Each person is not sent to us by chance. Why are accidents not random?

Why in life happy woman there are no coincidences, and you?

Hello!

Found a great video today. For you to look at the weekend.

It is called: "God of Miracles", although it is not about religion at all.

It tells about the beauty of our planet, our Universe, how everything in our world works, where everything came from.

And the main idea in this film is that how could all this be accidental, since the world is so beautiful, so thought out?

We all know that our brain is perfection. Was such a miracle accidental?

Our body is great. Was it an accident?

We often believe in fate, in love spells, in chance, in luck, in Lucky case etc. I myself best years everyone was waiting for something good to happen to me, and then I would become happy.

I dreamed about it constantly when I dozed off in the morning on my way to work on the bus. When I was walking home from work, it was especially offensive in the spring, when it was getting light not so late, and the air became so sweet, green grass broke through, and buds swelled on the trees.

I really wanted love, protection, simple human and female happiness.

But instead - a minibus to the house, dreams of my own, albeit an inexpensive typewriter, a lonely evening with books and TV, and dreams, when something good will happen to me: a good salary will come from nowhere, a reliable man will appear who will solve everything my problems, etc.

That is, my youth was spent not achieving my results, not in the fulfillment of desires, but in dreams that someone would fulfill my desires.

In dreams about a better life, relying on chance, which is kind of like, as you know, " special case patterns."

What's wrong with randomness? The fact that you go with the flow and do not know where and to which shore it will hit, and what will happen.

That is, we are not responsible. What is the risk?

The fact that changes will come, but not the ones we are waiting for. Both in space (attracting / not attracting people / events), and in our reactions, emotions, sensations themselves.

When the wrong changes come, we will not accept them. From which the conclusion will be drawn that “the laws of the Universe do not work for me”, etc.

I myself went through all this, so I can say this with certainty. I know what I'm talking about.

For example, the US needs oil in the Middle East. Do they let this process take its course? Nah, they run it. You know how....

And all the proverbs on the topic that fate will find on the stove, maybe they are true. Will find, in 50 years. Are you ready to wait?

It’s not for nothing that there is another one: trust in God (pray, visualize, tune in to the positive, etc.), but don’t make a mistake yourself! (do whatever it takes).

Remember "The Most Charming and Attractive"? Quote: "We should not expect favors from nature, our task is to take them ourselves!"

We will talk a lot more about this subject.

And I have prepared for you all sorts of different chips and exercises for different cases life.

So stay with me.

And now watch this wonderful video and leave your comments, what conclusions did you draw. Your opinion is important and interesting to me!

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Have you noticed in your life how random things are not random? Sometimes it happens that even if you try hard to define randomness as a mere coincidence, nothing comes of it? Sorry for the tautology, but the match doesn't match...

Troubles happen to everyone, but the question is - why do they happen? There are reasons for this, eliminating which, we get rid of unnecessary problems.

Let's start with the fact that Nothing is accidental.

This world is arranged in a certain way, and there are Higher Laws to which everything that happens is subject. Ignorance, misunderstanding or rejection of these laws does not invalidate them. We can say that Life is built on the principle of a school where we must learn wisdom: to know the laws of life and live in accordance with them in order to enjoy every moment of life.

We live in a closed system in which all its parts are closely interconnected with each other and have mutual influence, so nothing is accidental, and nothing goes unnoticed. What you radiate is what you receive. What goes around comes around. What comes back to you is what you do for others. folk wisdom. Golden Rule from Buddhism - "Do not do to another what you do not wish for yourself" - is built on the understanding of this. Other religions say essentially the same thing.

Why is it hard to understand. Because life here has a duration (time, inertia) and "return" does not come immediately. When you launch a boomerang, it needs time to fly away, reach its destination and return; and while it flies, other boomerangs launched before that return to you. Since the mind (in most cases) cannot trace this cause and effect relationship, there is no understanding that nothing happens by chance. Everything is interconnected and natural.

We need to understand that the troubles that happen to us are not a punishment from God, ( Higher Forces etc.), but the result of our violation of these very Divine laws. In other words, I myself was the cause of these troubles. Accepting this as a fact (I am responsible for what happens to me), you create an opportunity for spiritual growth: learning, correcting your mistakes and achieving the highest goal - happiness.

The Higher Laws are absolutely fair and harmonious (sometimes selfishness does not allow one to see this). You are the cause of what is happening to you. You have to understand what it is like to do/have done to others. Only in this way can you learn wisdom and receive a certificate - happiness. That is why this world is so.

Being offended or angry at a person who creates trouble for you is a mistake that leads to an increase in your own ego, which feeds on negativity. In this case, spiritual growth is impossible or inhibited. Another person, through whom the trouble came, is not the source of this trouble, but only its conductor. Through it, Life points to your own mistakes, asks you to think, realize and draw the right conclusions. There would be no this person, there would be another, but the situation would have turned out the same.

There is a lesson to be learned from adversity. Unless, of course, we do not want to step on the same rake again. If the same trouble comes into your life again and again, this indicates a repeated step on the same rake. Life is trying to teach us something, but we all do not learn and do not learn. We do not think (preferring to blame others), we do not draw the right conclusions and continue to do stupid things. Therefore, Life is forced to teach us with the help of more and more severe situations. It can go far and be more and more painful. published

Have you noticed in your life how random things are not random? Sometimes it happens that even if you try hard to define randomness as a mere coincidence, nothing comes of it. And it doesn't match...

Troubles happen to everyone, but the question is - why do they happen? There are reasons for this, eliminating which, we get rid of unnecessary problems.

Let's start with the fact that nothing is accidental

We live in a closed system in which all its parts are closely interconnected with each other and have mutual influence, so nothing is accidental, and nothing goes unnoticed.

What you radiate is what you receive. What goes around comes around. What comes back to you is what you do for others.
Folk wisdom.

The golden rule from Buddhism - "Do not do to others what you do not wish for yourself" - is built on the understanding of this. Other religions say essentially the same thing.

Why is it hard to understand?

Because life here has a duration (time, inertia) and "return" does not come immediately. When you launch a boomerang, it needs time to fly away to reach the end point and return; and while it flies, other boomerangs launched before that return to you. Since the mind (in most cases) cannot trace this cause and effect relationship, there is no understanding that nothing happens by chance. Everything is interconnected and natural.

It is necessary to understand that the troubles that happen to us are not a punishment from God (Higher Forces, etc.), but the result of our violation of these very Divine laws. In other words, I myself was the cause of these troubles. Accepting this as a fact (I am responsible for what happens to me), you create an opportunity for spiritual growth: learning, correcting your mistakes and achieving the highest goal - happiness.

There's a lesson to be learned from adversity

Unless, of course, we do not want to step on the same rake again. If the same trouble comes into your life again and again, this indicates a repeated step on the same rake. Life is trying to teach us something, but we all do not learn and do not learn. We do not think (preferring to blame others), we do not draw the right conclusions and continue to do stupid things. Therefore, Life is forced to teach us with the help of more and more severe situations. It can go far and be more and more painful.

Everyone has already heard about the approaching end of the world. Someone believes in it and prepares, someone does not, and laugh at the first. One thing is for sure, that a huge number of people today in one way or another think about this event.

Everything in life is not accidental, and maybe the “end of the world” for us is a chance to think about how we live? How many things do we leave for later, how many unspoken words and deeds drag on day after day, and what if it happens that it will be too late?

In my work, I often hear from students and training assistants that they would like to say words of love, support and recognition today to their parents, who are no longer alive.

It becomes difficult for people to cope with their feelings of guilt and loss. And how many people regret that they did not do this or that act earlier, but the train left, and there was a feeling of dissatisfaction, which is also sometimes difficult to cope with.

Ask yourself questions right now: “What is not completed that I could complete today? What would your loved ones want to hear from you, but maybe you are constantly busy with something more important, or offended by them, and therefore punish them with a lack of your attention and care?

If you knew you had six months to live, what would you be doing then? What if it's a month? What if it's just one day? This is an amazing exercise that gives you the opportunity to look at your life and prioritize.

I remember one idea, which was described in his book "The Gambler" by F. M. Dostoevsky. He described a situation in which two people sat at a table and discussed the picture of life through food on a plate. The dish that was brought to them at the restaurant contained various products. Among all the variety, there are more favorite delicacies and less, and sometimes they put peas or beans, which, for example, I don’t like at all.

But, one way or another, everything is like in life. We meet people, we get into situations that are more important and meaningful to us or less. Returning to the plot idea, one of the characters asks the second: “What dish do you start eating with?” The answer was: “As from what, from what is less tasty for me, so that at the end I can enjoy my favorite dishes and leave a pleasant aftertaste from visiting a restaurant.”

I did the same. I had to eat everything myself, but I paid for it!!! And he started with the most unloved. And in life this happens often when I forget and start the race for significance. There are so many IMPORTANT and URGENT things that there is no time left for yourself, your family.

Moreover, you need to dislike these things very much, and show it with all your might, so that those close to you understand exactly that when I do “such” things, I remember them and suffer. After all, if it weren’t for this matter, I would definitely talk to my wife, play with the child, help my parents, do something around the house, rest ... but, alas ... there are so many unpleasant and urgent things that no one but me can handle.

Many sources say that start with the things that are most unpleasant for you in order to complete them faster. There are people who this technology helps, but not me. At some point, there are so many of these unpleasant things that I can just fly out of family life for a long time. "Darling, I have so much work to do... In retirement, we will definitely catch up." It would be funny, if not so sad.

Once my wife helped me a lot. We were just starting to live together, and one day we went to a restaurant, where they brought us the dishes we ordered, decorating them with an additional side dish. My main course was served with a side dish that had a lot of green beans, and I already wrote how much I don’t like them. “How lucky you are,” she told me, “You have so many vegetables and beans!”

I was shocked, we didn’t cook such a side dish at home. At that moment, I felt so much love and care for me, from the thought that at home my wife cooks only the food that both of us like, and nothing that she likes herself, although, as it turned out, she loves such vegetables. I gave her my vegetables with great pleasure, proceeding immediately to the part of the dish that I love the most.

I remembered the ending of the story from the book, where the first character answered the second: “And if then it doesn’t come? Here you are now eating what you do not like, death will come unexpectedly, you will die with a dissatisfied physiognomy and a feeling of lack of satisfaction from life.

There are always people who like what you don't like. These are amazing people who can be your support in the development of your business, the creators of a favorable atmosphere in the family, attention and care for your child, participation in friendships, keepers of health, and the possibility of spiritual growth. And only you can decide where to be these amazing people!

Or, instead of you, think about the strategy of your business, pay attention to your family, take care of your child, educate him, go to interesting events with your friends, go to examinations instead of you and wellness procedures, maintaining your health and developing spiritually instead of you, while you have URGENT and VERY IMPORTANT MATTERS, or still learn to give, trust, delegate, entrust, ask them to do what steals your time, effort, energy and makes your life unsatisfied?

Cultivate responsibility by creating your own life, not someone else's! Describe the idea of your life, and watch how this idea is embodied every day you live. Strive to fall asleep every night with a sense of accomplishment, satisfaction from the day lived, with a sense of well-being and completion of a particular business or event.

What part of the dish will you start your lunch with today? And do you have to eat everything? If the last moments of your life were left, would you eat " green beans” (insert your least favorite dish)? Would you waste your precious minutes on this?

Don't part with your loved ones!
Don't part with your loved ones!
Don't part with your loved ones!
Grow in them with all your blood,

And every time forever say goodbye!

And every time forever say goodbye!
When you leave for a moment!

Oleg Efimov (www.efimov-grc.pro)

Coach and senior trainer at GRC Relationship Centers.

For 10 years she has been conducting trainings in various cities of Russia (21 cities - more than 600 graduates a year).