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How to understand when a woman is cheating. Signs of a wife's betrayal are physiological and external. Sexual signs of wife's infidelity

The issue of fidelity will always be relevant, and it is important for a man to know what the signs of his wife’s betrayal are, so as not to be a banal cuckold, no matter how cruel it may sound.

Men will always have reasons for the first suspicions of infidelity; nevertheless, it is enough to simply notice that something has changed in the relationship.

As a rule, hostility, quarrels, the wife’s inexplicably bad mood appear, and so on down the list.

Suspicions poison a man, like any person, but guesswork alone can simply ruin your life, you need evidence and facts, you need indisputable signs that will help you recognize the appearance of a third extra person or extra people in bed, no matter who is unlucky.

We will try to describe the main signs that will already become the impetus for further investigation or a heart-to-heart conversation.

In the end, many men are so jealous that they can offer their wife to take a polygraph test to make sure of her fidelity, or simply hire a detective and track all the movements and meetings of their beloved.

External changes

Family life is quite routine, so there is nothing strange in the fact that the wife gradually becomes more and more homely, with a minimum of cosmetics and in some cases even a disdainful attitude towards her appearance.

If suddenly everything changed, then, most likely, a man has appeared in her life for whom she is ready again:

  • Spend more time in front of the mirror
  • Make every effort to become even more attractive,
  • Use provocative cosmetics.
  • Watch your weight.

There is nothing strange in this, this is how a woman’s nature works, she always wants to be beautiful for her lover, and not for her husband.

A sharp rise in female jealousy can help you find out about betrayal. Yes, it’s a woman’s, because from a psychological point of view, a woman feels guilty and begins to defend herself, secretly jealous of her husband for everything in the world.

Such a sharp change in her behavior may indicate that there is a lover in her life, and she feels good with him, but physiologically, but mentally she experiences torment, which she hides behind jealousy.

The simple but sudden distance of the wife also indicates that changes have occurred in her life that her husband will definitely not like.

Now she doesn’t try to find out how her husband is doing, what’s at work, how his day went. A married couple no longer gathers to just talk for hours and discuss their own plans. It is quite difficult to recognize the silhouette of a lover at such a distance, maybe the wife is just tired, this is called everyday life.

However, it is still worth suspecting that something is wrong; nothing happens in the world for nothing, and if a wife is no longer interested in her husband’s life, perhaps her thoughts are occupied with the life of her lover, especially if it is.

In general, any sudden change not only in appearance, but also in a woman’s behavior pattern can always be a sign of the appearance of a lover in her life. These changes include:

  • The sudden emergence of new interests and hobbies that require you to be away from home.
  • She started meeting her “friends” often.
  • At work, corporate parties, unscheduled meetings and after-hours have become too frequent. This is especially interesting if she has not been known to be a workaholic.
  • When my husband returned from work later than usual, this fact was even welcomed.

Agree, all this is at least suspicious, and suggests that the “hill of Venus” has become a place of pilgrimage, figuratively speaking.

Changes in intimate life

But from the point of view of sexual family life, there is nothing easier than recognizing the appearance of a third wheel in bed. Moreover, the changes can be radically opposite.

Some women, after a lover appears in their life, blossom in bed and with their husband. It can be noted that the wife became:

  • hypersexual,
  • Insatiable
  • depraved,

Such simple truths simply help to determine and find out that changes have appeared in her sex life, which she transfers to intimacy with her husband. Perhaps her lover is always on top, and she wants to receive the same from family life.

The second option for changing sex should also be of concern. If suddenly the wife suddenly stopped satisfying her husband in sex, became cold and strives with all her might to avoid intimacy, then a woman’s infidelity is definitely lurking somewhere nearby.

It is therefore difficult to convict a wife of cheating; after all, the reasons may simply be boring everyday life, the monotony of sex, or loss of interest in sex, but it doesn’t hurt to be wary.

Change in behavior

The slightest change in normal behavior may indicate the first signs of a lover. Often men note that a woman simply turns into a doll that shows virtually no emotions.

No kisses and tenderness, “hugs” are a thing of the past, flowers don’t please, new underwear doesn’t excite, oral sex doesn’t attract, unless she was there in the first place.

In addition, everyday life may change; a girl who has a lover will definitely devote less time to cleaning, ironing, cooking and other things. All her thoughts and desires will be focused on her lover and their secret passion.

And yet, the assessment of the husband’s dignity may change, not just in his pants, but precisely the assessment of his qualities as a man, lover, breadwinner, head of the family.

If suddenly a woman begins to have complaints, she reproaches the man, points out his shortcomings, then a test is not needed to understand - this is female infidelity, and comparison is a normal reaction, now the wife compares her husband with her lover in everything, and apparently the second one wins .

Technological features

In fact, this tricky term hides mobile communications, the Internet, and social networks. Here you just need to notice changes in behavior in time.

  1. The wife prefers to answer phone calls and talk in another room.
  2. SMS messages are immediately deleted, and in the phone there are only SMS from friends, for the sake of appearance, this is easy to find out.
  3. There is a password assigned to log in to social networks.

There is an interesting point here: if the wife is not completely on friendly terms with her browser history, then you can always track which pages she visits and with whom she communicates. Well, if history is constantly being erased, then this is also a sign of something secret. Even if it doesn’t help to incriminate the wife, it makes you think.

Direct evidence

But this is the most interesting thing, here the signs of female infidelity are presented with almost irrefutable evidence.

Firstly, souvenirs and gifts begin to appear. Of course, a woman can buy them for herself, but, as a rule, her lover does this.

Secondly, carelessly forgotten stubs from cinema or theater tickets appear. Lovers most likely do not sleep there, but as a prelude to sex, these places are quite suitable.

Thirdly, a woman may suddenly be found to have a condom. This is especially interesting if the couple does not use contraception in their intimate family life. After all, the woman suddenly began to carry condoms with her not for fun.

Fourthly, you can find emergency contraception that act almost like physiological signs. Not only does this help to practically convict the wife of cheating, but it also speaks of passionate and unprotected sex with her lover.

There is another subtle point, these are purely physiological signs of female infidelity. They can be identified if the wife recently had sex and did not have time to take a proper shower. That is, there is too much lubrication in her vagina, and her labia are wet.

Of course, she could simply be aroused by the sight of a handsome conductor or by the speed of the subway, but, unfortunately, most likely this is simply a consequence of good sex with her lover.

Bottom line

No matter how many guesses and signs there are, the real signs of a woman’s infidelity appear in her revelation, in the work of a detective, or if you conduct a polygraph test. Everything else is just guesswork that doesn’t help you find out, but makes you think.

And yet, if the betrayal happened once or happens from time to time, but not systematically, and the wife does not have a permanent lover, then it is extremely difficult to identify the betrayal. It’s just a matter of either a wife who simply doesn’t have enough sex, or a husband who is not the right “husband.”

The main signs of female infidelity that will help you understand whether your wife remains faithful to you or whether she willingly jumps on other people’s beds.

Just now I received a comment from my reader saying that you all write about what kind of men are cheaters and how they can be exposed.

What about women?

After all, they change no less!

I will disappoint you (or make you happy 🙂), my male readers: according to statistics, women cheat much less often.

However, this does not mean that ladies wear a chastity belt without taking it off.

The fair sex also wants to go to the left, so today we will determine with you signs of female infidelity that will help you understand whether your wife or girlfriend remains faithful to you or whether she willingly jumps on other people’s beds.

Two views on female infidelity

My regular readers know that various forums are one of my favorite sources of life examples.

This time, too, when I wandered into a forum about family relationships, I saw the topic: “I suspect that... What to do?".

Among the many tips there was one very interesting post.

A certain Vanya wrote that betrayal (neither male nor female) does not exist at all.

Sex is not cheating, but an ordinary source of pleasure.

It's the same as eating not only at home, but also in restaurants.

Marriage is a relationship between two people that is based on common interests, mutual feelings and spiritual comfort.

And in general, it’s the 21st century, and you all live by the old rules and dwell on the topic of female infidelity.

Topicaster was indignant: “Loyalty is the basis of marriage and he will not forgive his wife if he catches her cheating.”

In short, they argued about female infidelity for about four pages.

Of course, everyone remained to their own opinion.

I told you this story because not everyone perceives betrayal as the collapse of family relationships; for many (and there are more and more adherents of free marriage) it is a trifle not worth attention.

Before you look for signs of female infidelity, decide on your attitude towards the very fact of infidelity in order to be fully armed if the fact of female infidelity is confirmed.

Behavioral signs of female infidelity


If a woman has to hide something for a long time, lie and get out, then her behavior changes.

Naturally, her husband spends the most time with her, so who, if not him, is the easiest to bring the traitor to clean water.

So, the main behavioral signs of female infidelity will be as follows:

  1. An unexpectedly huge amount of work has fallen in, which is why the woman is constantly late at work, goes to the office on weekends, and goes on business trips.

    2. A peaceful happy state.

    Your wife has stopped nagging you about the shelf in the bathroom that you haven’t been able to hang for months, about the dirty socks scattered around the house, about the “hairy” sink after shaving.

    She simply stopped noticing what used to piss her off.

  2. A sign of female infidelity may be an inadequate reaction to a phone call: the wife flinches, quickly looks at the screen, hangs up the call, or constantly leaves the room in order to answer.

    3. Loss of interest in important things: family matters, children, parents, mutual friends, household issues, etc.

    It seems to you that your wife is constantly thinking somewhere else.

  3. Psychologists consider a change in habits to be a sign of female infidelity. For example, before you called on the phone several times during the day, but now your wife never calls you, and when she answers your call, she tries to end the conversation quickly.

Signs of female infidelity: see how her appearance changes


Remember what your wife was like when you first started dating, how she carefully looked after her appearance, how she tried to conquer you with her beauty.

After several years of marriage, her ardor waned: her sexy underwear was replaced by comfortable cotton floral panties, her legs were no longer shaved in the winter, makeup was only for going out in public, her home uniform was an old tracksuit, etc.

You are used to this, because you fell in love with your wife not only for her appearance.

But then, out of the blue, metamorphoses began to occur with the wife’s appearance: a new haircut, a mandatory manicure and pedicure, no excess hair on the body, always with makeup, hair styling and a subtle aroma of perfume, always in beautiful clothes and shoes heel.

Oh, and she didn’t seem to have such a black lace lingerie set.

Changes in appearance for the better are one of the most common signs of female infidelity.

Don’t rush to accuse your significant other of infidelity: it is quite possible that your wife is trying this way for you, and not for someone else’s uncle, but it’s worth keeping an eye on your wife.

Other signs of female infidelity


If you could not determine from the behavior and appearance of your wife whether she is cheating on you or not, then here are a few more obvious signs of female infidelity:

    Sex has become different: the wife offers to practice new positions or role-playing games, behaves more aggressively in bed, and began to express her dissatisfaction with you as a man.

    The other side of the coin is a complete loss of interest in sex.

    Why does she need you if she satisfies her needs with another man?

  1. New cosmetics, perfume, jewelry, clothes, which, according to the wife, “she bought for herself,” “was given to her at work,” “was given by a friend,” although such an abundance of new arrivals had never been seen before.
  2. When she comes home, she immediately rushes to the shower.

    3. Your spouse no longer needs you.

    Previously, she asked to pick her up from work, help her carry her purchases from the store, visit a friend in the hospital, fix the heater at work, resolve issues with Vodokanal, but now she has stopped asking you for help altogether.

    Just a couple of months ago, she hated your absences for fishing, and called all your friends “boobs,” forbidding you to communicate with them.

    Today, she doesn’t even pay attention to the phrase: “Honey, I’ll go have a beer with friends” and tries to quickly send you fishing for the whole weekend.

You will also be interested to know the reasons for female infidelity,

which are described in the following video:

What to do when signs of female infidelity confirm infidelity?

If you discover several signs of female infidelity, then you should call your wife for a frank conversation.

If she admits to infidelity or you find out that your spouse is cheating on you in some other way, there is no need to throw a scandal, take on the role of Othello, throw her things and yell: “Prostitute! I will never forgive you!”

Don't cut from the shoulder!

You are both adults who have linked your destinies together for a reason.

Anything can happen in family life, and betrayal is not always the worst thing.

Listen to my advice:

  1. Take time to think if your unfaithful significant other asks for forgiveness and claims that he wants to save the family.
  2. Think about what exactly could have pushed your loved one to cheat: your indifference and inattention towards her, sexual dissatisfaction, revenge for your betrayal, etc.
  3. Decide:
    • do you love the traitor, despite her terrible act;
    • can you find the strength in yourself and forgive her, never remembering what happened;
    • Do you want to continue living with this person or will you be better off without her?

Reveal signs of female infidelity and it’s not hard to bring the traitor out into the open.

It is much more difficult to decide what to do next with this situation.

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The wife ceases to be interested in her husband's affairs. She does not meet him, does not pay attention to him, and coolly perceives stories about the past day and its events.

The woman does not want to discuss joint plans for vacation or upcoming ones. She is distant and shows no interest in family matters or spending time together.

The wife calls up and meets with her friends more often than before. From time to time, her cell phone turns out to be turned off during such meetings, or she does not pick up the phone. The excuses are banal: I didn’t hear the call, the phone ran out, the battery was low, and the like.

The cheating spouse begins to carefully monitor. She suddenly changes her appearance, begins to use cosmetics more actively than before, goes on a diet, and pays more attention to her toilet.

The wife is not at all eager to spend time with her husband. Scandals end over the spouse working overtime, the inability to travel out of town, and some events. The wife is even glad of the fact that her husband is extremely rarely at home.

In your wife’s phone (well, if you are not one of those who disdain the opportunity to rummage through other people’s things or someone else’s phone), SMS messages with lyrical content appear, and many calls from one number unknown to you.

The husband is no longer greeted with a hot, freshly prepared dinner on the table, since the wife now prepares food for three to four days and regularly suggests that the husband learn how to use the microwave.

Please note

There are several reasons for female infidelity. But, if their rating were compiled, then the reason that would earn the most points would be the woman’s deprivation of attention and affection. Therefore, many workaholic men should think about whether they themselves pushed their beloved wife to cheat?

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The terrible word “treason” always evokes negative emotions. Cheating on the part of both men and women has an equally destructive effect on the union of partners and causes pain to both. However, female and male infidelity are not equal and lead to different consequences.

When a man cheats, the problem of preserving the family most often arises. When a woman, the main problem is the appearance of remorse and all the ensuing consequences. No amount of force will help deal with this. A woman who has cheated on her husband suddenly begins to suffer from insomnia, she becomes withdrawn, and often falls into depression. Subconsciously, a woman believes that she has denigrated herself by crossing some prohibited line. Often her sincere conviction is that it would be better for her to frankly confess everything to her husband. However, most psychologists unanimously agree that you should not tell everything to your spouse and there is no need to admit to the absence of irrefutable evidence. This is explained by the fact that confession will only bring additional torment to the deceived partner and the woman herself. It is worth noting that men react differently to such news. Thus, a husband suffering from jealousy can kill his lover, his wife and himself on the spot. In a mentally healthy person, the recognition of his spouse will cause an unpredictable reaction. The worst thing here is that the man himself does not imagine how exactly he will react to such news. If a man says in a private conversation that he will do this and that in such a situation, this does not mean at all that everything will happen exactly like that. The vast majority of people, unfortunately, cannot control unconscious reactions. Assuming that they know how to control themselves and have complete control over their actions, but in reality the opposite happens. Even if the husband believes that there should be no secrets between him and his wife, and sincere confessions strengthen the family, according to psychologists, it is better for a woman to choose another confessor for her confession. After all, the calmest and most balanced man can throw out all his temperament, suppressed for years, on his confessed wife. Things could even escalate to assault. The situation is especially sad when a woman’s infidelity is caused by the desire to awaken jealousy in her husband and thus return love. In the eyes of a man, betrayal of his wife is a greater crime than his own betrayal. Therefore, it is worth noting that betrayal is an irrational way to solve the problems of family life. It’s better to put things in order in your own home and understand whether it’s worth having a person next to you who you want to cheat on.

By registering their relationship, the happy bride and groom swear eternal love and fidelity to each other. Probably, in an ideal world, all spouses would live a long and happy life without infidelity and betrayal, but in reality, many have to put up with the fact that the husband or wife walks “to the left.”

Male infidelity is no longer considered something unusual; society often justifies it, although, of course, few will be able to live with such a husband. For a long time, female infidelity was perceived as something out of the ordinary.

However, times are changing, and the number of women cheating on their husbands is increasing. According to statistics from family psychologists, approximately half of all women cheat on their husbands, while according to official statistics, only about 25% of the fair half of humanity admit to being unfaithful to their spouses. Why do wives cheat?

Psychology and nature of female infidelity

Despite the fact that both husbands and wives cheat, the reasons that push them to this rash act are completely different. Let's analyze and figure out how male infidelity differs from female infidelity.

Psychology of betrayal by a woman

Why do men cheat? Psychologists, especially those who support the teachings of S. Freud, believe that the strong half of humanity cannot exist without adultery, since they obey the call of nature and try to impregnate as many individuals of the opposite sex as possible.

Women have no such need. The main thing for her is to choose the best father for her child in order to give birth to healthy offspring. Therefore, a girl rarely strives to increase the number of men, but it is important for her that her chosen one is the best.

This is the crux of the problem. A girl can fall in love, and her chosen one seems to her the embodiment of masculinity. She comes up with a hero for herself, who embodies all the best qualities of a man: strength, activity, reliability, passion, and so on. But then she realizes that she was wrong.

There are no ideal people. However, she strives to find one, and it does not matter that others consider her husband the best. It's not easy to please a woman. If the family does not have enough money, she dreams of a wealthy person. The one who bathes in luxury complains that her husband pays little attention to her.

And it’s always like this: the one who is close seems boring and not what he should be, and the one who is not with her seems the best. After some time, she finds herself in the same bed with him. Most likely, new disappointment awaits her, but for a while she believes that she has met the love of her life.

But there may be other reasons for cheating. We'll talk about this later.

The main differences between male and female infidelity

We have figured out how male infidelity differs from female infidelity, but to summarize, we will outline the main differences point by point:

  1. Love. To cheat on his wife, a husband does not have to fall in love with his new partner. Women cheat on men only if they have some feelings for their lover. There must be at least sympathy.
  2. Choosing a partner. A man is ready to seduce any girl if she seems attractive to him. Girls will look closely at their partner. First they have to make sure that it is really suitable for them.
  3. Relationship development. If a husband finds a mistress, he does not think about divorce. In the case of a wife's betrayal, everything is much more serious. He believes that someday he will be together with his lover, and can easily leave his family.

The most common reasons for female infidelity

We figured out what the nature of female infidelity is, its psychology. However, many girls do not live by obeying only their instincts. Still, a person knows how to control his behavior, especially if he received the right upbringing.

Why does a woman cheat? Why is she ready to forget her moral principles and then suffer from remorse?

Psychologists identify many reasons that can lead to betrayal:

  1. Revenge. The husband cheated, and the wife decided to take revenge on him in a similar way. Or she’s already tired of arguing with her husband, she doesn’t like the way he behaves with her, so she decided to take such revenge.
  2. Disappointment. The girl was used to her chosen one paying her a lot of attention. He tried to win her, so he was caring, gentle, and after he achieved what he wanted, he stopped noticing her.
  3. Incompatibility in bed. The temperaments of spouses may be different. If the wife is passionate, loving, and her husband does not need frequent sex, she may think about going “to the left.”
  4. I want to be desired. Every girl would like to remain the most loved and desired. If she is not appreciated in marriage, she will find someone who will admire her.
  5. Craving for new sensations. Living together often destroys feelings. The wife managed to study her husband; she knows all his habits. And she wants something new in life, something that will make her days unforgettable. She needs new emotions, but she cannot get them in marriage.

  1. Hasty marriage. The girl got married early. And now she needs to cook for her husband, take care of the household, children, and at this time her friends are running around on dates. And she also wants the same carefree life.
  2. The desire to get the “forbidden fruit”. The girl could have her own moral principles, but the person changes, reconsiders his views on life. And she can already afford to cheat, since this is the taboo that she would like to break.
  3. She wants to be modern. If all her friends and acquaintances are running “to the left,” she reads articles, watches programs that do not condemn such behavior, the wife cheats on her husband because she does not want to be a “black sheep” among her circle.

We have listed some reasons for female infidelity, but this, of course, is not all. There are a lot of them. And every family has its own story, every girl has her own motives, it would be difficult to sort it all out, since it is impossible to subordinate feelings to some strict logic.

How to prevent a woman from cheating?

If a woman finds another man, it will be difficult to correct the situation. She will not want to stay with her husband if the relationship on her side has become serious. And not every man is able to accept a wife who has been in the arms of another.

Therefore, you should not go to extremes, it is better to work on relationships in marriage, to prevent betrayal, since an attempt to return to your old life may be unsuccessful. These tips are simple, they may seem banal to some, but it’s not for nothing that they say that everything ingenious is simple.

  1. Don't forget to make time for your wife. Yes, after work I want to spend time in front of the computer or TV. You may have a thousand things and hobbies of your own, but put some of them aside and spend time with your spouse.
  2. Become the person closest to her. If your spouse can talk to you about everything that worries her, share her experiences and feelings, she will not have the desire to look for someone else. Here it is also important to respect the woman, her interests, otherwise she will find someone else who will understand her or pretend to understand her.
  3. Let off some steam. This advice may seem strange, since for many it is a family without quarrels and scandals that seems ideal. But psychologists warn that then there is a high probability that the spouses are indifferent to each other. Therefore, there must be conflicts, air out grievances. Then they won't ruin your relationship.

  1. Discuss your intimate life. If you live together, then you no longer have secrets from each other, so you can easily talk about your intimate life. Ask your wife if everything suits her.
  2. Don't forget mutual respect. Try to respect her feelings, don't do things she doesn't like. But ask her to make concessions to you and listen to your opinion.
  3. Fight routine. If you have been living together for a long time, there is a desire to let everything take its course and live as you have to. But it’s still worth sometimes arranging pleasant surprises and organizing events for your family to make your life more interesting.
  4. Don't be jealous. If a woman constantly hears her husband reproaching her for cheating, although there is no reason for this, then sooner or later she will cheat on him. She will decide that it is pointless to prove anything to you and it is easier to behave the way you expect from her.

Remember that for a woman, cheating on her husband is not just a fun adventure, but most often a serious stressful situation. A woman does not cheat immediately; usually she decides to take this step not under the influence of sudden feelings or desires, but after prolonged experiences and worries.

Therefore, if you sort out the relationship in time and make her remember the feelings that she had for you, you can prevent betrayal and all its negative consequences.

What to do if your wife cheated?

What to do if there was betrayal, should you forgive your spouse or not? It’s difficult to answer this question; it all depends on the specific situation, on the marriage relationship. Perhaps this betrayal, although painful for both spouses, will become a turning point in their lives.

If you are no longer in a relationship and have lost your feelings, then breaking up may be the best way out. But, even if you have made such a decision, it is still worth forgiving a woman in order to free yourself from resentment and hatred, let go of this relationship and move on.

According to statistics, about 40% of men are ready to forgive betrayal (for women this percentage is higher - 70%). But for those who decide to maintain a relationship, it is important to understand that they will not be the same as before. You will have to build them again so that the situation does not repeat itself.

And, if you have already decided to be in a place again, forget about what happened to you, never reproach your spouse, do not blame her, otherwise all your attempts to build new trusting relationships will be unsuccessful.

Video: reasons and signs of female infidelity and can it be forgiven?

So, signs of betrayal!

If the girl’s betrayal was a one-time affair, due to drunkenness, for example, then you will never know unless she accidentally spills the beans. There are practically no special signs of betrayal by which one can calculate a one-time betrayal. For example, if a wife is cheating on her husband, how can she be identified in advance? Read the signs of cheating that I have given below. Carefully study these signs of cheating on girls. Perhaps some of the following signs of betrayal will seem familiar to you.

1. The first sign of betrayal that will catch your eye is the sudden restriction of access to your personal space. Those. Previously, you could easily surf her computer or mobile phone, but now, when the girl’s betrayal is close, she will not let you in there under any pretext. And he will still squeal if he notices that he himself has climbed.

2. You suddenly notice that a girl who is ready to cheat begins to look after herself much more carefully and tries to score herself a few points. Well, remember what it was like when you met? Why isn't that a sign of betrayal to you? She's perfectly made up, you're clean-shaven... You're trying to impress each other. And now she is trying. Not for you. In general, I noticed that she wears stockings instead of tights, puts on make-up as if for a parade, and when she goes somewhere without you - you can drain the water, horned one - the girl cheated on you. If you didn’t notice, this was the second sign of betrayal that is ringing like an alarm bell in your ear...

3. You noticed that your wife or girlfriend suddenly has a new friend, or a group of friends to which she does not invite you, or she suddenly begins to spend all her free time with her old friends. She walks with them, goes to some events, returns late. And all this without you! Do you get the point? After such walks, the girl is usually in a great mood, which, however, instantly deteriorates in your presence. This is another sign that indirectly indicates that your girl has cheated on you.

4. The next sign of betrayal: after she asks you to go out somewhere with an overnight stay, she is unusually affectionate with you, incessantly talking about how cool you are and how she loves you, although she was silent about this before. Or it may happen that a girl or wife will in every possible way avoid contact with you on a bodily level, even to the point of not wanting to kiss.

5. Probably the most disgusting and unpleasant sign of betrayal is cooling in sex. He directly says that the wife cheated on her husband. She has become uninteresting in you in bed. She now tries to go to bed earlier than you and fall asleep immediately, or, conversely, later, when you fall asleep, in order to avoid sex with you. Maybe during foreplay, in response to some kind of affection on your part, she will irritably push away your hand or you, although before she was pleased... A very unpleasant sign of betrayal.

6. If you notice that your wife or girlfriend begins to react sharply to those shortcomings of yours that she had not noticed before, tries to make you laugh and generally ceases to respect you as a man - know that she has lost interest and respect in you because she found it's all in something else. This is not even a sign of cheating, your wife has already cheated on you!

7. Is seven a lucky number? Whatever the case! This is the seventh sign of betrayal I’m describing! – She misses your calls, although you haven’t noticed this before. Or she generally pretends that she “forgot” her phone at home, or suddenly her battery began to last no more than a day, and therefore the phone began to turn off often. And at this time she is cheating on you somewhere.

8. She often begins to talk about some new classmate, a colleague from work, a partner in business negotiations, about whom you knew nothing at all before. And every time she emphasizes that their relationship is purely friendly, but at the same time she constantly chatters about his cool character qualities that she likes and that you don’t have - this is a sign of betrayal, perhaps still distant.

9. Overtime work suddenly overwhelmed her. Either he stays constantly at consultations, or he stays late in the library, comes home late - this is a sign of betrayal, perhaps he has already had sex, and maybe it still happens at every such “lateness”. A very respectful sign of betrayal, isn't it?

10. The tenth sign of a wife’s betrayal. As a consequence of the previous paragraph, he forbids meeting her from such events, work, study. Naturally! They will already show you through or give you a ride for you. A wife cheats on her husband most often in this way, “staying late” after work.

11. She becomes indifferent to your lateness, your late arrival from work. She doesn't care if your girlfriend or wife's head is filled with another guy. By the way, do you feel like you’re not getting enough sex from her? may suggest that you go have some fun on your own. Maybe you’ll pick up someone and her conscience won’t gnaw at her so much, or, what’s even more true, having fucked on the side, you won’t demand sex from her. The break is near. The girl cheated, this is a fact, not a sign of betrayal.

12. If earlier your arguments were like tank battles, now she doesn’t give a fuck... She agrees with everything, just not to talk or communicate with you. This is the twelfth sign of betrayal.

13. The thirteenth sign of betrayal. You notice that she is constantly looking at you, perhaps now she is overestimating you and comparing you in all positions with another. And he thinks, maybe he can pit you against each other in the game “Rival”? I'll write about her soon...

14. The warmth and smile disappear from her face. The poses are usually closed, he tries not to look into the eyes, and if there is accidental eye contact, he immediately looks away. He communicates without interest, as if with a stranger, which you probably already are. This was the penultimate sign of betrayal.

15. The thoughtfulness on her face is explained by heavy thoughts about how and when to break off relations with you, whether someone else will accept her, how to leave, leaving the possibility of returning... The last, alarming sign of betrayal has been voiced.