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Yulia Shilova was born on Far East 1969. From childhood, little Yulia began to love literature. In 1988 she entered the Far East state institute, and in it she began studying to be a journalist. But at that time, the scholarship was not even enough for food, and yet she still had to help her mother. For this reason, Yulia left the university and begins her career as a businesswoman, opening her own own business a pharmacist, who soon brings her great success. Then she meets a man who becomes her first husband. From him, a beautiful daughter Lolita was born, now the girl is already 11 years old. But soon the "white streak" in Yulia's life ends, her husband dies in a car accident. The only consolation they bring children of Yulia Shilova.

But still, Shilova's business continued to flourish, and soon in 1993 she left for Moscow. Here she meets her second husband, and the second child is born again - the daughter of Zlata. But this time, a crack began to appear in her family life. Just when there is a financial crisis, there is also a crisis in the family. Julia is getting divorced, the business went bankrupt. She is left alone with her young daughters in the big city, without work or money.

Depression sets in, it comes out of it with a pen and a piece of paper. Julia starts writing. She began to write down everything that she felt, that she had to endure, in general, everything. Soon she will release a novel. Her friends advised Yulia to conclude an agreement with a publishing agency, but there she was forced to lie, because any publishing agency concludes a contract on the condition that the writer already has several written works, so she showed only her one work, and the rest, supposedly, were still in draft form. And so it happened! They signed a contract with her, and Julia realized that now she must write four works within the deadline. And within four months, she writes four more detective stories.

In 2000, the first detectives by Yulia Shilova appeared on the shelves of bookstores: "Fatal Night" and "Lady Bitch". With each new detective, the interest of readers grew more and more. Once, at one of her conferences, one of the journalists admitted that she read her books and asked her the following question: does Yulia want to recover at the university. This question greatly puzzled Yulia and after a while, after weighing everything well, she decides to return to the university and enters the Faculty of Law. This choice was obvious, because life has taught Yulia a lot, and she herself has already written several detective stories.

A year ago, the writer got married for the third time. For the first time she talks about her happy marriage.

Shortly before meeting Bo, I asked the Universe to send me a man. I realized that I was ready for family life, ready to build relationships between the two. Previously, only I existed, I did not take into account the opinion of another person, I thought that everything revolves around my interests. She did not know how to compromise, did not know how to forgive, be tolerant. And then the moment came when I realized: the endless race "work - work - work" must end. I wanted to live for my own pleasure - after all, the children (Julia is 47 years old, she has two daughters from different marriages - Lolita, 23 years old, Alice, 19 years old. - Approx. "Antennas") have already grown up. But I never thought that I would fall in such a crazy love. It seemed that even if I met a person, I would not feel such an endless need for him, it would be unbearably bored in his absence. As we age, we become more tolerant. There is a number - good, no - you can survive. And then I saw a man who cares so much about me. And I realized: such a chance is given to a few. And it should be appreciated and protected. On June 26, Bo and I celebrated our first wedding anniversary. We consider ourselves newlyweds, we feel like at 17, with the only difference being that now I am completely confident in the person who is nearby.

Lucky case

I have lived in several countries for a long time. In addition to Russia and Spain, Montenegro has become my home. There, two years ago, in the fall, Bo and I met, met in the company of mutual friends, to whom I came for a birthday. It was celebrated at a fish picnic in the mountains. It so happened that Bo and I were seated side by side at the table. As soon as I saw him, I immediately realized: this will be my man, the one I dreamed about.

Bo then spoke Russian, but very badly, now it is much better. He is from a multinational family: mother is Italian, father is Croatian. Hence the knowledge of Russian. Croatia is part of the former Yugoslavia, and there, at one time, Russian was taught in schools, just like we taught English. But now Bo and part of his relatives live in Montenegro, another part - in Italy.

After the picnic, Bo went to see me off, we walked by the sea for a long time and talked. For 8 years since I bought a house in Montenegro, I have mastered Serbian quite well. We talked all evening, Bo sang “Katyusha” to me, read poetry in Russian, childish, primitive, which he remembered from school curriculum. By the way, Bo had an A in Russian at school, but for so many years a lot has been forgotten, and he didn’t have friends from Russia either. At that time, he had never been to Moscow, although he had traveled all over the world. Bo did not even know then who I was, except that I was Russian, who had lived in two countries for many years. We met with him the next day again, and then we did not part ...

Leave and I will die

There was a case. Sympathy between us began immediately and quickly grew into a great feeling. But Bo wanted me to radically change my life, wanted to take me in an armful, live together happily ever after and die on the same day. And at first I was completely unprepared for this.

Although I felt great with him. What else to dream about? To my great happiness, I got the one I wanted - a man without a past, free, single, unencumbered by children, accomplished, self-sufficient, purposeful. He is 45 years old and has never been married. Bo was a businessman, now a member of the ruling party of Montenegro, pursuing a career in politics. But family life it didn’t work out for him, and he long ago resigned himself to the fact that he would live like a bean. Until I showed up...

Our happiness was hampered by the fact that I had to visit Moscow from time to time. And my endless flights from Russia to Montenegro began, after a while they both got tired of us. My work demanded my presence in Moscow, while Bo wanted to see me around all the time.

I honestly tried to live together. We stayed for a month. Everything was wonderful. But Moscow's frantic rhythm and quiet Montenegrin regularity are like two around the world. There all the time polako-polako, which means slowly, slowly. I felt comfortable in this regularity for a maximum of a week, and then I started to get bored. It seems that everything is fine, you are sitting on the seashore, drinking coffee, relaxing, you are providing for your husband, but I am used to a different rhythm. And it didn't take long for me. And although I understood that I didn’t want to work for wear and tear, as before, I wasn’t ready to live like a pensioner either.

This was the only moment in which we did not find mutual understanding. A guest marriage is such nonsense, I don’t know who it can suit. But I did not understand what to do next, and said to Bo: either let's part, or continue to live in two countries. Then our one and only happened serious quarrel. The conversation took place at his house, I told him everything and went to my place. And soon his brother called me, and I rushed to the hospital to Bo. It turned out that after our conversation he had a rise high pressure He was taken to the hospital in an ambulance with a hypertensive crisis. I saw that without me, Bo simply could not live ...

Finding a compromise

We realized that we need to look for a way out. We agreed that for the time being we live in two countries. I'm not ready to move completely yet. For Bo, it was a very difficult decision. We agreed that it would take time. Moscow has given me a lot, and I am not able to give it up right away. But it is possible that over time I will nevertheless decide to move to him and will be less likely to visit Moscow.

When Bo has the opportunity, he flies to Moscow. Visited here for the first time a year ago. And he really liked it here. I recently spent a couple of weeks in Moscow again. Every time I fly away, I expect to have time to do everything in a few days. But it doesn't always work out. So this time I was going for 7 days, and Bo had already planned our joint vacation in Greece after my return, and I was late. Realizing that I would not be in time for the date he had planned, I tried to convey everything to him very tactfully. Bo is starting to get used to such a life, learning to compromise, understanding that these are the circumstances so far, recently said: you see, I am also starting to change. He sincerely believes that soon I will come to the conclusion that most I will spend time in Montenegro. Perhaps it will. Everything changes.

I am also learning to make concessions, once again I will keep silent so as not to create a conflict, which is not at all typical of me. Over the years, you understand: if you love a person, you feel good with him, what's the point of quarreling.

Bound Before God

We met Bo in the fall of 2014, and in the spring of the following year we went to Venice, where his relatives live. It was there that Bo proposed to me. It was like in a fairy tale: Venice, romance, a gondola, a gondolier's song, when Bo took out the ring, he even shed a tear. We got married there in Venice.

Then I met his relatives. The family received me wonderfully. No one studied closely, did not consider, accepted as own daughter. They were so glad that Bo had met the woman he loved, his father couldn't wait for this to happen. Until recently, they did not believe that this was true.

I'm lucky that Bo from Orthodox family, not a Catholic. He has a deeply religious family, they constantly go to church, they are attached to the community. When I first came to their house, I was surprised how carefully they prepared for the meeting. They prepared so much food, they did it all night, they made a huge table. They tried to feed me with all the dishes that were, they called me fragile, they were worried that I was not eating enough. Relatives from all over the world came to meet me, we talked a lot, they were interested in learning the news about Russia. Everything went so well. I have never felt such a bonding of relatives. I grew up in a family with different orders. For me, all this is a curiosity. And here I found not only a loved one, but also a huge family, where they love me, they accept me with joy.

My relatives already knew that I was a writer from Russia. Papa Bo, who was then alive (he passed away two months ago), told how one day they were sitting in some place and a man was selling books in Russian. They asked him if there was Shilova, and he replied: “What are you, this is an exclusive!” That man joked, and they were so happy, proud. Later I brought them a couple of my books, and now they are on the shelf next to a photo of them. big family and pedigree. Later, Bo's dad gave me a family heirloom, a 400-year-old ring. It is passed down from generation to generation to the son's wife. I was pleased that he was now entrusted to me.

Last September, while walking around Montenegro, Bo and I stumbled upon the church of St. Spyridon. For me it special sign- I constantly come to the Moscow church of this saint, which is on Kolomenskaya, but I still can’t get in - it’s closed. In this Moscow church, St. Spyridon's slipper is kept, according to legend, if you touch it, good luck will come to you. And then, as if fate sent us this temple.

This is where Bo and I got married. We arrived at the temple the next day, met the priest, who is now mine spiritual father. The wedding ceremony was very touching, Bo's relatives gathered. In their family, marriage is much more important than registration. According to the rules, relatives do not have the right to be witnesses during such an event, and we did not have friends around then. Therefore, the wife of the priest and his brother became witnesses. And according to local religious canons godfathers become family members. So now we are related, we communicate, we come to each other with gifts, we meet.

Don't be afraid to be weak

For the first time I am not married, but to my husband. In the full sense of the word. Next to me is a man. It so happened that in a past relationship I was a man. Now I am weak, defenseless, I don’t want to be strong at all, I’m not afraid to relax, I’m not afraid to get sick. I can complain, even cry, which I have never allowed myself in front of a man in my life.

Bo and I agreed that to solve all the problems I have a husband. Before all the time I tried to prove that I can do everything myself. I really shifted so much to my husband that I don’t understand how he manages everything. Although that's probably how it should be. The maximum I can do here in Moscow is to quarrel with the HOA, and only because Bo does not speak Russian well. Otherwise, I wouldn't have allowed it.

Bo goes out of his way just to please me. No one has treated me with such attention, care, no one has loved me so much. He calls me several times a day, it seems that he is interested in everything that happens to me, he will not go to bed until he is sure that everything is in order with me. Somehow my facial nerve got inflamed, so he dropped everything and flew the first plane from Montenegro to Moscow for a few hours, brought antibiotics that are not on sale here.

We live on the money we earn. He doesn't take my Bo, he gives it to me, he doesn't hide the money. Flowers, gifts, constant travel. I don’t expect castles, planes, golden mountains, but I don’t need this. I am an adult. She didn't marry an oligarch.

My husband's family accepted my children very well. He himself does not try to be their father, and there is no need for this - the daughters are already adults. He communicates with the eldest, Lolita, here in Montenegro, he sees Alice when he is in Moscow. Bo became for them good friend ready to help in difficult times.

Bo has many interesting friends. He introduced me to an Italian publisher, who at first did not believe that I had written 112 books, and then became interested in my work. Maybe this meeting will become a landmark for me. So far, everything is at the level of conversations, but there are interesting prospects abroad.

My husband did not read my books. His spoken Russian is not bad, but he cannot understand more complex ones. And why should he, an adult accomplished man, women's novels? In another marriage, when I lived with a Russian man, I was offended that my husband did not read my books, but now it does not matter to me. I dedicated a piece from the author to Bo in the book, sent it by e-mail. Bo was so moved, even shed a tear.

I moved into Bo's house. I wanted to pamper him with Russian dishes, put him on borscht, my favorite okroshka, but he didn’t understand her at all, he says: how can you eat this? He didn't mean to offend me though. And here is their favorite a national dish Chorba - rich vegetable soup without potatoes - I mastered a long time ago. But I rarely cook. In Montenegro, there is a slightly different way of life, they don’t cook there every day, as in Russia, and, frankly, I relaxed. We have breakfast in a cafe, dinner in a restaurant. It was I who, in my youth, tried to prove something to my husband, stuck out at the stove just to please. Now I'm saving myself, I'm sorry. I was asked to just be healthy and beautiful, and that's what I'm doing.

Accept if you like

And what feelings Bo and I are overwhelmed with. We, like teenagers, hold hands, look at each other with loving eyes. Those who knew him were shocked, they could not imagine that such a serious man fall in love like a boy.

Of course, there are small nuances that hurt me, but I don’t even notice them, because I understand the reason and love him. So at first it seemed to me that Bo was talking very loudly, gesticulating a lot. I asked him: why are you screaming like that? But then I realized that it was in his blood, he is half Italian, and this is a very emotional nation. But you can get used to such little things. When you accept it, you realize that it's all nonsense.

I understand that next to me is a person who has something to respect. Bo holds a serious position in the ruling party of Montenegro. Now I am also aware of the political situation in the country, I follow everything. I worry when there are some clashes and strikes near the Government House. Bo in such situations should be inside the building, I worry, no matter how it comes to something serious, he reassures - he sends text messages, photos.

The social Moscow life was not enough for me and still is not enough. Especially Bo from morning to evening at work. Even now, when I come to Russia, I immediately plunge into the thick of things, so I need to see people, feel the rhythm big city. But I will reduce the rhythm of work, the number of contracts, I will adjust to Bo's schedule. Still, it's time to live for yourself, for your loved one. I raised my daughters, built a house, wrote more than a hundred books, I can settle down and just spend time with a person with whom I am on the way. I want to travel, see the world, but I don’t feel like working hard, proving something, waving a saber, shouting that I’m the best. I want to write only to maintain the brand, and more - to enjoy life.

Wish and you will be given

I have so many girlfriends, acquaintances who do not believe that you can meet your destiny at any age. So many desperate women. When I was alone, everything seemed to suit my friends, but as soon as they got married, they immediately began to cry about how bad they feel alone. I set them up so that everything is possible. And my example is good for them. They began to believe that normal men exist. Imported or Russian, what nationality - it does not matter. The main thing is that yours.

But you just need to send the right request. When you say there are no men, there won't be any. You will assume that everyone is bad, and such will come across. As soon as you change your consciousness, you tune yourself to the thought: how much interesting men around and they will appear. You begin to dream of an unmarried, problem-free, without children - and this will appear. And even now, when they ask: where to look for a husband, I answer: go to holy places. Religious people will not betray. They are reliable, they have a developed sense of family, completely different values ​​in life.

Meeting Bo helped me see a different side of life. We are used to chasing something somewhere, to hurry, and then I realized that there are ordinary joys, I feel absolutely happy. I was ready for this relationship. I'm afraid of one thing: to talk about them so as not to lose them.

Elena Shilova - Russian actress, whose fame was brought by bright roles in the TV series “Donut Lucy”, “Honey Love”, “Cornflowers”, “Waiting for Spring”, “Forget-Me-Nots”, “Elder Wife”, “My Sister, Love”, etc.

Childhood and youth

Elena was born on December 6, 1988 in the city of Solikamsk Perm Territory. Despite the fact that not a single member of the Shilova family is connected with the world of cinema or theater, at the age of 6 Lena decided that she would certainly become a movie star. Probably, the girl was pushed to this by additional classes at school - the history of the theater, vocals, dance.

After leaving school, Lena entered VGIK the first time and became a student of the course of Valery Vladimirovich Fokin. During the years of her student life, Shilova brought up in herself boundless respect for acting profession and fully realized the responsibility to the audience.

Career

For the first time on the set, Shilova was still in her senior years at the institute - Shilova was approved for a supporting role in the 4-episode melodrama "White Pouring". The next three roles in the series "Queen's Sisters" and " White crow"And in the military film" The Spaniard "although they were not the main ones, they resonated in the hearts of the audience.

In 2011, director Alexander Itygilov Jr. approved Elena for leading role in the serial melodrama "Donut Lucy".

“Of course, I understood that this was my first major role and it was very responsible, especially when there are such partners nearby,” the actress recalled.

On the set, she met with Alexander Konstantinov, Olga Prokofieva, Tatyana Kravchenko.

By the way, it was not easy for a fragile girl to play a “doughnut” - make-up artists developed special face pads for Elena, and a slender figure was hidden under large-sized clothes.

Soon the young actress worked again with Itygilov - in his melodrama "Honey Love" Shilova appeared this time in the form of an old-fashioned girl who lives in a patriarchal village and is completely unable to fight for the attention of young people.

2012 was more than successful for Elena. 4 projects with Shilova in the title role appeared on TV screens at once: “Cornflowers”, “Waiting for Spring”, “Mermaid” and “Anechka”. The actress also starred in a supporting role in the next series of Itygilov Jr. "Mute".

It is noteworthy that due to the pronounced Slavic type - large Blue eyes, long blond hair and a blush on her cheeks - at the beginning of her career and subsequently, Shilova often received the roles of simple village girls who are experiencing the hardships of love or facing the trials of the "big city".

In 2013, the 26-year-old actress got the role of a woman "slightly over thirty" in Alexei Karelin's melodrama "A Weighty Feeling". Elena masterfully conveyed the image of a charming hostess who, having gained weight, ceases to attract her husband. The film premiered in September 2015 on Russia-1 channel.

The next role of the actress was the young Anfisa in the serial historical film directed by Teimuraz Esadze "Two Winters and Three Summers", which takes place from 1942 to 1972. Soon, fans were able to see the actress in the TV series Forget-Me-Nots, in which Elena traditionally played a naive provincial conquering the capital and unrequitedly falling in love with officer Artyom (Anton Pampushny).

2014 was marked by Elena's two main roles in the series Change in an Instant and My Sister Love. In 2015, Elena starred in the melodramatic saga "The Sun as a Gift", and a month later, Shilova could be seen in the television series "Stalin's Diamonds" based on the works of Yevgeny Sukhov.

In the autumn of 2015, the Ukrainian audience was able to appreciate the performance of the actress in the mini-series "Welcome to the Canary Islands" directed by Vladimir Kharchenko-Kulikovskiy, with whom Elena had previously worked.

In mid-2016, the melodrama “Debts of Conscience” by Alexei Karelin was released on the Russia-1 channel, in which Shilova played the main role - the saleswoman Tatyana, who is experiencing personal tragedy and betrayal of a loved one. Elena Shilova's personal life In 2015, Elena gave birth to a daughter, but Shilova prefers not to disclose the name of the child and the girl's father.

The actress leads instagram and often pleases fans with cute shots from life.

Elena Shilova now

In October 2017, the mini-series “Until Death Do Us Part” was released on Russia-1, starring Elena Shilova, Alexei Zubkov, Natalya Lukeicheva and Nikita Tezin. Born in the city of Artem in the family of Vitaly Olegovich and Lyudmila Andreevna Antonov.
His father was a criminal investigator, his mother worked as a dispatcher at an electrical substation. His parents divorced early and his mother remarried.
As a child, she studied at the ballet studio. After school, she left for Moscow, tried to enter all theater schools, but did not go anywhere. Traded at the Riga market. After some time, she returned to her hometown and left from there with a dance show on a long tour to Japan. There she met her future husband. She returned to Russia, got married and lived with her family in Vladivostok. After the death of her husband, she sold everything and left for Moscow. Started selling drugs. In 1998, after the default, she lost business. Survived the attack, ended up in the hospital, suffered several the most complex operations. Having recovered, on the advice of a friend, she began to write action-packed novels. Becoming famous writer decided to get higher education and went to study at the Moscow Humanitarian Social Academy.
She published books: “Hostage of Fear, or the Story of My Loneliness”, “Beyond Paradise”, “The Price of Success, or a Woman in a Game without Rules”, “Punishment by Beauty”, “Market Happiness”, “High-society Thieves, or It’s Not Beautiful to Live forbid!", "In the name of money", "The embodiment of passion, or Beauty is a great test", "Girl from service 907", "Child of vice, or I will take revenge" "Diary of a selfish, or Men go to red", "Dossier my mistakes, or how I got myself a little man,

The famous writer became the unwitting culprit of a great family tragedy. Yulia Shilova found herself in a very difficult and ambiguous situation. Over the past time, her phone has received calls from an unknown woman who accused the writer of allegedly stealing her husband from her. Simultaneously with these calls, the wheels of Yulia's car were punctured twice in a week. Wanting to understand what was happening, Shilova turned to her security guard with a request to establish round-the-clock monitoring of the car. That same night, the guard noticed in the yard of the writer at the Lenin Trials sneaking up to the car ... Yulia herself! “I was almost speechless,” said the guard Shilova. - Imagine, under the cover of night, I see Yulia Vitalievna walking to her car with a screwdriver in her hands. I immediately jumped out of the car from which I was observing and rushed to her with shouts of “Yulia Vitalievna, what are you doing!?”. She tried to run away, but I managed to catch up with her. Close up, I saw that it was, of course, not Yulia Vitalievna, but a girl who looked very much like her. She began to cry. I put her in my car and immediately called Yulia Vitalievna and told her about what had happened.” Despite the rather late hour, Shilova asked the guard not to call the police, but to go up to her apartment with the girl she had caught. The writer decided to figure out what was happening on her own. “When I opened the door, I was just stunned,” Yulia admitted to Paparazzi. - My guard was standing on the threshold, and next to him was a girl absolutely similar to me. She was shaking all over, she could not utter a word. I cried all the time. I gave her tea and only after 20 minutes she began to tell me her story. The girl's name is Katya. She has been married for 12 years. Relations with her husband have always been good, but a few years ago her husband became my fan. I bought all the books, began to collect all the publications about me in the press. After some time, he asked his wife to dye her hair white, all the time he cited me as an example to her. He asked me to do similar makeup, to dress in my style. At first, Katya was calm about the strange requests of her husband, but after a while he even sometimes called her by my name. The family began constant scandals. The girl lost her nerve. Of course, that calls with accusations came from her. In desperation, in order to somehow force out her resentment, she found out where I live and punctured the wheels of my car twice. We talked almost all night. Katya realized that I am not a monster and not a monster who wants to deprive her of her husband. Actually, I'm not to blame for anything. The girl understood all this, and it became easier for her. I asked if she wanted to divorce her husband? She answered in the negative, she loves her husband, and her husband is madly in love with her. As it turned out, my husband does not personally feel any love feelings for me, he just wants his beloved wife to be like me. Of course, in the morning my head was already spinning. I really wanted to help Kate. I left her to spend the night at my house, and the next day we went with her to a psychologist. I don't know what about behind closed doors they talked to the doctor, but when she left the office, Katya smiled for the first time, hugged me and thanked me. She said that she now knew how to behave so that her family life returned to normal. I promised Katya that I would give her everything needed help and the support that she can contact me at any time. I really hope everything goes well. I think that in the near future I will meet with Katya and her husband, and together we will be able to return peace and harmony to their family. I really believe in it."