learn to listen

To become an interesting conversationalist you just have to learn to listen. Your ability to listen to the interlocutor (as well as ability to ask questions) will play a big role in the perception of you as an interesting person.

Give others the opportunity to speak and talk about themselves, so you can demonstrate your attentiveness and interest in a person and become an interesting person in his eyes. After all, is it possible to consider as such someone who is focused only on himself and is completely intoxicated with his person. On the contrary, the one who talks only about himself, thinks only about himself and is not interested in anyone but himself - boring man.

Come to terms with your oddities

Each of us has our own "cockroaches in the head", our own individual characteristics and oddities. You should not hide them from everyone, because they are what make us unique and interesting personalities.

If you are somehow different from most people and can say to yourself - “I am not like everyone else” - you should not be shy about this, but on the contrary, you should make it your dignity, your “zest”. Only here there is one big BUT - your "otherness" should not be too strange. Interest is something new, different from the ordinary, but within the framework of the understandable.

You probably noticed that sometimes women cannot formulate why they like this or that man, and to the questions of their friends - “What did he hook you with”, they answer - “He is not like everyone else!”. There is practically no logic in these words, and these are rather emotions, but they are what make a person interesting and attractive. People may not do anything unusual at all, but if someone perceives their actions, words, or, for example, a look as something new and unusual, then it arouses interest.

Be yourself, don't follow the crowd

Stand up for your opinion instead of adapting to the world around you, be yourself, and do not demonstrate the model of behavior professed by the majority. Others are interested in independent people who have a sense of their own dignity, and not humility with what they don’t like or is completely alien.

Be independent in making decisions, do not be like the majority. Do what you like, resist outside influences. At a time when some adapt to others, you must demonstrate your individuality: do not buy clothes that are fashionable, but those that you like and in which you feel comfortable and convenient; do your favorite sport, and not just for the company; listen to music to which the soul lies, and not to the one that is popular, etc.

Do what you think is right, do not pay attention to gossips and envious people, and then your real friends will respect you for it.

This does not mean that you must always and in everything act on the contrary, sometimes it is useful to listen to the general opinion, especially if it does not contradict your inner convictions, or to adopt someone else's experience and other people's ideas. But remember that become an interesting person it is easier for others to create something of their own and follow their own path.

Moderate your fears

To remain who you are, to have your own opinion and defend it if necessary, you need courage. Do not be afraid of someone else's opinion, which can be expressed if you "go out of step with everyone."

Courage is also needed in order to take an unexpected and unknown path at the right time. Some people are highly dependent, and are so afraid of everything that they don’t even dare to think about anything outside their comfort zone, but in life you have to be bolder, try, dare, take risks, dare, fall and break your knees to get up.

A person with rich life experience is more interesting than a person who has little going on in life. And for this experience to become truly rich, just sometimes courage is needed. So temper your fears.

Ignore whiners and bores

Being bored is safe, any bore will tell you. Bores could, should have done, would have done ... But they never did! And now they are offended, because everything works out for you, and they tease, bore, bore.

Such people poison life. With long communication with them, the mood deteriorates, and life becomes unbearable. They are like energy vampires sucking all the juice out of a person. And the best way protect yourself from an energy vampire this is to minimize communication with him, so you should do the same with bores. Otherwise, what would interesting person you haven’t been, if there are a lot of whiners and bores in your environment, you risk being influenced: slide into uncertainty, succumb to pessimism, get depressed, etc.

If you have a sense of humor, use it

Interesting personalities are called people who are witty, funny, able to cheer up, and not those who know Newton's laws and can boringly talk about them.

Often, when describing a person with whom it was interesting, they say about him - “it's fun with him”, “it's fun with him”, etc. They are drawn to people who cause smiles and know how to make others laugh, they want to be with them, they are invited to all companies.

The safest and easiest way to be interesting in communication(easy for a person with a sense of humor), it's time to joke, tell a joke or a funny story, at the right time to defuse the situation.

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Spa salons, massage, surgical cosmetology, which is now only absent in the beauty industry, so that any woman would strike the strong half of humanity on the spot! But why does it happen that "darned", "botex" and "reshaped" beauties often remain lonely? But some “gray mouse” (according to singles) was lucky to grab a chic prince?

All because this "mouse" knows one secret - how to be and remain interesting for a man. Well, let's reveal her secret, shall we?

Here, by the way, is similar to the book. Imagine you came to the bookstore for a new edition. How will you choose it?

Liked the cover. Strong, shiny. And what's inside - do not care. You will find familiar letters - and that is normal.

Of course, the third option is simply incredible. So it is for men - they just need interesting content for life with their beloved. Even after “reading” such a woman “from cover to cover”, you still don’t want to part with her.

Again - like a favorite book: the plot is familiar, but still the hand reaches out to it to read the best chapter, passage or even a line, because interest in it does not disappear in any way. Oh, there would be a sequel!

When you like a man, you want to “hook” him with all your might. It is at this time that many women make many mistakes. Chatting incessantly about his beloved, and even mixed with stupid conclusions, a man quickly loses interest in her. Well, if you only seal her mouth with adhesive tape, then nothing like a “cover”, you can feel it.

The intrigue lies precisely in the understatement. Well, like a detective. Until you read it, you won't know that "the killer is the butler." The ability of a woman to keep her mouth shut is a great art that keeps a man in the web of curiosity.

Information about yourself should be given out to a man in small portions, and without focusing on this, they say, here I am all so extraordinary, let's bite through. On the contrary, what interests him can be outlined in a couple of phrases during communication, without unnecessary chatter.

But it would be worth listening to the man carefully. Well, firstly, you yourself will find out the details about him, if, of course, he does not lie about himself, boasting. And secondly, even in this case, you yourself will charm him with your ability not to interrupt. Which, by the way, is a very rare quality in women.

Disappear imperceptibly and appear by chance. Another trick in case a woman is already interested in a man. Again, similar to the book. Just imagine that you lost a book with a detective without finishing it. You will turn inside out to find her and find out the ending. So keep the intrigue yourself in this way - he will find you anyway.

Well, well, can you already be congratulated on the fact that you are interested in your man, and is he firmly on your hook? Calm down, do not relax, even if he is familiar with your biography, he still does not know your amazing "chips". And they are full of contradictions:

You will not hesitate to jump from a high "bungee", but you can collapse into a swoon at the sight of a tiny spider.

You can easily fix a car breakdown, but you can’t do a simple screenshot on a computer.

You almost know by heart all the poems of Yesenin, but who is Uncle Focus from the old cartoon - you have no idea.

Can you imagine how shocked he is by such amazing inconsistencies? You can not be called a fool - you know how to do things that even some men cannot do. But the small nuances in knowledge and your weakness are even touching.

It is with such a woman that you can simultaneously feel like a strong man who will take on the fight with a spider, and the happy owner of a personal car mechanic.

By the way, if the queen is made by the environment, then such an amazing woman as you will be admired by your boyfriend's friends. And this is the best advertisement for you.

You are always different

You are not fixated on one thing, but you try to develop comprehensively. This does not mean that you have to go deep into every science, but some elementary things are within your reach.

By the way, it will not be superfluous to learn some subtleties from your man. Well, as in the case of a screenshot: you catch two birds with one stone - and you listen to it carefully, and you gain knowledge.

Of course, it will be very important for your boyfriend if you share his hobbies with him. Here he will definitely not be bored with you. Yes, and you yourself will have an incentive to continue your relationship with him - what can unite more than a common hobby?

But let your young man never cease to be amazed at your constant transformation. You're never the same

Alone with him, you are an affectionate kitty - gentle, caring and attentive. You are pleased to listen to his voice, and you yourself help him with unobtrusive advice if he needs it. And in general, with him you agree to get into any adventure.

In the company of friends you are "your kid." You understand their jokes, it's easy and fun with you. You don’t hiss any personal dissatisfaction in the guy’s ear for any reason and you know how to remain silent at the right time. Therefore, his friends from the first minute accepted you into their team.

At work, you are a professional. You are not burdened by work, you are passionate about it. Even if your job is so-so, you will still be able to show what you are capable of.

Yes, men really appreciate women's independence. Not feminists and women who are strong as a bull, but precisely those who are able to solve some problems on their own without hysterical sobs.

Bitchiness, hysteria and obsession are just those negative feminine qualities that lower the bar of men's interest.

Don't forget the cover

And, of course, it is necessary to say about the appearance. An untidy woman with a faded muzzle does not arouse interest from the first minutes, no matter how much you “do not read” her. But a chic diva from the first seconds of her appearance will easily make a rustle among men. And if she is also with a rich inner world, then generally a waste.

As you can see, it is not so difficult to make men interested in you. The main thing is to keep the brand and not give yourself a descent in the future, so as not to be "a shabby book with a boring plot."

Finally, an unusual technique

Let's do a thought experiment.

Imagine that you have the superpower to "read" men. Like Sherlock Holmes: you look at a man - and you immediately know everything about him and understand what is on his mind. You would be able to get any man and have an ideal relationship and would hardly be reading this article now in search of a solution to your problem.

Who said it's impossible? Of course, you won’t read other people’s thoughts, but otherwise there is no magic here - only psychology.

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The authors of The Rules, Ellen Fein and Sherry Schneider, revolutionized America when they demanded that women once and for all forget about meeting men first, calling themselves, making dates. The main idea of the book can be expressed very briefly by one of those very famous rules: "Let the man lead." Today we publish the part that concerns the already established relations.

Rule #26 Even if you are engaged or married, you still need "rules"

Ideally, we should follow the "Rules" from the minute we first meet a man until the moment he says he loves and wants to get married. But if you were unfortunate enough to know about The Rules before reading this book, we offer you the best thing to do right now. It is better to follow the "Rules" now than not to follow them ever.

But if you never knew about The Rules, don't feel like you need to completely change your relationship with your fiancé or husband. For example, if you were the initiator of the relationship, calling him, asking him out on a date, and doing other things in order for the relationship to work out, he will always expect something like this from you. He does not have to worry about marriage - he knows that he has you. After all, you tell him this with every word and gesture. And a man gets used to taking you for granted. You may have made things worse by initiating sex and/or romantic dinners. You asked him about your feelings, asking him to spend less time at work or with friends and more time with you. Sometimes you even think that he has an affair on the side.

If you didn't follow the "Rules" from the very beginning of your relationship, then your husband may not pay attention to you, be rude or treat you badly. Are you guessing:

- Is his behavior the result of bad upbringing or is it related to his past?

Perhaps it is. But we think it's all your fault. You didn't follow the "Rules". A man has never had to treat you like the girl of his dreams. A man who is absolutely indifferent to his wife or girlfriend changes dramatically when he meets a woman who follows the "Rules".

There is no place for violence in a "Rules" relationship, you were hard to win, a man had to work hard, and now he considers you the most beautiful and beautiful woman in the world, even if you are not. For him, you are a real treasure.

Do not despair. Start following the "Rules" immediately, and he will certainly notice a change in your behavior. And then he wants you more.

Here are five suggestions

Don't call him at work so often. Calls should be short and businesslike. ("What time is the movie?"). Do not call to say that you are bored and want to have sex in the evening. He should be calling you to say something like that.
Don't initiate sex, even if you really want to. Let him be the man and the aggressor in the bedroom. Biologically, it is the man who should pursue the woman. If you start to initiate sex, then deprive a man of masculinity. Act like a Rules girl on a first date. Be flirtatious. Flirt when he tries to kiss you or bite your neck. And that will turn him into a tiger.
Dress better and sexier. Men do not like to see a woman in a dressing gown at home. Wear tight jeans, miniskirts, brightly colored shirts with low necklines. Use perfume, do makeup. Wash your hair often. Pretend you're on a date.
Conduct yourself independently. Always come or go. Don't sit on the couch waiting for him to return. Do not load him with stories about the events of the day, your problems and pain. Make plans with friends, kids and neighbors. Go to the cinema and shopping malls. Just walk. And this will make him dream about how to snatch at least a minute of your precious time. He'll want to kiss you in the kitchen if he feels like you're about to slip away. He will go crazy when you start talking on the phone in his presence - he will want you to belong entirely to him. This is what happens when you start following the "Rules". He will feel that he will never get tired of you. He will start calling you from work to arrange a dinner at a restaurant or a weekend trip. This is what you need. Men love independent women because they give them freedom. They like to stalk busy women. It's interesting and exciting.
Find yourself a hobby. Most men prefer to spend Sunday watching TV with beer. Some take work home and sit at the computer all day. Women get lonely when their men don't include them in their plans and don't pay attention to them. You should not nag a man and demand that he give up hobbies, friends and work just because you are bored. You will get more attention if you are busier than him. Play with your kids, go for a run in the park, buy a membership to a fitness club. This will not only keep you occupied, but it will also help you stay in shape and be more attractive. He will think about what other men will think when they see you in a swimsuit. This is very helpful for relationships. This will make the man turn off the TV or computer and spend time with you. You can do charity work, read a book or play sports.

Find your own activities! The main thing is independence and employment. And then you will not hang around a man, complaining that he does not pay attention to you.

Alas, following the "Rules" sometimes implies loneliness (even if you are married and have children). Be glad it's not forever!

In relationships with girls, eloquence has always played a significant role. Sometimes relationships were created or, conversely, destroyed because of a person's ability to communicate. Communication is important not only with the opposite sex, but also with other people, especially when you want to make contacts with them or get a joint job. The male site site will give 10 rules that will help you make contacts and become an interesting conversationalist.

Has it ever happened to you that you communicate with a person, but he causes you some discomfort? It seems that he is outwardly attractive, does not say bad words, but something repels him. You naturally want to stop communicating with him as soon as possible.

However, there are people who do not have bright beauty and great knowledge, but it is so easy and fun to communicate with them that you don’t want to stop meeting. It seems that the person is not to your taste. It seems that he does not tell any truths and hidden information. However, it is so pleasant to communicate with him that you do not want to break away.

With each century, the ability of a person to communicate well with people around him becomes the main priority and a step towards. A lot of people say that you need to be well connected to be successful. However, to have these good connections, you need to be able to be a pleasant and interesting conversationalist. And this is an axiom both in the field of work, business, and in love.

How to arrange an interlocutor?

Tell the person: “I understand you!” - and he will want to continue to communicate with you and continue. Many people ask themselves the question: “How to win over the interlocutor?”. There is nothing easier than just letting him be right even when you disagree with him. Everyone thinks their opinion is the only correct one. Your opinion can be just as wrong as the other person's thoughts. Why argue about who is right and wrong? You can just let everyone be right to begin with! Thus, you win over anyone, because everyone wants to be right.

People don't need much. Give them understanding. When a person is understood, they do not try to argue and convince, then he relaxes and is imbued with gratitude to the interlocutor. You don't have to take someone else's point of view. If you think otherwise, then you have the right to remain with your opinion if it seems to you more correct. If the interlocutor speaks reasonable words, you can correct your opinion. But be that as it may, no matter what you do with your point of view, tell the interlocutor: “I understand you!”.

Understanding does not mean agreeing. To understand means to accept the right to the existence of someone else's opinion, no matter how erroneous and incorrect it may be. When a person feels that you "accept" him, then he will relax. He may even want to hear your thoughts and ask about them. Perhaps he will continue to talk about the topic of the conversation that you are having, and come to a broader understanding of the issue. Give understanding to the other person. This will allow not only to win over the interlocutor to yourself, but also to calm him down, prompting him to look at the issue more broadly.

Often people do not understand each other, or rather, they do not want to accept other people's points of view, because they have their own opinion, which they consider to be more correct. But the argument begins where the interlocutors begin to fight for whose opinion is the most correct, right? Why start a fight when you can avoid it? Accept the right to the existence of someone else's opinion, tell the interlocutor about it, even if your thoughts do not change from this. It is not necessary to fight for the correctness of someone's point of view. You can just listen to what the other person thinks and draw your own conclusions. It is not always necessary to convince someone. The other person has the right to be wrong. Life will put him in his place if he is really wrong. You can make mistakes, just like your interlocutor. And no one, except life itself, will convince you of this. That is why many people, arguing their opinion, often give examples from life.

Tell your partner: "I understand you!". Not only will you become his friend, but you will not provoke a quarrel, you will allow the other person to calm down, not fight you, and also look at the situation more broadly, even listen to your ideas and not resist them. Do you see how many pluses there are in one expression, where you accept the right to the existence of someone else's opinion, no matter how it contradicts yours?

10 rules of an interesting interlocutor

So, you want to become interesting, attractive and a good conversationalist. Here you need to show not only understanding, but also show communication skills that create ease in communication. Consider 10 rules that will make you an interesting conversationalist:

Tell interesting stories. Sometimes there is an awkward silence between the interlocutors. Don't they have anything to say? In fact, they just don't know what to say to them. However, in the life of every person, funny, interesting or exciting events happen. It is about them that you can remember, tell with a smile on your face, have fun and laugh together. The main aspect is that the story should be positive. No need to talk about your problems or tragedies. Tell funny, positive, interesting or educational stories.
Joke. Humor has always been considered one of the attributes of a good interlocutor. Here you can use jokes, funny stories, even compose jokes yourself. Allow yourself to laugh a little - draw the attention of the interlocutor to what makes you laugh. Here is an important nuance - if the interlocutor does not know how to laugh at himself (his shortcomings), then you do not need to joke about him.
Give compliments. A compliment is a positive evaluation of another person. Who hates to hear nice things about themselves? Even shy people are pleased to hear that others see them from a positive side. No need to bombard the interlocutor with compliments. You can say 2-3 compliments for all the time. However, it will be much nicer than saying nothing at all. One nuance - really notice what is in a person, no need to flatter.
Listen and speak. In communication, a person either listens or speaks. A good conversationalist can do both. Bad interlocutors go to extremes: either they listen and are silent all the time, or they constantly talk without letting other people say a word. You need to be able to both shut up in order to let the interlocutor speak out, and tell something when the interlocutor now wants to listen to your opinion.
Look into the eyes. Confident people do not hide their eyes, but constantly maintain contact with their interlocutors. They look straight into your eyes. Of course, they sometimes translate their gaze. However, they do not hide themselves and do not make their interlocutors shy.
Don't interrupt. This quality should be developed by many, because quite often people interrupt each other. Before the interlocutor had time to express everything he wanted, he was immediately interrupted. You can interrupt once or twice, but if this happens constantly, then the interlocutor loses interest in you. He begins to think that you do not want to listen to him, which means that you do not respect and do not take into account his opinion.
Don't ask too many questions. The conversation, of course, consists of questions and answers. However, it shouldn't look like the other person is being interviewed. You ask a question, the person answers you, and it is desirable that his answer be open, touching on various topics. For your part, you can supplement his answer, agree, refute or tell a story that relates to your topic. Questions don't always have to come from you. Let the interlocutor also be interested in something from you, and you give as detailed answers as possible.
Don't criticize. If you want to spoil the other person's mood, start criticizing him. But will he consider you an interesting conversationalist if he feels guilty, pathetic, worthless after your words? Criticism is necessary only on the case. It should be short and concise. However, you should not focus on it. Criticized - and that's enough, move on to another topic.
Don't brag. This quality is rare, but still found. Boasting makes a person miserable, and his interlocutor makes him get rid of the imposed feeling of worthlessness. While you boast, you are proving to the other person that you are better than him. No need to rise at someone else's expense. You can talk about your achievements that you are proud of. However, do not forget at the same time to ask what your interlocutor is proud of - listen to his boasting!
Expand your social circle. The more people you communicate with, the more communication skills you will have. Different people require a different approach to themselves. And this requires you to be flexible and understand your interlocutor, how you need to communicate with him and behave. If you know how to be different in communication, then you become interesting.

Laughter disposes the interlocutor

Do you want to become part of the company? Would you like to make friends with someone? Do you intend to win over your loved one? Create a situation where your partner will laugh heartily. It doesn't matter what exactly you do or what you laugh about. What is important is a surge of positive emotions that encourage a person to open up to those who made him laugh or were just nearby.

There have been studies that have given the same result. People who were in high spirits were more likely to reveal their secrets, to become sociable and good-natured towards those around them. Laughter brings people closer, research has shown.

How is this phenomenon explained? It is possible to consider in the mechanism such a moment as the elimination of the causes of isolation. A person in a depressed state or when immersed in despondency often closes. He trusts those who surround him at this moment. He does not know what he can say, and what is better to keep silent. Thus, contact with others is disrupted due to the fact that a person becomes closed.

In the moment of laughter, the grievances that grieved are forgotten. Negative thoughts are no longer scrolling in my head, but something cheerful and positive arises. The brain relaxes, the person himself lets go of the negative, which gives rise to a feeling of stability and calmness. When he does not see any threats for himself, he becomes open and friendly. The most effective way to achieve this state is to make the person you need laugh.

At the moment of a comedic situation, people approach and become open. They remove their barriers with which they used to protect themselves from a cruel world. Thus, if you want to make friends or attract the attention of the right partner, learn to make him laugh, amuse and delight. This will give him a feeling of comfort.

How to become an interesting interlocutor in the end?

The best way to learn to communicate well with people is to constantly contact them. Communicate with as many people as possible. Keep track of what mood you evoke in them, what words and phrases evoke positive or negative emotions in them. Practice, change your communication style, adjust your skills depending on the result, and then you will become interesting.

My man told me that there is nothing to talk about with me. He is a very well-read and versatile person, but I cannot get a job and have been sitting at home for 1.5 years. My life has become boring and uninteresting, nothing happens in it. Tell me how to change how to become interesting for a man?

Yes, it's very frustrating to realize that you are not interested in your beloved. Especially if he says it openly and starts avoiding communication with you. If this alarm bell rings, you It's time to change something in your life.

Now, so be it, back to the man! How not to be boring specifically for him? A few simple tips from women's site:

Change your appearance and change your behavior

Yes, men love variety! It is a fact! Don't be afraid to experiment: change your hair color, change your style of dress, change your hobbies and even change ! Transform from passionate mistresses into a cozy hostess with fragrant pies in the kitchen. From the cold impregnable queens into a small admiring girl. The main thing:

1) Don't change too fast so that the man has time to figure out what's what!
2) Don't step over your desires in pursuit of the result, otherwise your changes will be feigned and unnatural.

Be erudite, constantly develop

If you have a higher education - you, of course, well done. But life doesn't end there! Without a constant stream of useful information, the brain will relax. try hard all the time to learn something new and interesting. How?

1) Read good old books.
2) Track