Accidents are not accidental or our teachers.

Many things happen in our life. And they are all different - joyful and inspiring us to new deeds and achievements, or sad and sad, leading us to apathy and despondency.
The only question is - by chance whether happen all events or everything happens spontaneously, without any reason? Everything in our life happens for a reason. Accidents are not accidental!

An interesting version of the case is put forward by a well-known psychologist and journalist, teacher of the Faculty of Journalism of Moscow State University V. V. Shakhidzhanyan. Watch the video at the bottom of the article.

Each situation, each case eloquently tells us a lot, namely, about what happens to us at one or another moment of our life, what happens here and now, at this moment of our long or short life, the duration of which directly depends on ourselves.

Only we rarely listen to such prompts from the Universe when we don’t like what is happening to us and leave everything as it is, without changing anything. What do we do most often? We begin to blame others, curse what happened to us, scold the case. So what? you might say. Nothing, just all this time we are moving away from ourselves. If you don't care, then it won't be interesting to read further. Only one who understands the fact that leaving oneself, one constantly returns to oneself, is able to realize many things that are happening in his life. We move on.

Yes, you can get up and get away from an unpleasant conversation, run away when
a feeling of indignation overflows, to avoid people unpleasant to us. But why do we forget that we can’t get away from ourselves, we can’t run away, we can’t hide? You still have to, sooner or later, turn to yourself.

We all like joyful and pleasant moments of life. This is understandable, moments of joy and happiness tell us that our soul is in complete balance with the world. The world tells us in these moments that we are who we really are and gives us spiritual harmony. But as soon as we do not realize something, the Universe begins to send us chance, which not random, which let us know that we are doing something wrong. But we do not hear the voice from above, we do not want to hear it and close ourselves. Thus, and accordingly, themselves. This is typical of a person in critical situations. And you need to get away from it!

Otherwise, what do we have? We have a heaviness on the soul, which eventually passes, as it seems to us. But this . Heaviness remains and, moreover, over time it turns into a heavy burden that we can carry all our lives. And where will she go? After all, the owner of this burden does not try to throw it off, but continues to make it harder with his negative thoughts directed to a person, for example, who, to put it mildly, does not like.

Our teachers.

I don't mean teachers at school, but those teachers that life sends us. Well, firstly, we ourselves create our own world, forming our own worldview and, based on this, we ourselves attract situations and people who become our teachers.

Our teachers, that is, the teachers in our lives are those who teach us life lessons that we try our best to avoid. But everything in the universe is interconnected. And just from what (or whom) we run away, we get it.

Do we not like some of his qualities in a person or is his behavior annoying? And what, in fact, clings? And what catches, then we are looking for in ourselves. How else? After all, only what is in us is very catchy. If we remain calm when interacting with a person, then everything is in order with our thinking.

Now many people understand this, but there are those who do not accept, justifying themselves. Of course, you should not consider the behavior of a person who annoys as a complete copy of us (we are not clones), but only what “hooked” us. And this may not lie at all on the surface, but deep inside of us, these are our hidden feelings and thoughts that we are afraid to admit even to ourselves. And in order to figure it out and get rid of, we are given a chance, "thrown" us the right teacher. And what are we doing? We run away from this case, afraid to look into ourselves, and afraid of our own exposure. And nothing changes. And yet, nothing just happens. Problems and sores do not just appear with us.

When we get angry and irritated with another, we spit out
these feelings on yourself. It's like pouring a bucket of slop on yourself. The only difference is that all this dirt, with the inability to interact with others, and therefore with oneself, ends up in our soul, slagging it. And if we continue to continue in the same spirit, then we simply will not get out of this garbage dump.

This begs the question: Who gets worse from this? And the answer is: Everyone! First of all to us, then to our loved ones and to the whole Universe.

Here is a prime example "accidents" And teachers that we meet in our lives every day. I often hear conversations like this. One person says to another: “We have such evil people in our city. Always snapping, grumbling. Wherever I go, I will definitely quarrel with someone. And the other replies: “You know, I didn’t notice. Everyone always smiles at me. And no matter how I go to the store, the sales girls are so friendly, they will tell and show everything and always offer only high-quality goods. Such smiling faces all around.

And these conversations are heard by us not by chance. They just tell us that the world can be viewed in completely different ways. And how exactly, it is up to us, or rather, each of us.

As soon as our goal is aimed at changing ourselves, and not another person, as soon as we learn to manage the situation that we have created, and not follow its lead, as soon as we learn to listen to the signs of the Universe, which periodically sends us the right people in the right for us situations, so immediately the wheel of fortune will turn to you.

And in the case when life threw up an unpleasant situation or a “difficult” person, we will learn thank the universe for giving us hints on the way to perfection and SENDING GREAT TEACHERS WITH THE HELP OF WHICH WE CAN CHANGE OURSELVES AND CHANGE OUR LIFE FOR THE BETTER! Our enemies are the best teachers!

Let's remember that everything in our life does not happen by chance, that Accidents are not accidental!

All the best to you, which means kindness in your soul, which will make you and your loved ones happy, the world around you and the whole Universe!