Will she run away to the young: how to maintain a relationship if a woman is older than a man
A woman lives in the world. She is already over 40, she divorced her husband, the children grew up and left the nest - they now have their own personal lives. It seems that it's time to start knitting mittens, close the apricot jam for the winter and slowly get ready to meet a cozy old age.
But suddenly he appears on the horizon: a young, passionate and unbridled guy in love affairs, besides, he is not bad-looking!
Mutual interest, feelings flared up - a story from a romantic film. He carries her in his arms like a princess, does not notice her age, mimic wrinkles and a couple of extra pounds on her sides ... Everything is perfect! But time passes and one fine morning the young Apollo leaves his aging girlfriend.
Why does this happen, and how to make sure that a young man never wants to leave his beloved? Read more about this.
What pushes a woman into a relationship with a younger man? The desire to feel again how wings grow behind your back, and the earth leaves from under your feet? Attempts to jump into the last car and stop the passing of youth? Nostalgia for the first cloudless love?
Everyone has their own reasons. And despite social stereotypes, a romantic union where a woman is older than a man is not doomed to failure, but often has its advantages!
The woman takes care of herself
A young lover who wants to stun, seduce and knock down is the perfect motivation to change your style! Bright dresses instead of gray jeans, flowing hair instead of a sleek ponytail, red lipstick and arrows on the eyes! Cosmetologists, massage therapists, jogging in the morning - what passion and desire to please women just does not push.
And the man is happy! Next to a blooming woman, I want to strive only forward, move mountains, achieve goals, conquer new and new peaks for her sake.
It is easier for a man to realize
If a woman is older, has extensive experience in home improvement, relationships and the social sphere, it is not a sin for her to prove herself in a leadership role. You can give a man advice or a hint, but just don’t do it in the tone of a formidable boss!
An adult woman is able to help a young partner even in career endeavors, unlike an inexperienced young beauty. But this should be done carefully, without exerting strong pressure.
Bright sex
It's not about acrobatic stunts or the absence of prohibitions, but about understanding desires! An experienced woman will say what she wants without hesitation, biting her lips and downcast eyes. Maybe sex in the car? Or a blowjob in a restroom of a restaurant? Or multiple orgasms in a row? She is no longer shy, but acts! And this initiative turns men on more than the face of the “Barbie doll” - and it doesn’t matter: the age difference is a year, 6 years or 26!
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“A woman 10 years older than a man is not normal,” divorced or unmarried friends secretly whisper. And this is the usual reaction of people brought up in the Soviet Union. Do not listen to this gossip: evil tongues and bored women will always find a reason to discuss someone's life in an unpleasant way.
Famous actor Hugh Jackman and his wife have an age difference of 13 years. At first, the press reacted scandalously, asking the question: "Well, what did he find in this old woman?" But the noise died down, and the couple has been happily married for 23 years with two children.
Learn from each other
A significant age difference benefits both partners. A woman shares her wisdom and life experience acquired over the years, and a man brings the “novelties” of modern society and fresh ideas to a couple.
Do not be jealous of the young chosen one
Jealousy arises from self-doubt. Does it really make sense for an experienced, accomplished and harmonious woman to indulge in such girlish experiences? If the chosen one is nearby, then he gets pleasure from the relationship!
In order not to wind yourself up too much, spend more time together: attend events, get out of town for the weekend, meet friends.
Enjoy ease of relationship
A young partner will never reproach him for frivolity, he will not read morality and guide him on the right path. Ease of attitude to life, freedom and emancipation - that's what awaits the "unequal" couple!
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Don't be afraid to make plans for the future if this is "your" person
Alas, peer relationships are less successful - 53% of marriages break up after three to four years. The average duration of marriages, if the woman is older than the man, is up to 16 years. So don't be afraid to risk getting married again, move to another country with him, start a new life!
Have sex more often
An experienced woman without stupid sexual restrictions who knows where and in what position she wants in bed is a much more sensual lover than a twenty-year-old young girl who fakes orgasms and moans, like in porn movies.
A young lover - hot, passionate and hungry for sex, can satisfy the erotic fantasies of a partner all night long without getting tired.
Be open to sensual pleasures: if he is younger than you, then in sex this is definitely an advantage!
