How to feel happy and desired. Tendency to depression. In a relationship, there is no one better, and someone worse

How to be happy and loved- follow only 10 rules! eradicate bad habits. A woman who smells of alcohol, cigarette smoke and swears is not at all attractive, both for men and for all other people. Such a woman loses her natural attractiveness and ruins her health, and men need beautiful wives and healthy mothers of their future children.

- Why the hell did you come back at 7 in the morning drunk?

- I don't have the right to have breakfast with my family?

-What are you talking about.. Me?!!! Dancing on the table?...Me?! In underwear?… You left early…!!!

Do women's work. A woman should be able to sew, wash, knit, cook, create comfort in the house, take care of children.

Make time for yourself. Take care of yourself, be neat, clean, smell good, be able to dress harmoniously.

Be faithful. Do not exchange for trifles and trifles, be true to your principles, your morals in life, do not change partners, be true to your life partner. Men appreciate the faithful and faithful, and will never lead serious relationship with frivolous and accessible women.

Understand that a woman sets the mood in the house. The nature of a woman is to create comfort in the house, harmonize relationships and maintain peace in the family. A woman is born to be a muse for a man, she must inspire her husband and children, give and receive love, support and respect her husband, help with advice, be friends with her husband, not betray. Do not take on men's duties, be a woman, which means being soft, gentle and affectionate!

Love, but be reasonable, do not rush into the pool with your head! You need to understand whether this person is right for you for life without the desire to change anything in him!? A common mistake of women - he will change, common mistake men - she's not going anywhere. This is not true! Seriously approach the issue of marriage, because falling in love will pass, and you will take off rose-colored glasses ... The happiness of your future family depends today on your choice! If you suddenly become disappointed, then, accordingly, be dissatisfied with your husband, you will always grumble, and your husband will be angry with you, then the children will not be happy in such a family.

avoid stress, try to avoid stressful situations, do not create situations that you will then be hard to endure, and if such happened, be able to get rid of stress!

Aggression, fear, anger, resentment, hatred, anger, jealousy, envy ... all this has a detrimental effect on a woman's health, changes her nervous system, and usually develops into more severe consequences various diseases, and the first of these is the violation hormonal background women!

Accept the blessings of the world! A woman is the goddess of nature, therefore she must follow her true nature, and such a woman deserves respect, honor and goodness and has the right to receive gifts, attention and everything that can bring her a smile and joy in her eyes. Not to be confused with the goddesses of glamor, where they allow themselves to be pretentious, arrogant, greedy and mercantile!

Land - to the peasants, power - to the Soviets, factories - to the workers, and I have a Lexus and minivans!

Be happy always. To be able to enjoy every little thing in life, to be happy here and now, not to wait for someone to make you happy, to create smiles and joy for yourself! You must be able to forgive, forgiveness is a gift to yourself! By forgiving, you let go of everything bad and forget everything, and are ready for a new beautiful day!

Happy is not the one who has a crowd of admirers, but the one who has the only one and she doesn’t need anyone except Him!

How to be happy or happier, and beloved probably worries many women. Some of them strive to improve their personal happiness, incl. financial situation at the expense of a man, and someone achieves happiness in an independent way. I am from the second category. A bit from my historical autobiography.

Once I had career and material goals, the same goals as many people. Perhaps I was in less favorable conditions compared to those who had a roof over their heads. Three years after the split of the USSR, I left Uzbekistan for Russia. In the same place, I had everything: real estate, property, relatives and friends. None of this I could take away, sell, exchange to buy real estate in Russia. The prices were incomparable. Moreover, there was no money. I was able to scrape together only one month of economically modest accommodation and food.

But I was calm and confident that I would quickly find a job, a hostel, and then events would show how to act. From the very first day upon arrival, events showed that it was necessary to abandon my ideas about working on a diploma, and hopes that a friend who agreed to shelter me for a few days would somehow participate in my fate in a new place. Quickly parting with the scraps of illusion, I began to act more decisively regarding the search for a job. This problem was number one, so I began to expand the search area. Assuming the idea that I could take on something previously unfamiliar, something that was higher than my ideas about my skills and capabilities, I immediately received several offers, from which I chose one that was not even close to my education.

I agreed to accept an offer to work at the former budget, later commercial structure, as Solvent Sales Manager. The advantage was help with the hostel, which took the headache out of me about paying for housing during the start period. new career, and uncertainties with earnings. After all, as earnings I was promised only a percentage of the goods sold by me. Moreover, I fully felt super-responsibility for all transactions from beginning to end, from the inception of an idea to receipt, delivery of money to the cash desk of the enterprise. A period of intense activity began in order to earn money, at first to meet basic needs, which soon developed into a desire to think about my own housing and moving my parents to me. As soon as this idea appeared, I began to expand my commercial opportunities and simultaneously create new areas of business. Naturally, the load on my fragile shoulders also increased proportionally.

For all my material goals, I somehow lost sight of taking care of my health. And it began to let me down time after time. I was so involved in business processes that I walked and stood when other people fainted. I am referring to the specific case of a burst fallopian tube. Of course, I did not know about this, the pain was drowned out by an injection of baralgin in the leg every 30 minutes. After the operation, the doctor said that I had been walking for a week with a burst tube and developing peritonitis. But this case does not speak of my negligence, but of the incorrect diagnosis of doctors, and all those I visited.

Since that moment, I have had several more surgeries that have left me in complete despair. I finally asked myself: “Why do I need all this if I die, or lose my ability to work, grow old prematurely, etc.? Who will need this? No one.”

By this time, I already had various skills, professional retraining, additional education. I already had my own housing, and everything I needed by that time. And, of course, your own business in several areas. She was never married, although men always hung around. I thought about re-prioritizing my values.

I was fascinated by new areas of activity, unfamiliar before. After a few years, I lost interest in everything that I did in a specific period of time, as soon as I realized that I had reached a certain ceiling. I took on new things, discovered new sources of knowledge, movement, development. Considering that I needed to reduce the load and free up time for myself, I closed several lines of business and plunged into one. Of course, this greatly affected my income, but it did not frighten me. I saw different money, and I was iron-hardened, grafted, with a strong immunity to various conditions of existence.

I have a lot of free space in my head to think about other important things. Finally there was a desire to find her man and get married. Since I was still absorbed in business with all my heart and time, I gave a small space for my personal life and somehow everything was in between. I directed my attention to choosing from what was already there and expanding the circle of new acquaintances. But everything was not right, although my demands were rather mundane and modest. At some point, I already knew what I needed from a man and who I needed. As soon as I understood this, He appeared right there, on the same day. It was 2006. Events spun rapidly, so in non-stop mode, he managed to prove himself, and I recognized that this was exactly the man I needed. After 2 weeks from the moment we met, he proposed to me, although of them, I spent 10 days in the hospital with another operation.

Since then, my health and harmonious family life have become dominant themes for me. I cherish them, cherish them, cherish them reverently and actively bring them to life through actions. I wrote about what I do to restore, preserve and maintain health in many of my articles, and I will talk about this further.

Now I want to dwell on personal happiness, which directly depends on who is next to you.

How to become happy and loved?

Almost 9 years living together, my husband and I manage to maintain love, friendship, calm, even partnerships. It seems that over the years our tender affection for each other only intensifies and grows stronger. I believe that this is my great merit. My husband is rare find, but only for wise women. He is an excellent husband, a family man, an amazing person with a whole range of spiritual and personal qualities that nature has awarded him. And which are not visible to others, due to their narrow-mindedness, exceptional prejudices. But he is impulsive, temperamental, and he, like any other, can be brought to white heat, if you try. No, he cannot stand scandals, conflicts and showdowns, he just runs fast. It was enough for me to pay attention to how he fled from his first wife. Patience, as you know, is not unlimited.

From the first days I refused to test his patience, took a position of attentive, caring, loving wife and girlfriends. At the same time, she clearly spoke or made it clear what I needed from him, from marriage. This position has not always been. In the past, spoiled by male attention, I made it clear to men that I am an independent, independent, strong and self-confident woman. And I care little about their dreams and claims on my account. I still continue to behave this way with boyfriends, but not with my husband. My husband is on a special pedestal for me.

Some men communicate with their own kind, and accordingly develop, make a career in their male society. They don't really need the encouragement and kicks of their wife as an incentive to achieve something more. For them, family, home is a place of rest from work, or even perfume. But there is another type of men, my husband also belongs to them - they are more closed, there are no close friends, friendly relations are at a distance, but with everyone they are even, warm and equivalent. They are homebodies, cannot stand companies and feasts, noise and useless conversations. For them, a home, a good wife is all that is associated with Paradise. These are typical introverts, experiencing everything within themselves, in their intimate inner world. In this case, the wife replaces everyone and fills the entire inner world of a man. In this case, a woman is required to have a competent, subtle art of combining - to remain "weak", and at the same time direct, stimulate a man to rational activity. But everything is simple, if you want to try yourself in other roles. Give up obstinacy, stubbornness, unreasonable whims, pretentiousness, replacing them with lighter, lighter feelings and relationships.

I know for sure that:

- You can only be fully happy in a couple.

Love, harmony, mutual understanding, mutual support, a healthy climate between a man and a woman depends on the basis, 90% of the woman. I am a conductor, director, and screenwriter all rolled into one. The initiator of holidays and scandals is always a woman. Save or destroy relationships in the power of only women.

The measure and guarantee of harmonious relations are spiritual and personal qualities rather than material values.

“You can’t demand from another what you don’t adhere to yourself. Requirements in a pair should be adequate to the value that you represent yourself, no more, no less. If you think that you are more valuable than your man or potential, pay attention to your shortcomings. Perhaps this is how you will descend from heaven to earth, and you will finally want to make yourself happy.

The development of a man, his positive inner attitude, a sincere desire to work for his woman, depends on the spiritual fullness of a woman, her ability to enjoy the little things in life, to notice positive moments and talk about them, to note the dignity of a man and the potential hidden from him. Do not skimp on a smile, pleasant, supportive words, caresses, touches and kisses.

Claims, reproaches and demands are the shortest way to destroy your relationship.

Almost every man has low self-esteem and faith in own forces, in which mothers, random girlfriends and ex-wives In a word, women. You can easily pick it up and make it “grow wings” with you.

If next to you is a man who did not live up to your expectations, then you do not know the art of being a true woman.

The fidelity of a man depends on all of the above.

In the hectic daily rhythm, we can lose sight of something important. And I want to remind you of what must not be forgotten under any circumstances, if you want to be happy and loved if you want the man who is next to you to open his wings and show himself completely. I mean genetic male and female predisposition and your psychology.

And no matter how society, upbringing and other deformers influence nature - nature don't cheat. Can become happy very quickly, and even faster to destroy your happiness.

I know exactly what happiness only in our hands, only they must not be lowered!

There is no limit to perfection, as well as time, which does not stand still and entails various changes.

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