An elderly husband has a young mistress. Why aging men go to young mistresses

An older woman will never wake you up in the middle of the night with a stupid question “What were you thinking now, honey?” Because she just doesn't care what you think.

An older woman always keeps a condom in her purse. The young one still hopes that you will take care of it.

An older woman will cost you less. A younger one will cost you 12 Martini glasses at the bar, while an older woman will sleep with you after a cup of herbal tea at home.

An older woman can wear bright red lipstick during the day and not look like she just climbed into a jar of jam. This does not apply to a young girl.

Older women run faster because they prefer to wear comfortable shoes.

An older woman is more honest. She will call you an "idiot" if you treat her like that. A young woman will never call you that for fear of losing you.

An older woman will never suddenly become pregnant and suddenly decide that one of the two of you should get married urgently. If an older woman gets pregnant, you will usually be the last to know...

An older woman has a job, housing and does not need your sponsorship. He does not whine about money for cosmetics, boots, a new handbag, and does not even use hints that make you feel anxious and remorseful.

An older woman will never suspect you of being "using her". She is using you.

An older woman will simply call you and ask when it's convenient for you to meet her, if you want to. The young one will wait forever by the phone when you call her.

The older woman knows how to cook and even knows how to cook shrimp! The young woman knows the phone number for ordering pizza at the place around the corner.

An older woman will introduce you to all her friends. The young one will hide you from them so that you don’t have thoughts about ...

An older woman always has an excellent collection of luxurious underwear left over from her former lovers. Young people rarely wear underwear, which practically eliminates the possibility of str**tiz.

An older woman is perspicacious and quick-witted. You never have to confess to her about the scam on the side, because the hell knows how, but she always knows about it herself.

An older woman has a feeling dignity, therefore, never throw a tantrum in a public place.

An older woman is experienced and knows that in bed you can not always get everything right after the 12th mug of beer. It may take a young child a long time to realize this fact.

An older woman will never accuse you of "stealing her best years because someone else has already stolen them before you.

I have a young lover. Ugh! Sounds idiotic. And it's all not true.

First of all, he's not that young. Quite an adult man with a serious face, a profession and two gray hairs on his left temple. Just noticed yesterday. She smiled. Tenderness in a smile was the most. But if he kissed me at that moment, he would be able to feel the savory smack of gloating with his tongue. And some relief.

And he is not my lover at all. There is no adultery here. I - free woman. And prejudice too. What should we call him, this man? He is my friend. Sometimes it is more important than any love. Friend and colleague. We work together, we have lunch, we discuss business, we laugh. Sometimes he stays with me. When the children are with their grandmother.

Let it be M. A man, younger than me, my dear.

Our ten years, well, honestly, do not bother me. In general, I am pleased to kiss fresh lips and lie on a young broad chest. And everywhere, everywhere - young skin. Why shouldn't you like it?

For real, the difference in age is palpable for me only lexicologically. All these "nra" and "by the way" in our long gentle correspondence are touching. But I can do something else too, believe me. I'm not that old. “Tra me”, “A ho in the elevator?”. Etc. I'm not lagging behind.

Why should I feel awkward?

A friend, pouring tea for me, asks a thousand questions. This requires more and more details. Either he is looking for a catch, or he relishes the details.

The eyes, of course, are on fire. It is a fact. You have rejuvenated. Either he has such an effect on you, or you are always like that. And I just didn't notice. But what will happen next, Masha? Did you think?

I thought. I weighed everything, all the pros and cons. Predicted several scenarios. Listed its pros and cons. I figured our future together for thirty years. I was horrified by what a relationship with such a difference in age is fraught with for my vulnerable nature. I calculated how much money I would need to maintain beauty and outward youth.

And what do you say? What are your prospects?

To be honest, my dear friend, the prospects are frightening. Do not think that I'm in the pool with my head. I thought over in my head every detail and trifle of our foggy future.

It's hard to know for sure, but I think everything will be approximately in the following way. We will drink tea with you. By the way, the cakes are delicious. Oh, I'm already infected by this youthful brevity. The hands of the clock will approach the cherished mark. I'll make up your lips in your hallway. Quite a bit, rather, for himself, M. does not like the taste of lipstick. I'll take off my panties and put them in my purse. Sorry for the details, but you asked for it yourself. I will straighten my shoulders, chin up, so that the second one is invisible at first sight. On the eyes of dragged and young shamelessness. Yes, I still have this. And I'll go. Today we agreed to meet him. My children are at home with their grandmother.

And we'll start silently. Without long curtseys in the corridor and preludes. He will leave front door open. These young people have completely different ideas about romance. The work was discussed in the morning, he already brought flowers in the afternoon, filled up with compliments by mail, viber, skype and whatsapp. In the evening - silently. He opens the door for me and leads me to the kitchen. And believe me, it's not a candlelight dinner waiting for me there. The table will be completely empty. And they won't make me cook. Yes, I am hungry, very much, but my hunger cannot be satisfied with food.

Silently he will lead me to his white glass table. Turns his back to himself. I lean on my palms, trembling with anticipation. Raise the dress. You asked why I would take off my panties in advance. Well, we've just arrived at the answer. And this youngster will take me, as you say, brazenly and hard from behind. How long will it last - minutes, hours, years, decades. Trust me, it won't matter to me. What are you saying? I turn to him, and wrinkles appear on my neck? He will not see, his eyes at this moment are closed from pleasure. And even if she does, an eighteen-year-old in this position will also have wrinkles on her neck.

Continue, honey?

Yes, I'm thinking about the future. You know me, I am a serious and reasonable woman and never lose my head. I plan how I will plan. I think it will be like this: after that we will go to the living room. He kisses me, I kiss him. Yes, you got it right. Maybe even twice. We are not in a hurry. The rest of the world will wait for my return to earth as long as it takes. Night will fall on the city, the moon will appear in the window. We will sit facing each other, wrapping our arms and legs around each other, and the moonlight will envelop our silhouettes. In this light and after so many orgasms, I'm especially good. Still, there is a little of my romance in these meetings. I lean my head on his wet shoulder. And at this point, I seriously think about it.

How do you want to eat! We'll feed each other whatever we find in the bachelor's fridge. Leftover lettuce, some cheese, olives that I bought last time.

What are you saying? Children? It's all right, kids and grandma, don't distract.

Then we will go to the bedroom. Yes honey. At this point, I'll think about age. That I'm ten years older. And I could have enjoyed it ten years longer. For a moment there is sadness.

Oh no! Only not this! There is no time to be sad here.

How do you like it? Over the bed in the bedroom M. hung a hammer and sickle! What audacity! And how sweet he is.

In some of my stories about myself and my life, he saw nostalgia for Soviet Union. He threatened to provide symbolism and surround me with memories of the past. Taki fulfilled.

So it was on the first date.

Under the hammer and sickle he will decompose me obedient. When it seems that the old woman does not have the strength to breathe and live, he will enter again. Like this - silently and brazenly get to the most that neither is feminine essence mine. Will string one by one all my fears and anxious thoughts. And for this I will kiss him humbly and gratefully - these strong shoulders, these tender fingers, these hopelessly young lips.

Thank you my friend for taking such good care of me. I really appreciate it. Trying to put my head back. Return to the path of righteousness.

I just don't want to go back. For once in your life, you want to let go of everything. To let someone in without omissions, promises and conventions. Let it be for a while, let it be in passing. But I want it to penetrate into all the nooks and crannies of my highly organized soul. He touched something there that no one could have ever touched. Which I didn't even think about. And even if the wound remains after this, I will know that I am alive. That I can feel it. Both soul and body.

At the age of 14-20, a young man experiences the peak of feelings, and not the peak of sexuality, as some people think. A man reaches his sexual peak by the age of 25. After 30, maturity sets in: romance and sexual violence remain in the past, normal begins family life. A man, without much unrest, follows the knurled path until he suddenly stumbles upon approaching old age. The appearance of gray hair in the beard is one of the signs of the onset of male menopause, which occurs approximately at the age of 43-50 years. The man suddenly realizes that life is passing, and the dreams of his youth have remained unfulfilled and now it is too late to change anything. The terrible thought “spring will not come for me ...” torments his soul so much that he can decide to take a desperate step - “get into the last carriage” in order to try to drive life around the second circle.

It is believed that, having lived about two-thirds of his life, a man re-experiences a teenage rebellion against the ordinary. Hence the frequent need in both cases to run away from home. The decision to start "in old age" new life previously condemned by society. But at present, society is loyal to this. If a person takes such a step, risking being left with nothing, it means that he really needs it.

For what reason are "gray-bearded" uncles attracted to young girls? After all, mature ladies are more experienced, more relaxed and sometimes much sexier than young ones. If aging men were looking for sex in the first place, they might think that way. But for them something else is more important. In young creatures, they are attracted, on the one hand, by the freshness of the body, on the other, by the freshness of feelings.

It has been known since antiquity that for an aging man the best remedy rejuvenation - the proximity of a young maiden. Even not necessarily a sexual relationship with her, but intimacy in literally this word. In many countries it was the custom of old rulers to put young virgins into their beds, and this did not always involve anything more than the innocent lying side by side, which was much needed to make the old blood run faster. Even the mere presence of a young lady and communication with her has an invigorating effect on an elderly gentleman, allowing him to at least mentally lose a few years.

In the emergence of a romance between a man over 40 and a woman under 25, psychological coincidences also play an important role. Romantic moods have not yet left a woman at this age, and a man has already been taken over again. In terms of the state of their souls, they are in many ways closer to each other than to their peers. How brighter personality men, the higher the interest of young maidens in him. It's not for nothing that there are so many variants of a "love story" between a teacher and his enthusiastic student. In addition, a mature man who has reached a certain material level and position in society is an attractive candidate for some young ladies who crave "confidence in the future." Not without the influence of fashion: in high society, respectable men appear here and there in the company of young and beautiful companions, suggesting any conceited man to the thought: “Why am I worse?”

Well, what about the abandoned wife? Very difficult. It is much more difficult for a woman after forty to build a new life, including a personal one. And the painful question does not give rest: For what reason did he leave?

As a rule, in such cases, men complain that their wives have aged earlier than themselves. As one person said, “My drama is not that I am a grandfather, but that I live with my grandmother.” When a husband and wife go to different generations, as to different rooms, everything that previously connected them becomes obsolete. And is it true, was everything fine, or was the woman wishful thinking? Such changes never happen suddenly, besides, older men are no longer masters of "masking". If the wife did not notice anything until the last minute, it follows from this that she had long ceased to notice her husband himself.

The fear of the “leaving train” and the desire to catch up are so strong at this time in a man that neither a sense of duty nor pity will stop him. If he feels that he has not realized himself, and relations with his wife have long become a routine, then new novel seen as salvation. Leaving an “old” wife for a young mistress is not a pursuit of sexual adventures, but literally an escape from old age.

Such wounds do not heal quickly. But The best way cope with pain - take care of yourself as soon as possible. It's about not only about the body, but also about the soul too - there is no need in given period neglect psychotherapy. In addition, now that there are fewer household chores, nothing prevents you from devoting more time to yourself. And, in the end, why not follow the example of your husband and allow yourself to finally fulfill your own long-held dreams?

After the door has closed behind the departed, few people will not have the question “Will he return or not?”. This cannot be predicted in advance. Some, having “played enough”, return to their former family bosom, others restlessly walk around and around for the rest of their lives, and still others build successful marriages and no longer look back (especially if new wife gives birth to a child). It's hard to say how often it happens. But in any case, if the husband is already packing his suitcase, you should not throw things in his face with a cry: “Never come back!” If his departure is really not a joy, it is better to make it clear that he is always expected here. And there come what may.