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How to surprise your husband: thousands of tricks and little things for a happy marriage

It's sad, of course, but any passion subsides over time, and family life slowly turns into something familiar and routine. During the years of marriage, the spouses study each other by heart and gradually get used to a loved one.

However, such a habit can play a cruel joke if a woman looms on the horizon of a loved one - unfamiliar, and therefore interesting.

In order to protect yourself from such “strangers”, save your marriage and diversify family life, it is important to throw new emotions into the cauldron of passion. And here an interesting question arises, how to surprise a husband in the kitchen, in bed, on his birthday, in order to turn into a mysterious person again.

The shortest distance to the male heart is through the stomach. The wisdom is old, but modern married ladies often forget about it. And absolutely in vain!

Some of the fair sex will begin to be indignant - they say, I already try to cook various yummy things for my husband, so nothing can surprise him.

In the gastronomic arsenal of the average woman, there are the simplest and most delicious dishes that are easy to prepare when you come home from work.

If you know a lot about cooking, impress your beloved man with a true masterpiece. For example, for dinner, a pheasant with pineapples, a turkey roll or something more exotic will be waiting for him.

Good to know! If you decide to turn to recipes of foreign cuisine - say, Indian, try to arrange a themed dinner.

For example, put on a sari (for lack of this clothes, use a pareo), turn on folk musical motifs and draw a circle on your forehead. It will turn out unusual and very cute.

Change yourself

Another option, how to surprise your husband, lies on the surface. Try a radical change in your image. Why necessarily cardinal, you ask? A man is unlikely to be surprised by slightly shortened hair or extended nails. Representatives of the stronger sex rarely pay attention to such “little things”.

Therefore, you need to try to impress. For a stunning effect, you can:

  • dye your hair blonde (or vice versa);
  • braid dreadlocks;
  • apply a temporary tattoo with his initials;
  • get a piercing.

Of course, it is important not to overdo it with changes so that your husband recognizes you when he returns from work. Joke!

In fact, the surprise should be pleasant. If a loved one does not like red-haired ladies, it is hardly worth appearing before him with fiery hair.

On your birthday, you can and should surprise your loved one. If you can afford, for example, a trip to Paris, the room for maneuver increases significantly.

However, even with limited financial resources, there is a chance to show imagination.

Any original “little thing” that will definitely surprise a man can become a birthday present:

  • paired T-shirts with unusual patterns (in the form of your and his portraits);
  • a gifted book by your favorite author with an oath of allegiance signed by you;
  • a poem about him, your relationship, happiness and feelings for him, written by you personally;
  • photo album or collage with the best photos of the guy and with flirtatious inscriptions to them;
  • applied on asphalt with washable paint (be respectful of neighbors and housing and communal services workers);
  • an evening spent in a luxurious hotel room;
  • a relaxing massage and an amazing dinner for a man who returned tired from work.

There are many curious ideas for birthday presents, but only you have studied your boyfriend well, so it’s up to you to choose the best gift in the world.

By the way, it is not necessary to wait for any occasion in the form of a holiday to present your present.

Present it at the beginning of the week so that the good mood is with your spouse until next Monday.

For men, the quality (and quantity) of intimate life with their soulmate plays a huge role. Try to play on intimate strings to bring back old emotions in family relationships.

According to experienced ladies, just one passionate evening is enough to rekindle the old sharp feelings.

First of all, you need to decide for yourself what experiments you can go to in order to surprise a man in bed. Let's say you put on a nurse's or a schoolgirl's costume without shame, but who will guarantee that your missus will not consider such "mask shows" as banal vulgarity.

If you want to surprise your spouse with a private dance like this for their birthday, try to find out how he feels about such events. You don't want to look ridiculous and funny in front of your beloved man, do you?

If you are firmly convinced that any of your initiatives in bed will be approved by your spouse, you can safely proceed to the implementation of your plan. We offer several options, although the list is endless:

1. Arrange the striptease we have already mentioned before a hot night. This gift is prepared in advance, so you will need:

  • several strip plastic classes;
  • sexy underwear;
  • erotic musical accompaniment;
  • well-balanced and rehearsed movements.

2. Remarkably diversify married life and various role-playing games. There are many variations of "costume performances", up to various children's fairy tales. But here, too, certain rules must be observed:

  • buy or sew your own costume suitable for the scenario (it should be depraved, not funny);
  • spend a few rehearsals in front of a mirror to better enter the role of a "nurse", "strict teacher", etc.;
  • behave according to the role to impress a man;
  • for some spouses, it’s better to prepare a little for the upcoming event, otherwise you run the risk of amusing, rather than exciting them.

3. Try with your loved one for a birthday or just because, for no reason, new sexual positions. This will not only impress the guy, but also significantly diversify the further sexual family life. To surprise your husband with new poses, do the following:

  • refer to the relevant literature or walk around thematic sites;
  • first tell your partner that you are tired of the monotony and are thinking about something new (this way you will understand his reaction);
  • directly invite the man to try new positions after an exciting massage or a loose romantic dinner.

4. Romantic sex on silk sheets in bed, although it remains a classic, is unlikely to surprise anyone. You can try to spice up the process by making love in unexpected places. If you are leaning towards public places, exclude the appearance of random passers-by in them. The sequence of your actions is as follows:

  • imagine where you would like to make love (in the back seat of a car, on the shore of a lake, in a forest clearing, in a cinema on the last row);
  • prepare the necessary supplies if they are required for this process;
  • it remains only to bring the faithful to this place and explain why you are here.

Since not everyone is ready for global experiments in bed, try to make tiny changes in your sex life at first. It can be new caresses, movements, music, or, on the contrary, silence in bed. The main thing - let it remain a surprise for your beloved guy.

Some women, reflecting on the question of how to surprise their husband, begin to come up with very extreme surprises.

However, you can cheer up your spouse without expensive and crazy gifts. Most importantly, leave a man in the dark, then he will consider you, his beloved woman, a real mystery and will not get bored next to you.

What else should not be forgotten? To make married life play with bright colors and emotions, try to spend weekends and joint leisure time as varied as possible. Arrange original dates for a guy more often, for example, in the form of:

  • going to a hockey or football match;
  • romantic trip to nature;
  • excursion trip for the whole day;
  • boat trip.

In addition, it is important not to get hung up on one of your images, but to change periodically, hitting your lover with a new hairstyle, makeup and clothing style. The only condition is that the updated image should suit you and not cause rejection in a man.

I would like to remind you that you can surprise your chosen one with a couple of affectionate words or a gentle kiss in the morning. If you begin to notice that family life is like two neighbors living together, return the dynamism to the relationship. Show your feelings and affection with small surprises, surprise your husband with gifts and caresses in bed, and the attention of your partner will belong only to you.

Hello, I'm Nadezhda Plotnikova. Having successfully studied at SUSU as a special psychologist, she devoted several years to working with children with developmental problems and advising parents on raising children. I apply the experience gained, among other things, in the creation of psychological articles. Of course, by no means do I pretend to be the ultimate truth, but I hope that my articles will help dear readers deal with any difficulties.