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Margarita Sukhankina became one of the jury members of the new children's show "You are super!" The specificity of this program is that children left without parental care compete with each other. Meanwhile, four years ago, Margarita Sukhankina took a boy and a girl from the orphanage. “Yes, because my children are also special. In this program, I feel like a fish in water. I behave naturally, I don’t play,” the singer said. Note that, in addition to Sukhankina, the jury includes Stas Piekha, Viktor Drobysh and Elka.

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According to Margarita, her children Sergey and Valeria lead a full-fledged children's lifestyle. So, last year the son went to school, this year - the daughter of Sukhankina. “And I know that their hands should be in my hands. We should go to the line together. I know that the children will grow up and will remember this time,” the artist is sure.

Children have busy lives. In addition to school, Seryozha plays the piano, and Lera is dancing. "They have everything they need, even more. All the bad things are in the past. Seryozha is older and generally doesn't like it when someone starts talking about the orphanage. He chases these thoughts, doesn't want to remember anything. Emotional and creative boy. He draws wonderfully, builds, sculpts, glues ... He designs something from Lego all the time. I used to go to the art studio, but now they have a lot of lessons at school, so there is no time left. The children are full, dressed, shod. We go to the cinema, theaters, museums, zoos, a circus… They have a full-fledged children's life," the TV program quotes the artist.

Sukhankina admitted that she does not consider her act - to take children from the orphanage - heroism. “Moreover, I don’t even know who saved whom - I children or they me. Living without them, I just quietly went crazy. The normal state of every woman, when she lives with her family, gives birth to children. my childbirth ended in tragedy. In general, I myself am partly to blame for this. And I understood that I was hanging myself: everything that I earned, all the prosperity I alone did not need at all. For me, this is the highest egoism - to live for myself. I am a very active person ", I need to give, share. Whom to take care of, if not about children? Now I am extremely happy that I have both a boy and a girl - two completely different worlds, two planets. A niche that was empty was filled in my soul, "said singer.

According to the artist, she used to be unhappy, because her life consisted only of home and work, and material values ​​did not inspire her. Sukhankina explained: “Well, I bought a fur coat, diamonds, a car. And then what? Why such a life? It’s happiness when you see that children get something when their eyes light up. There is nothing better and more expensive than their smile. Higher happiness for any normal woman.Every day I open my eyes and say: "God, thank you!"

In 2013, Margarita Sukhankina, the soloist of the popular Mirage group in the 80-90s, at the age of 49, became a mother for the first time, and at once 2 children: a boy and a girl. However, Margarita did not rejoice at the newly acquired female happiness for long. A few months later, the singer was almost taken away from her son and daughter.

Failed marriages and pregnancies

Margarita Sukhankina always dreamed of becoming a mother. However, unlike professional activities, the singer's personal life did not take shape for a long time. Sukhankina's first husband was a foreigner, Croat Antun Maruna. Together with her husband, she lived either in Germany or in Switzerland. But the well-established life abroad turned out to be an unreliable platform for the family. In addition, as Sukhankina herself admitted, Marun made her a housekeeper, and she wanted to perform on stage. In the end, after 2 years, Margarita and Antun divorced, without having time to have children.
The second choice of the performer was a man whose name she never named. However, Sukhankina more than once recalled that her husband often raised his hand to her and suffered from alcoholism. He also forced Margarita to have an abortion when she first found herself in a position. The next time, the singer decided not to listen to anyone and still have a baby. When the pregnancy was already coming to an end, the baby suffocated in the womb and was born already dead.

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As time went. Age no longer allowed Margarita to rely on her own strength. But Sukhankina was not going to give up her dream. She thought about both in vitro fertilization and surrogate motherhood. However, as is often the case, everything was decided by chance. In 2012, in one of the television programs, the vocalist saw a story about a brother and sister who turned out to be unnecessary to their own parents and sent to an orphanage. Margarita realized that she had been looking for these children all her life.
The very next year, 3-year-old Valeria and 4-year-old Sergey celebrated a housewarming party in the house of Margarita Sukhankina. Despite the fact that the brother and sister got used to the unfamiliar environment for a long time, they began to call Margarita mother already on the second day after the move. It was when the adopted son and daughter Sukhankina settled down in a new place that the biological father and mother of Valeria and Sergey suddenly appeared in the life of the singer.

Father is a criminal and mother is an alcoholic

Upon learning that their children were taken in by a famous artist, the parents began to portray remorse and insisted that they miss them very much. However, Sukhankina did not believe them. The father of Valeria and Sergey, Alexander, by the age of 30, managed to go to jail at least 5 times, and his mother, Olga, abused alcohol. Moreover, when she came to Sukhankina, the woman did not hide the fact that another of her children, a disabled child, was in a boarding school, and she herself was pregnant again.
Fortunately, the unfortunate spouses did not manage to return Valeria and Sergey. Numerous convictions of the father, who was not even included in the birth certificates of children, and the alcoholism of the mother, who, among other things, by that time had already been deprived of parental rights and were not going to change her lifestyle, played their role. And soon alcohol completely brought the woman to the grave.

Valeria and Sergey today

It is interesting that, according to Margarita Sukhankina herself, who, of course, was not going to give up the children, the mother of the biological father of Valeria and Sergey took her side. The elderly woman was glad that her grandchildren finally fell into reliable, kind and caring hands. And indeed it is.
Today, the daughter and son of the singer already go to school. In addition to classes, they attend hobby groups: Valeria is fond of dancing, and Sergey learns to play the piano and plays basketball. As Sukhankina admits, now she thanks God every day for the happiness bestowed on her.

Last year, the soloist of the Mirage group Margarita Sukhankina adopted two children from Tyumen - 3-year-old Lera and 4-year-old Serezha. The singer saw the kids in the program “So far, everyone is at home”, where in a special section they talk about children who do not have mom and dad. And immediately decided to pick them up from the orphanage.

The singer completed all the documents, brought the guys home. On the second day they began to call her mother ... But ... a few months later, the biological parents of Lera and Serezha appeared on her horizon. Alexander and his 25-year-old wife Olga. They said that they really miss the kids, so the kids should live in the house of their mother and father.

Mirage soloist Margarita Sukhankina: "I adopted wonderful babies, and now they want to take them away from me!"

True, life is difficult for them (the biological father of the children was convicted five times and still cannot find a permanent job. - Ed.). Because of this, even the eldest son - disabled from birth - cannot be taken away from the orphanage. But unexpectedly surging parental feelings do not allow them to come to terms with the fact that Lera and Serezha live with a wealthy and famous mother ... Moreover, Olga at that time was expecting another child.

For the singer, this was a real shock: after all, children have long become family to her ...

I won't give my kids away to anyone! Lera and Seryozha lived in an orphanage for six months, no one visited them for six months. Their biological mother is deprived of parental rights. According to the documents, they didn’t have a dad at all: in the column “father” there is a dash. Sometimes Seryozha recalls his former life: “But when we lived with another mother, they didn’t feed us there ...” I asked him if he wanted to see that other mother. He replied no.

So how can I give them away? The kids are legally with me. Now they have warmth, comfort, maternal love.

Alexander and Olga first abandoned their daughter and son, abandoned them, and now they are shouting "help"! But children are not toys...

I don’t want to condemn anyone, but a man who, by the age of 30, already has five convictions, wants to take my daughter and son away from me! What can he give children? Or the mom with bottle problems? Fortunately, even Alexander's mother did not support the impulse of these unfortunate parents. We spoke with her, and she honestly admitted that she was glad that the children were in good hands.

I really enjoy being a mom. Finally, I understand for whom I open my eyes in the morning. I have a meaning to life. Fur coats, diamonds, resorts - I have already seen all this. You have no idea what I feel when I come home, and my children fly out of the house screaming towards me: “Hurrah! Mommy has arrived! Now I can call myself a really happy woman.

And on the eve of March 8, after long months of bureaucratic ordeals, the 48-year-old singer becomes a mother for the first time, and two babies at once - a brother and sister. In the house of Sukhankina, four-year-old Serezha and three-year-old Lera gradually “thaw out”, calmly fall asleep (at first, the new mother and grandmother had to hold their hands). Children learned to swim, even the sounds of fireworks began to endure normally (and earlier they shouted in hysterics that this was not a beautiful salute, but a terrible uncle in an orphanage was shooting). “They began to come to their senses, but when I leave for work, they still periodically ask: “Mom, will you come back? Mom, won't you leave us?"
But soon over a happy life
The Sukhankins' family was surrounded by thunderclouds. The father and mother who suddenly appeared (who had not visited their son and daughter in the orphanage for almost a year) declare that they were illegally deprived of parental rights.

Repeatedly convicted Alexander and his 25-year-old wife Olga are sure that Leroux and Sergey were taken away from them illegally. Margarita Sukhankina met with the biological parents of her adopted children on the set of the Let Them Talk program. Andrei Malakhov says:

While I look at Olga, who is pregnant with her fifth (!) Child (her mother took custody of her eldest daughter Polina, and the sick one and a half year old Ivan has been living in an orphanage since birth), I sympathize with the tears of her husband Alexander (convicted five times), it turns out that initially in the column " father ”Lera and Serezha had a dash. That is, Alexander in prison was not up to paternity, and they signed with the already pregnant Olga only this spring. And in general, they are trying to improve their lives, and Olga is in a position and now does not drink at all, and Sasha takes on any job. But a simple question, what is the name of their eldest daughter's class teacher, baffles them. And why none of them visits a disabled son in an orphanage (at first the father even confuses his name), they also do not find a reasonable answer.
But Margarita Sukhankina, who learned about the younger brother of Lera and Serezha, says: “Little Vanechka is still in the Baby House, and I am very worried about him. How can it be, he is their own? .. And my children are absolutely dear to me, and I will do everything so that they stay with me. So that nothing interferes with their peace of mind, normal human life. Nothing and no one. I will stand to the last…”

Then Margarita says that at first, because of illegible speech, she called her daughter “Chinese”, and Seryozha translated what Lera said. And about the fact that now they are not at all afraid of dogs and do not kick them, she also says. “Now Lera is hugging my dog, she can fall asleep on him, and he will lie without moving ... Seryozha already writes letters and knows their names, only he is very worried that he cannot connect them yet ... And I have never deceived children. Once, at my own peril and risk, I put on a film for the guys about a dolphin that got under a propeller and its tail was cut off. Although the movie was long even for those who are older, Seryozha watched it five times as if spellbound: he didn’t want to eat or play, and then he said: “Mom, I want to see him.” “There will be dolphins for you,” I promised, and we went to the dolphinarium, where the boy with such tenderness touched the shiny side of the white whale ... And the other day we went to the circus, and the next day there was a circus in my house ... "

Listening to Margarita, Lera and Serezha’s own grandmother Natalya Anatolyevna suddenly says: “I have only grandchildren, I don’t have any more, and ... my soul, of course, cries, but I want them to really live well ...”

And when I directly ask with whom to leave the children, Natalya Anatolyevna firmly answers: "With Rita."

Recently it became known that the soloist of the Mirage group broke up with Andrey Lityagin. In a frank interview with the site portal, the singer spoke about the gap, as well as the difficulties in raising adopted children.

- Margarita, three years have passed since you had children. Tell us how they grow up, what talents do they show?

I think they have everything under control. I observe unique things: they sculpt, draw, write, read. Seryozha, of course, is in the forefront, since he is older, Lerochka tries to run after him, but she has a problem - she is left-handed. Her brain works in dual mode, she not only tries to write the other way, from right to left, but also to read. Therefore, it is a little more difficult for her to read.

- Do you play music with them?

Certainly! They play the piano. While there were autumn holidays, as they say, I trained them at home. I did not send the children to kindergarten, they study at a preparatory school. Classes are held there once a week and in seven days everything disappears from them. We often walk, so the wind blows everything out of our heads! (Laughs.) So at home we try to practice every day. Lera goes to dances and rhythmic gymnastics. She dances wonderfully and makes everyone dance at home. She has a beautiful plasticity of her hands, all movements are conscious, I am glad that we noticed this predisposition of her from childhood. Serezha practiced taekwondo for six months, but stopped. He has heart problems. In class, they ran a lot, and he began to choke. But we have replaced wrestling with an exercise bike, a treadmill, so we have enough sports.

“I feel my children very well, it’s not for nothing that I have been looking for them for so long,” the singer notes. On the children of Margarita Reima jackets Photo: from the personal archive of M. Sukhankina

- Do you have any upbringing rules that you, for example, take from the experience of your parents, or does everything happen intuitively?

I have a lot of literature on this subject. Sometimes, when questions arise, I flip through books on child psychology. I used to do it more often, now I rely more and more on intuition. I feel my children very well, it’s not for nothing that I was looking for them for so long and literally felt from the TV screen that they were mine. A well-known story is that at first I wanted one child, but it turned out that there were two of them and they were inseparable. And now I'm so happy that I have a boy and a girl!

Photo: from the personal archive of the singer

- Which one of them is easier for you to find a common language with?

They are completely different, and approaches to them need different. For a long time I tried to raise them the same way, but it turned out that it would not work out that way. If the boy walks along a straight road, then the girl walks through the yards. (Smiles.) At first it was not easy for me with both, but now I have learned to understand them and put up with some things. From childhood, they were personalities with a certain core, because they had to go through a lot. That is why I ask the children to tell me everything so that there is no deception between us. I want to be them, first of all, a close friend with whom they can discuss all their problems. Slowly we are getting there. And as for the one with whom it is easier for me to find a common language ... Probably with Seryozha. He is closer to me, Lera is silent, sometimes cunning, does not tell something. But the further, the more she trusts me. In the orphanage they told me: “Keep in mind, Lera needs to be liked, she must trust you before she opens her soul.” The first year was a serious grinding, there were all sorts of situations, but the children realized that they can trust me, they realized that my home is their home. For a long time they said “at your house”, but today we went from the doctor and Lerochka says: “Mommy, it’s good that we will come home now, otherwise I’m so tired.” Children already understand that they are protected. For more than a year, they asked when we were leaving somewhere: “Mommy, will we return? You won’t leave us, won’t give us to anyone?”. And once I put them in front of me and said: “Remember, I will never give you to anyone for any sweets and jewelry. My greatest treasures are you."