How do you know if a loved one will return after a breakup? signs

Parting with a loved one hurts the soul. It takes time to come to terms, to accept the thought of separation. But, if the feelings are alive, hope smolders in the heart of a woman, a willingness to give a person another chance.

Will the loved one return? How to understand that a man, after parting, revised his life, made the right conclusions and is ready to renew the relationship?

Every situation is different. But, in any case, behave with dignity. Try to avoid five common ladies' mistakes that will only exacerbate the problem.

These methods are often used by inexperienced girls, but, contrary to expectations, they do not add attractiveness to the young lady in the eyes of her lover and, rather, have the opposite effect.

1. You should not set up “random” meetings, bother with frequent phone calls, or bombard your ex with messages.
2. Throw tantrums, reproach and try to humiliate, hurt a man, because he “wounded” your soul with his departure.
3. Threaten, terrorize, promise to commit suicide or make his life hell. Demonstrative revenge is not the best way to heal heart wounds. Over time, emotions will subside, the pain will pass, and the unpleasant aftertaste from impulsive actions and harsh words will forever turn away the chosen one and cast a shadow on your reputation.
4. Arrange surveillance of the life of a former partner. Eavesdrop on conversations, read correspondence, attracting children, colleagues, acquaintances or mutual friends to this exciting, but by no means useful activity.
5. Exaggerate colors, wind yourself up. Again and again remember traumatic events, and all his sins, down to small punctures.

False hopes or the right tactics?

Psychologists say that the pain of a breakup lasts at least two months before a person gets used to the thought of loss. Just let him go and, perhaps, the man will return, comparing life "before" and "after" in favor of your union.

How to know if the chosen one will return? The easiest and most effective way is a frank conversation. Without excessive emotions, accusations and reproaches.

Don't lock yourself in. If a woman lives in the prison of heavy thoughts, hides in the walls of the past, constantly returns to where the separation happened, she degrades and ceases to be interesting to the opposite sex. Agree, "canned" pain is not the best remedy for loneliness.

Let the man sort out his own feelings. The chosen one needs time to realize what he has lost, to weigh all the pros and cons. If the relationship has not exhausted itself, the loved one, after a short pause, realizes his mistake and tries to return you.

The main thing for a woman is to survive the acute period of parting and not to do stupid things.

Switch attention to yourself, your favorite thing. Think about a wonderful future and not rush into the maelstrom of past grievances.

Return symptoms

Pay attention to his behavior. If a guy is interested in your life, asks acquaintances, writes messages, visits pages on social networks or is looking for a reason to meet and talk, then you are important to him.

Starting a new life, people, as a rule, do not show a burning interest in former passions. Moreover, they do not try to see each other more often, colliding face to face even in the most unexpected places. They do not call with requests to return a forgotten item if it does not have special value for the owner.

Be prepared for any scenario. Think carefully about how to behave in a given situation. Are you ready to rekindle your relationship? What should be taken into account in order not to repeat old mistakes on the new pages of your novel? What conclusions to draw?

If a loved one, after so many years spent together, is in no hurry to renew the family, then he simply failed to become your support and you need to move on, to real happiness. And it's much closer than you think.