Practical advice that will change the approach to happiness and teach you to enjoy life

Good afternoon, dear readers! The quality of our life largely depends on how happy we feel. Frequent problems at work, quarrels with a spouse, unimportant studies of a child, boorish communication of a cashier do not contribute to the appearance of positive emotions. But you can rejoice even on the grayest day. Today I will tell you how to enjoy life no matter what. Simple and practical tips that can dramatically change your approach to happiness.

Find things that give you pleasure

We think we know ourselves very well. We understand what things we like, and what infuriates and infuriates us. But it is not always the case.

Try to sit alone and remember all the things that you sincerely enjoy in life.
Don't be afraid to record even the wildest and most incredible things. Maybe you enjoy walking around the city at night? Knitting, talking to a close friend, shopping for new clothes, a good coffee in the morning, a massage, and so on.

Also, try to keep track of the things that bring you joy. Have you played billiards for the first time and really enjoyed it? Great, put this activity on your to-do list.

Try every day to pay attention to everything that makes you smile or feel joy.

Over time, this will help you to focus on pleasant events and you will begin to notice more and more beautiful things around. Our subconscious loves to play games with us. And sometimes he slips exactly those things that we think about more often, on which we are fixated. Use this to your advantage.

Remember that if you often eat oranges, then sooner or later they will start to sicken. Do not overdo it in getting pleasure from this or that activity.

Expand your horizons

Learn something new every day. This will not only help you become more erudite and developed, but also expand the range of activities that can bring you joy.

Perhaps you do not even suspect that decoupage will become not only your hobby, but also a vocation in life. And the pleasure that you will receive from this activity cannot be compared with anything else.

By learning new things, you train your brain, do not let it stagnate. Train your memory, develop thinking. In addition, if you try to apply something in your life, then you will receive additional experience.

Exploring the world, you can meet interesting people who will fill your life with completely new motives. They will share their experience, open the curtain to the unknown for you before, show the beautiful side of something new. Do not be afraid to make new acquaintances, because you do not know for sure why fate brought you to this or that person.

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Take advantage of everything

Learning to see the good even in the bad is an extremely useful and important skill that every adult, educated person should have.

First, you don't take slips and mistakes that seriously. This allows you not to fall into depression from another failure.

Secondly, you know how to turn everything into the experience you need.

We are used to more often scolding our lives for everything. Bad work, loneliness, terrible traffic jams, the vile character of the wife, naughty children and so on. Believe me, in each of these situations you can find a positive moment.

• Bad work is a great reason to develop yourself as a professional and move to a new job;
• loneliness - independence, free schedule, complete control of one's life;
• terrible traffic jams - extra time to read your favorite books, a place where you can meet your soulmate, and so on.

Just don't pull on your ears. There are situations in which there really is nothing good. Learn to distinguish between reality, real experience, true good times, and unrealistic expectations.

And of course, learn to enjoy the little things. Sometimes the smallest detail can make the whole day perfect. A pretty girl smiled in the morning on the bus - here's a great shot of your life that brought joy and positive.

I recommend you take a look at the book. Mikhail Labkovsky "I want and I will". The author describes how you can learn to live in harmony with yourself, freeing yourself from unnecessary goals and objectives. Surely you can find useful tips in it.

What makes you smile? What is the happiest moment in your life? What stops you from enjoying every day? How do you encourage yourself?

Smile right here and now!
Happiness to you.